Differentiates a lot between him and her daughter. Actually both her son and daughter cannot handle and tolerate her. I have been keeping my distance but now she is telling me what to say to who and how to say and tells me to always defend her and her daughter in public. I am finding it so wierd but it would be disrespectful to say anything. I don't play family games and i don't like what she is doing but what to do..I am confused...
2006-12-23 17:52:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stand up to your mother in law and tell her you do n ot play games and you would appreciate it if she would stop telling you what she wants you to say to someone----she has no control over you. She may not like what you have to say-but so what-I dont allow anyone to tell me what to or not to say---------my mother in law didnt like it either but she got over it--and yours will too. Some times they get smarter-it just takes a while for it to happen. Let he know where you stand.
2006-12-24 08:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother=in law is very immature & evil. My husband loves his mom but really doesn't like her. She thinks different though. Shes never accepted me cuz she cannot stand the thought of him loving another woman.Shes tried to fix him up w/ others & has totally disrespected me.She doesnt support me in any manner.My husband & I seperated I haven't heard from her at all. Now my husband has told me she can't stand me.OH WELL!!! U don't need people like that in your life do we?I have sons & I know I will always accept thier wife: Im not the 1 who has 2 b married to them. Whats worse we have children together and the tention has isolated us from doing holidays together etc...No wonder my husband doesnt try to be civil. Look at his role model. Instead of not getting along she should b giving him encouragement& treating me like a daughter instead of some trash on the street. She'll b sorry someday when her son will never again find a real love after Im gone!!!!In your case I would just blow her off .I dont blame u 4 getting into it w/ family.If she could b mature w/ u then maybe you both could work it out by talking about the problems. In my case how do U work something out when you've been told she hates U?
2006-12-23 19:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put that bicchhhh in her place! Don't be afraid! No one has put her in her place, so she thinks she is the boss. Let her know what time it is. Disrespectful????? If someone is WRONG and you call them on their bullshiiiiittt, that is setting them straight.
go do your thing girl!!! :)
2006-12-23 17:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't concern yourself with disrespect. She should get what she gives. Tell him to grow a set and take her down.
2006-12-23 17:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap that b.i.t. .c.h and throw her out of the house physically .merry xmas to you
2006-12-23 17:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by big_al225 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband should handle this matter with his mother
2006-12-23 17:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋