should i break up with him????

Question

omg...my date is so boring. i ahve had boring dates before but this guys is like i wanna slit my own eye out boring. all he does is talk about wall street dow exchange and stocks and business finance an stuff. my god! and it doesn't even matter what iam wearing or how much i flirt with him. i have no more smiles and nods left to give.
he even brought a brief case on one of our dates..my god! and he read the paper while i was in the bathroom touching up.

i have held out for three weeks hoping he would change because he is sooooo hot, and can be sweet at times and makes good money. bu he is a bore hole!

anyone ever experience this?? what do i do??

Answer 1

Hi, talk to him let him know wats wrong if he still ignores you,move on coz ultimately its the inner satisfaction that matters in a relationship

Answer 2

Sometimes you have to give and take a little.

I dated this one guy that was from France. I swear... half of the things he talked about I couldn't understand a word he was saying because his accent was so thick. But DAMN he was so good looking! I was totally okay with just staring at him and half a&& understanding what the hell he was saying. My friends thought it was funny... that I'd continue dating someone that I couldn't understand. But I did.

He had a good job, (software engineer), made a good money and was HOTTER THAN HELL! Oh my he was HOT!! But eventually it didn't work out. As time went on... and from what I could actually surmise from the conversations with him... he eventually wanted a stay home wife. SO NOT THE ONE! .

But anyway... it sounds like this guy life is his work. However, I say... interrupt him and just tell him... let's talk about something else. You'd be surprise... he might be very receptive to that. Maybe he just doesn't know what else to talk about cause you are just sitting there listening to him hoping that his eye balls will pop out over what you are wearing. Maybe and just maybe... he totally notices what you are wearing... but yet... he doesn't want to give you that satisfaction of knowing that. AND maybe just maybe he's testing you. Maybe he's saying to himself... I know I'm a good catch... I'm gonna see how long this chick is gonna last with me boring her to death! Hee-Hee... you just never know with these guys nowadays. Especially the good-catches that makes good money and are HOT all wrap in one! If you sit through his dry stock exchange one-sided conversations... maybe he has in his little dow jones head... that this is definitely the one for me!

Hang in there... especially if he's cute and you like him outside the boring conversations! AND find some comedy in it all.. if you like him... you like him...and just tell him... you bore the f*ck out me talking e-trade and bulls and bears. Let's talk about some other sh*t. You know girlfriend? Be vocal.. especially if you WANT HIM!

Answer 3

For one thing, stop with your spiritualistic language, it is quite offensive and politically incorrect, and I must mention, using anything to do with God so vain! By spiritualistic, I mean OMG and MY GOD, and those who use Jesus Christ, like He is nothing but dirt to them.

As for the guy, he is like the majority of men, looking to fulfill his duty to a woman by taking care of her financially, this is part of a man's nature. You will have to be pacient with him, many men don't actually mature to realize that they need to give their women love, that's often why there are so many breakups, it's not because a couple has little finances to take care of things but because the man thinks he needs to do some big time providing and doesn't supply his wife with love, we need a balance to keep a relationship together.

Maybe you 2 just don't connect on some things, or maybe you need to sit down and discuss what I have written with him, if he is mature enough, he will see that you care about what both of you want and you will get a connection with him, if not, maybe this hot guy is someone you will want to question being involved with for the rest of your life.

Blessings in the meantime!

Answer 4

If you are that bored with him already, then by all means, break it off. Why put yourself thru such a bad time when you haven't even been dating that long.

Better to stop seeing him now, and find someone you are more compatible with than to let this drag on any longer.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

i think you should know the person before getting in a relationship, in that way you would have enough time to make a decision weather or not this is the person you want to be with.

No. i never had that experience before

but don't break up with hi feeling, hurting someone feelings i dreadful, but you should tell him what you like from what you don't.

Answer 7

If you are just going out to dates with him, and haven't made anything exclusive, then just walk away.
That's what the dating scene is all about. Finding someone who you connect with.

Don't let looks and money do the judging for you. Find someone who's PERSONALITY you fall in love with. Not their pocketbook or their physical attractiveness (remember, looks fade.)

Answer 8

Wow he seems exciting! jk but you should break up with him because your in it just for the money and because he is hot, thats not good that just means your shallow, no offense but if he had a good personality...would you go out with him...but yeah he is boring and not into you so yea do it

Answer 9

You didn't mention what your feelings are for this guy, and that makes all the diff in the world. Do you care deeply for him? Deeply enough to find other common grounds? If not, it sounds like you're wasting your time.

Answer 10

your only three weeks into dating this guy and hes not giving you any attention and all he really is worried about is his job and impressing you with **** like that then girl....screw da fact that hes hot and move on ! there are better guys out there maybe not as great lookin or maybe even better lookin that will actually take interest in YOU and are not obsessed with them selves!!!