I really like this guy and i want to know what i have to change about myself.
2006-12-24 17:13:37 · 24 answers · asked by Chica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ill tell you one thing right now, you shouldnt change yourself just for a guy. i get really annoyed when my friend says this but, there will always be someone else. i know that hes probly the one person that you really want, b/c i know how that feels. i have a girlfriend, and i know the only way she would still love me is if im just myself. you shouldnt change just for some guy.
2006-12-24 17:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Real Oneofseven 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All guys look for a freak in the sheets but a lady in the streets.
Guys need a woman that he can feel like is his, and he cant feel that way if she has ben around the block.
Your physical is not the most important attribute to mist guys, your moral standards is, and if a guy tell you different it is because he wants to have sex.
When with a guy, we all expect to get oral sex performed on us. There is such a bond when it comes to oral sex.
If you thin ka guy wants you because of sex, you are fooled. Sex is good, but if you give it up too early, there is no respect.
A guy wants someone that he can respect, not someone that he ***** and leaves....
2006-12-25 01:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the guy.
The only change you should make to yourself is change for the better. Do it for yourself and not some guy (or anyone for that matter). Do it because it makes you a better person, not better for a person.
What if you change yourself for him and he doesn't like what you have changed about yourself, then what will you do? Change again?
Good luck getting an answer on this one...
2006-12-25 01:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by A Good Man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let's see I answered something similar earlier.
Firstly to be able to change the sparkplugs in a 454 big block in 6 minutes flat. That and being able to do the Kessel Run in less than twelve parsecs.
Hope you fit the criteria.
All the best to you.
2006-12-25 01:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not a snob (rare species these days)
Pride in their appearance
Sense of humour, preferably dry for me
Loves to joke around
Smiles
Good looking
Loyal
Trustworthy
Likes to drink with friends but doesn't go to overboard and start talking trash and embarrassing herself
Good body
Good dress sense
I actually wonder if all the qualities I've listed actually exist in one woman...
2006-12-25 01:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do not change yourself for anyone. If you change yourself to get someone to like you then it is not really who you are. I can tell you what I like in women. Which are, a strong mind, intelligent, argumenative, compromising, and independent and last but not least honest and faithful.
2006-12-25 01:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by <}}}>< 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he was worth it, he'd notice you for who you are, and you wouldn't have to change anything about yourself. It's not worth it to change for someone, you'll be miserable.
Why is it that women as a whole cannot figure this out? Quit changing !! I know women who change their personalities from man to man. Eventually you peope will forget who you are. It's disgusting to me, honestly.
2006-12-25 01:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by Fed Up 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't change anything. Show him the real you. I'm engaged to a woman who is true to herself and the relationship is lasting through my family's hatred for her. I'me by her side and she's by mine. Both of us act like ourselves. We are both real. That's what makes a great relationship and a good start to one.
2006-12-25 01:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jeremy H 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DO NOT, I REAPET DO NOT EVER CHANGE ANYTHING ABOUT URSELF for a guy... u r perfect the way you are and you will find the right guy without having to change anything.
2006-12-25 01:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont change a thing, Chica!! If he likes you for you, then great - if he doesn't like you, find a guy who does! NEVER change yourself for a guy, ever!!!
2006-12-25 01:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋