Why is love with friends so hard?
I can't even find allow myself to go to clubs with her because I am afraid I will say something stupid around her. I think she knows I like her because of body language I give off. I catch her gaze sometimes, and she looks away really fast as if she is embarassed that I caught her looking at me.
Why can't I just accept in my heart that she is ONLY a friend. I want to be her best friend forever. Sometimes, I dream about more than that. But, I honestly don't think I could handle that nor she could handle that.
But, I look at ways she is treated. I want to be there and protect her, to guide her, to love her, to cherish her, to be her love and to be the one who lights up her life and makes her laugh. I want to be the one who wakes up next to her in the sleepy eyed mornings.
But, why do I have these feelings? Am I able to let go of these feelings of mine or will they always be a part of me? By the way, we are both girls.
2006-12-23 18:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I do apologize about the long question.
2006-12-23 18:10:43 · update #1
Love acts in wierd ways!
Its obvious you have these feelings because you like her! You will eventually get over her, it wont be easy. Sometimes it may involve her to get another partner to finally realise you can't have her.
2006-12-23 18:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by Chris E 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its conceivable sure, yet do not forget that in case you adult men were to bypass out, and in case you broke up, you would possibly want to smash your friendship that you've now. each and every now and then that's complicated to easily stay friends once you've emotions for them though, so sure, you would possibly want to attempt going out with him yet basically prepare your self if the split were to end badly. some adult men opt for to nonetheless be friends after a split so i wager it basically relies upon how the split ends. there is an threat that you adult men will be more desirable than friends and nonetheless be friends if issues did not exercising consultation afterwards. in case you truly opt for to, take the prospect=) issues might want to exercising consultation regardless of each and every thing. nicely solid success & i am hoping i helped.
2016-10-16 21:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should talk to her about it... i think that one of the main reasons why it feels so weird is cause you are scared that it will ruin the friendship you have now........just let her know how you feel........tell her that you like her but let her know that you dont want the friendship to end if something goes wrong
2006-12-23 18:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by jenny_b2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for friends you want to behave at the best way possible.
2006-12-23 19:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very nice and kind to her but if you want her to like you a lot you will need to make her jealous a bit!!
2006-12-23 18:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by zarina s 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow that was long. did you copy and paste that off somewhere?
im confused!
2006-12-23 18:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by sd s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Coz you have the same feather.......
2006-12-23 18:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by jinx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋