Ahhhhh i hate this?

Question

My mom is being so unfair to me right know... it's like i get no freedom but my older brothers get all of it. They get to do anythng that they want. whenever that want Yestyerday i went to the mall with mt best frined right! and she(as in my mom) got mad becauce aparently my brother saw me talking to some guy.(he showed up with his frined) ...! wtf i was not talkingot any GUY. i love them (mybrohters buti hate them what the hell should i do about this. it's frustrating me... my hairs going to fall out! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
guys help pleas!!!!
P.S i tried talking toher she just tells me everytime i try ot say something " you have two ears and one mounth " oooooo i hate when she says that

Answer 1

I know you don't like these answers at all. I was a lot like you. I'm going to guess you are the youngest. I am the youngest of 5 kids. My brother did the same thing to my sister that my sister did to me. Just like your brother, my sister's favorite thing was to make things up to get me in trouble. Even though I never saw it i found out later that my parent's knew half the time that I never actually did and she would get in trouble. Life with family gets better when you are older. They are just looking out for you. You will know how much they love and care for you when something goes terribly wrong. Until then life will just annoy you and seem unfair. Sorry the solution only comes with age!

Answer 2

here's good advice, take it: FOCUS ON YOUR STUDIES!!!!...because then you can MOVE away to college. :) haha. I had a High School sweetheart (3 yrs in HS) and Now we go to the same College.....yup, we're still dating :) and...we're 320 miles from home! My mom and I used to get into long "disscussions" (her yelling at me), all the time. You're mom is just trusting your "older, and wiser" siblings. She'll learn to trust you if you stop RE-acting to her questioning SOOO defensively, and start realizing the situation from her point of view. SHE is a mom. SHE trusts your bros. SHE wants you safe. SHE loves you, and thats what SHE probably wants you to know. Now, there's you. YOU aren't dumb. YOU are safe. YOU probably aren't doing anything to break your mom's trust in you. And YOU love your mom, but she doesn't "understand you". A tad bit more advice: Kid's aren't colons of their parents. They are also never "always around you", so how could you expect them to know you the way your friends do? They never will. My dad still treats me like I'm 11, and I'm ...not :) Thats okay though. A huge part of their(all parents') lives are centered around being a parent....so when the time comes, little by little, for them to let go--- its not only annoying for kids...its terribly hard on the parents. Even if you were talking with a boy and your bros ratted you out-- isn't it better that you learn to be trustworthy NOW...instead of later, because honestly- its never "safe" or "right" to go behind ANYONE'S back, let alone your own parent's. Anyway, good luck. :o) and Merry Christmas*!!

Answer 3

She is just being a mom. Parents aren't there to be your best friend they are there to teach you right from wrong and to protect you and love you. When you have children of your own you will understand. And older brothers seem like a pain too but they may just be doing their job as an older brother and protecting you as well. My older brother and sisters were horrible to deal with because of how protective they were although they really just wanted me to think they were being mean but once I grewup I knew that they all just loved me so much they wanted to protect me from the big bad world. Take a few breaths and relax. I know what it is like to the younger one. It will be ok.

Answer 4

I have the same problem. My mistress keeps me in a fenced area. I think that is very mean. Every chance I get, I try to run across the street to explore my neighborhood. Boy do I catch hell from my mistress. I just don't understand it. Woof!

Answer 5

relax hun okay i have been there im in college and my family is still trying to control my life. i know its hard i know it is but they just want whats best for you and i know what your feeling how i got threw that was my art im an artist and my art kept me sane so just try to relax some okay pick something up like read a book or something. in the end it will get better.

Answer 6

hehehehe... Don't worry, that is soooo normal. YOUR FAMILY CARES ABOUT YOU VERY VERY MUCH.... BE THANKFUL THEY CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU DO, AND IF YOU ARE ALRIGHT. You sound very young... in 2 or 3 years you will understand why ur mom does that... and u will love her even more... and appreciate what she did.

God Bless

Answer 7

You don't mention age but you sound immature. Listen to your mother. You'll be amazed at how smart she "suddenly" becomes when you grow up.