Ok, so i am going to start off saying that this is highschool drama at its best. I liked a girl in my school for awhile, but sum things were complicated she liked me blah blah blah, I finally got to the point to ask her on a date and she accepted. about the third date in, one of my "Best Friends" came out and said he liked her lying about it in the past, saying he didnt like any1 and how he would not back down blah blah. Well he was talking to her on aim her still. Now i ask her to go to the dance with me she accepts again everything is going great, now my friend after the dance asks her on a date why we are at an after party, and she always had a little crush on him, but has one on me also. Now she is stuck in the middle betweeen us, and it has gotten pretty big in the school to see who is going to get the girl. What do you guys think please help cause i am pretty much clueless what to do on the matter. Thanks Kyle...
2006-12-23 17:55:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think im going to move on there is 3 or 4 other girls i just have liked this one for a year or so and i ended up dating her best friend last year so i had to wait awhile. i think im just going to move on
2006-12-23 18:05:48 · update #1
Well if you think she likes you more via gut feeling. i said challenge homeboy. he is wrong in the first place. he blatantly disrespected the friendship by talking to her. but on the other hand this could be a soulmate thing. we won't know until yrs down the road and they happen to still be 2gether. Think about it.....
2006-12-23 18:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right this is high school drama. In the scheem of life this is a very minor problem.
There is no law that your friend shoudln't be talking to your girl. But then if you aren't in a committed relationship the girl is free to talk to whomever she wants to.
Crushes come and go. You friend is a bit rude trying to get your girl, but hey, that is life.
I think you either need to ignore the guy and be a good bf to your gf. Or nicely tell your friend to back down. Or talk to your gal and tell her how awkward this is.
Who knows the girl might be playing both of you. This is JUST high school and even if your feelings are powerful....you have lots more life to live. Take all this in stride. Don't add to the drama. What will be will be. Concentrate on your education so you will be a good partner for a woman someday
2006-12-23 18:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well kyle my anwser to your question is this if your friend knows you like this girl and he keeps on hes not much of a friend then is he,and the next thing is if this girl really liked you she would tell this other guy to back off,it just sounds to me like this girl is playing the both of you and you dont need that life is to short for all of that so my advise to you is this there are plenty of other girls in the world find one that will care about you and only you and that will not play games with you because thats what shes doing,well good luck and i hope you make the right choice and always rember life nor likeing nor loveing someone is never a game and people do get hurt in these kind of situations ok
2006-12-23 18:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by DAVE S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow... nicely this sounds like truly a capture 22 situation. Your so called acquaintances at the on the spot are not performing pleasant and that i imagine you want to step decrease back and seem on the difficulty. Is it not time that you went searching for another acquaintances? it kind of feels that what you probably did replaced into very thoughtful, perchance existence saving. As a schoolboy, i must claim that telling a instructor in finished element may help you.
2016-12-01 03:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by boshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing - you won't feel this way, once you're out of high school. Most kids will date throughout their lives - she's not the only one. Trust me - my children have done the same thing. They dated someone then broke up and dated another; you will go through this cycle until you are mature and able to commit to one person.
You can confront her about the situation; just tell her you don't want to play the game.
Don't worry - be happy.
2006-12-23 18:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is some drama... ummm, I guess I would try to make her like me more, and make her like the other guy less... but just pointing out that you really like her and want to be with her... tell her all those mushy love things.... and tell her that he doesn't like her like you do... all of that...
Or you could end the drama early and just put all of your energy to another girl. Instead of waiting on the girl to choose one of you, find another girl and win either way!
2006-12-23 18:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuuh don't understand what u really need help on but it doesn't seem ur friend is such a friend if he's trying to take ur gurl. that's pretty messed on his part but thing about it who means more to u this gurl who won't even stay true to u or a friend who backsatbs honestly i think u should forget about both of them!! hope it all works out for u!!!!!!!!
2006-12-23 18:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by ghetto fabolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her before she decides. If you're not a clear choice anyway, she isn't worth it. Oh, and your friend is a douche.
2006-12-23 18:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by karis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "Best Friend" is a big jerk. Thats all I gots to say bout dat.
2006-12-23 18:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by orchidshel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is your bestfriend and for how long is she worth it if so you know what to
2006-12-23 18:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by hardroader67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋