Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

Why is love with friends so hard?
I can't even find allow myself to go to clubs with her because I am afraid I will say something stupid around her. I think she knows I like her because of body language I give off. I catch her gaze sometimes, and she looks away really fast as if she is embarassed that I caught her looking at me.

Why can't I just accept in my heart that she is ONLY a friend. I want to be her best friend forever. Sometimes, I dream about more than that. But, I honestly don't think I could handle that nor she could handle that.

But, I look at ways she is treated. I want to be there and protect her, to guide her, to love her, to cherish her, to be her love and to be the one who lights up her life and makes her laugh. I want to be the one who wakes up next to her in the sleepy eyed mornings.

But, why do I have these feelings? Am I able to let go of these feelings of mine or will they always be a part of me? By the way, we are both girls.

2006-12-23 18:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-23 18:02:19 · 17 answers · asked by fantasticgirl 4 in Singles & Dating

its been four months she got married, i still think of her n miss her badly. iam also very jelously, every time when i see a couple or romance scene, suddenly the romance between her husand n my lovers flashes in my mind. its really hurts. before marraige she promised me that we will be lovers forever. till marriage she used to tell me that she loves me very much.
one day i called her after marriage(after 14 days). she talked to me like a stranger it even hurted me badly. after that she never called me back. recenly after 4 months i called her n the story is same, she says that i dont have any importance in her life. earlier i supported her very much. i think she forgotted all the favours done by me.

2006-12-23 18:00:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like her a lot and i think we like each other but i don't know what to do? please help

2006-12-23 17:59:19 · 22 answers · asked by As!Popper 2 in Singles & Dating

my grandpa (my moms dad) has diabetes and i think his dad had it what would be the percentae of my getting it, and if i dont get it could i still pass it on to my kids? if so what could i do to help reduce the risk of them getting it?

2006-12-23 17:58:57 · 4 answers · asked by pixie 1 in Family

O.K. this could be long so I am sorry about that one. My sister and I became close again about 15 years ago. I did everything for her children, my neice and nefews. Firt she left her kids with a not so great father, because she decided she was over being a mother. She didn't speak to them for 2 months. This is something that happend about 2 1/2 years ago. I have a daughter, I could never imagin leaving mine, for my own wants. She hurt these beautiful children so much, and it is still weighing on my 14 year- old neices heart. My sister is the type of person who is only worried about herself, no one else. She is still doing this to this day. So, with how close we were, how can I get it back??? It sounds awful, but I just don't feel LOVE towards her. She has hurt our family so much, but she never takes the responsiblity for her actions, everyone else is always to blame. I'm fine with only talking to her beacuse of the kids, but I care nothing about her. Is this right?

2006-12-23 17:58:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-23 17:58:40 · 7 answers · asked by T-Baby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband got mad at my daughter and threatened to not go with us on Christmas Day to my grandparent's house for dinner! I am very upset because everytime he gets angry he does stuff like this and puts lots of tension on me! Granted, my daughter did make him angry, but he must remember she's only 13! My kids are upset and I do not want our Christmas to be stressed or ruined! He loves my grandparents, but it is like he always threatens with stuff and says he isn't going, etc. It really hurts me and my kids! What can I say to him to calm and down and make him realize the importance of sharing Christmas with your family and sometimes letting things slide? Thank you for your help!

2006-12-23 17:58:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my ex girlfriend left me for some other foo at my school... she pisses me off beyond all beleif... and yet... she makes me want to break down when i think about her (which is like every five minutes). She said when she comes back from san diego, she wants to hang out... i know i still have feelings for her... and yet when i see her face... i want to go on a rampage like i occasionally do in the game GRAND THEFT AUTO. I would still do anything to this day to get her back.... forever.... what should i do???!!!

thank you for all answers and concerns

2006-12-23 17:57:35 · 4 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, i am 16 years old and I have never been able to bring myself to ask a girl out or to even dance. For the majority of my life, I have avoided girls. I just started talking to them last year basically. I've got some friends now but that's not good enough. I still get nervous around ones i don't know really well. Most girls now have had boyfriends before and i have no experience. It causes much pressure. I don't know how to flirt, i don't know how to attract girls, and i don't know how to ask a girl out.

Girls, what do you like? Guys, what seems to work? how do i pick myself up and start my life? i'm 16 and can hardly even talk to girls! I need help before it's too late!

2006-12-23 17:56:03 · 7 answers · asked by Tyler 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so i am going to start off saying that this is highschool drama at its best. I liked a girl in my school for awhile, but sum things were complicated she liked me blah blah blah, I finally got to the point to ask her on a date and she accepted. about the third date in, one of my "Best Friends" came out and said he liked her lying about it in the past, saying he didnt like any1 and how he would not back down blah blah. Well he was talking to her on aim her still. Now i ask her to go to the dance with me she accepts again everything is going great, now my friend after the dance asks her on a date why we are at an after party, and she always had a little crush on him, but has one on me also. Now she is stuck in the middle betweeen us, and it has gotten pretty big in the school to see who is going to get the girl. What do you guys think please help cause i am pretty much clueless what to do on the matter. Thanks Kyle...

2006-12-23 17:55:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this super hott sweet guy a while back ago. From day one he acted like he liked me. Everytime I see him in town he'd always ask me to chill with him. He never tried to do anything sexual or even make out with me. We just chilled and had fun. He works out of state so I hardly see him. But when I do,he does sweet things that gets me thinking he might actually like me. Just the way he's always slowly trying to get close to me, and the way he looks at me. Well this past time I seen him, he asked me if I had a boyfriend, I said no, and he was like "O really.. thats great news." Later that night.. we rode around with a couple friends,and we started making out. He wouldnt stop kissing me.. he kept on and kept on. Then when we stopped hed do sweet things like kiss my forehead, and ask me if I was uncomforable. Then later, he just left,,, w/o sayin bye (i had to first) and I havent heard from him since. Wat's up with that? What should I do in this situation?

2006-12-23 17:55:10 · 4 answers · asked by stefani 1 in Singles & Dating

At the moment we are mates but I would like it to be more than that. I have talked to two of my mates about this:
Mate 1 says: that i should just stay mates with her get to know her more and then hope that something happens.
Mate 2 says: that i should just go for it and ask her out.

Whats your opinion???

2006-12-23 17:55:04 · 21 answers · asked by JC 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 17:54:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright, the love of my life cheated on me almost a year ago with a girl from work. He and I were having problems, as most couples do at some point and there she was telling him that he should leave me and how horrible I am....blah blah blah, Im sure you can take it from there. I did not forgive him, I never forgive cheats. We split up and time after time he was begging for me back and I would never budge....Till now. He has shown me by not giving up over a years time and many many tears that he is sorry. Now what? I am in love with the man but he hurt me so badly. We are going to start counseling but do you ever think I will trust him again? I know that trust is very inportant in a relationship. Help me, I am so confused!

2006-12-23 17:54:43 · 28 answers · asked by blah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 17:54:41 · 7 answers · asked by Rao Sahab 1 in Singles & Dating

what should I do for me to be liked?

2006-12-23 17:54:12 · 7 answers · asked by Low Rider 1 in Singles & Dating

I don`t have much money left. i couldnt find anything. he`s 20. and i thought about making him a gift basket. and have little things in it. but i have no idea what to put in it. He doesnt really like much stuff. So if you have anything that may be creative. i would love if you helped me :]

2006-12-23 17:53:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 17:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well iam 19 and my g/f is 16 weve been dating for about 2 months well shes pregnant.we told our parents and their cool about it. And iam gunna take care of her and the baby regardless. but my question is this see her mom said that she can tell we really really like eachother and that i should ask her to marry me. Her mom also told me that if i ask her daughter to marry me then she will pay for a church wedding. i need some help heh iam just so confused do you think we are too young to get married or will it be best for the baby. Thanks (Shawn Bo)

2006-12-23 17:52:37 · 7 answers · asked by shawn b 1 in Singles & Dating

Differentiates a lot between him and her daughter. Actually both her son and daughter cannot handle and tolerate her. I have been keeping my distance but now she is telling me what to say to who and how to say and tells me to always defend her and her daughter in public. I am finding it so wierd but it would be disrespectful to say anything. I don't play family games and i don't like what she is doing but what to do..I am confused...

2006-12-23 17:52:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

For me, It happens in this order:
Their hair, what they say, & what they are wearing.

2006-12-23 17:51:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As much as I try to change myself for the better, I end up back right where I started with this mindset. I sometimes feel like a total @$$h0Le when I think about it.

2006-12-23 17:51:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 17:50:26 · 12 answers · asked by fromheaven 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 17:50:02 · 17 answers · asked by fantasticgirl 4 in Singles & Dating

I mean, they'll flirt and so interest in you. Drop hints like they want to hook up for a date. Then once they get you to show interest in them they back off.

Ever have this happen?

What's the deal, is this just a man who wants attention and is playing games?

2006-12-23 17:48:04 · 6 answers · asked by Sammie_Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i fix her broken heart.

2006-12-23 17:47:52 · 7 answers · asked by h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 17:47:39 · 25 answers · asked by suresh r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is all so weird to me!!
My husband has been devorced from his X-wife for nearly 30 years, and was married to her for six yrs.
He had a step son when they were married but it ended in devorce.
For years there was no contact between them, then my husband decided to track him (the step son) down.
He found him living in CA with a wife and family.
My husband and I have been married for two years now, and he
has repeatedly tried to push this X step-man down my throat,
by wanting me to eccept him as my step child, and treat him like one of the family.
I decided to post this question after getting a phone call from his
X-wife, telling my husband that his X-stepson was on his way to spend the holidays with us!!
I am still shaking from the anger I felt inside, especially when my
husband thought that was a good idea.
Not to mention the fact we already have family coming for christmas.
Am I wrong not to eccept him as my step son?

2006-12-23 17:47:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She left me, she is with another guy
flirting
What two love birds
She made her decision
So unreal

Love seems always stupid to me
but this time
I am cherishing every moments I have and can't help feeling crying

A stranger seeking confort.

2006-12-23 17:46:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating