who thinks my boyfriend/ babys daddy should stay living with me rather then move out and come over all the time to see me and his child ...... and do you think he is cheating on me if he wants his own place but still wants us?
please help ASAP
ps..... Marry Christmas
2006-12-24 17:13:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To answer your question YOU must look at WHY he wants to move out.
I can't help to notice you typed "Marry Christmas" do you have marriage on your mind and are pushing him? If so perhaps you are pushing too hard and he is not ready for the commitment or it scares him.
P.S. Merry Christmas!!
:-)~
2006-12-24 17:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is not mature enough to be a serious daddy. Good fathers never leave. You do not say why he wants his own place. Is it to still play around and act single? Then he is no longer your boyfriend if he does that. He can't have it both ways.
If he leaves is he prepared to contribute to the child's support? Having another place will only cut into his finances. The 3 of you can live much more economically under one roof than him living in a separate place.
He is running away from responsibility and does not want to grow up.
You don't need this kind of influence in your child's life.
Good Luck!
C-F
2006-12-24 17:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He has the right to move out if he wants to. He's not married to you and obviously there is no committment. Why it would really matter to you whether he was cheating or not is something else all together because I doubt there ever WAS a committment to begin with. Certainly doesn't sound as if there ever was one. I'm figure it's not YOU he would be coming over to see, and I recommend at this point filing for child support as soon as possible. Since there is no committment there I doubt there will be much in the way of financial support either.
2006-12-24 17:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if he wasn't cheating there would be no reason to leave, he wants u and the child and wants the other woman also. can never work out like this, he wants to be with u and see u at his convenience, when he says so. sounds quite selfish to me.
2006-12-25 02:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
cheating...
most definantly.
no question.
no man wants to up an live on his own with nobody there to ask a bunch of questions.. bug.. ask to cook...
an other crap... just 4 no reason..
ya know?
2006-12-24 17:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Aaliyah Morales 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he wants to move let him go...why are you wasting time on someone that don't want to be with you..
2006-12-24 17:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if he wants to move out he is probably cheating on you...
2006-12-24 17:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by beauxPatrick 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋