I mean, they'll flirt and so interest in you. Drop hints like they want to hook up for a date. Then once they get you to show interest in them they back off.
Ever have this happen?
What's the deal, is this just a man who wants attention and is playing games?
2006-12-23 17:48:04 · 6 answers · asked by Sammie_Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MY BEST FRIEND CALLS THESE KIND OF MEN MIND F*CKERS!
2006-12-23 17:48:34 · update #1
Some men are just game players. Leave them be.
2006-12-24 06:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! i don't like it when a man acts as if he knows i'm gonna give him the digits. I mean, how does he know he's my type? Do he really think he is that good looking? I hate it when a guy acts as if he knows me or cross those personal boundaries right away...a BIG turn off.
2016-05-23 03:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either they're in it just for the chase or they don't recognize your subtle hints. You could try being a little more aggressive or direct in your responses to their flirtations and advances. I'm in sales so flirting with women (and vice versa) is pretty much a daily occurrence. That's usually as far as it goes. It's harmless and fun. The one time it went any further a co-worker simply asked if we could have lunch together. I never had any serious expectation that she intended pay for her own lunch. It's all part of the game and I appreciated just how direct she was about determing the potential for a promising relationship.
Good luck to you!
2006-12-23 18:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a male point of view, I think it could be someone who enjoys the chase but then loses interest once the initial chase is over, or they suddenly figure out that they won't be getting any and so they back off (where applicable). But some women have been known to do the exact same thing!
2006-12-23 17:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by TCSO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They aren't getting the feedback from their advances that make them feel like it's OK to continue. Once you are interested, your hints have to be more up front. Remember, men are very shallow and we don't recognize subtle hints. Be more aggressive.
2006-12-23 17:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its happened i guess they just want someone to flirt with but not to date.
2006-12-23 17:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋