Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

My husband comes home from work and sits on the couch everynight either playing games on his computer or watching TV. He's even go to the point where he will call the kids from another room to get him a beer, or soda or whatever from the kitchen that less than 10 feet away. He has gained so much weight that I am not attracted to him anymore which is causing problems elsewhere in the marriage. If I want anything done around the house I have to do it myself and take care of both of the kids with dropping them off and picking them up from practices. I ask him to do things and they never get done but the fans turned when he asked me to do something for him, you would think the world is coming to an end. The never finishes projects he starts in the house. He throws his clothes all over the place, not even close to the hamper. My kids think this is acceptable since they see him doing this. He dresses like a bum, grooming, huh,and I couldn't tell you the last time he brushed, he chews.

2006-12-23 17:46:22 · 22 answers · asked by smw_91 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not ugly, just so you know...Lots of people tell me I'm hot/pretty/whatever. Thing sjust never get past being friends.

2006-12-23 17:46:10 · 27 answers · asked by Miss Meagan 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 17:45:44 · 33 answers · asked by baby_girl83318 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 17:45:19 · 8 answers · asked by SweetieBear20 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 17:44:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-23 17:44:14 · 7 answers · asked by BOND, JAMES BOND 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so i'm in 7th grade, in middle school, And I like 2 guys, one named Kurtis, the other, Tim. Kurtis is in most of my classes and we usually chat and know each other well. But on the other hand, I like Tim, but I only see him in my Chorus Class and I don't know him very well, but I want to know him, but then again I ask myself, Why date a guy you only see in 1 of your classes, when you have another guy that has a better chance to actually be with? But I don't really want to ask myself that because that just gives me more stress. I don't know who to like more, I mean they are both hot, I have to say but I don't know what to think right now, help? :(

2006-12-23 17:43:34 · 2 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Singles & Dating

It seems like most of the guys I know are perfectly okay with "keeping it casual" until after the deed is done. Then they are suddenly possessive, like no one else should ever be able to play with the toy they were just playing with. What's up with that?

2006-12-23 17:43:07 · 9 answers · asked by freebird 3 in Singles & Dating

Quick background, we have been together almost a year and moved in together in a couple months ago. My wish list consisted of a bracelet, pendant necklace, earrings, cookbooks, etc. To my dismay he gave me an early present, an iPod. He thought I could run with it even though he knows I already have a shuffle for that, I guess he thought this was better. I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I happily accepted it and was determined to make the best of the gift. We took it on vacation but in all honesty I just have no need for it. It is 250 that I would rather have towards something I can really use. Then 2 days ago he asked if I want accessories for the iPod for Christmas...I clearly stated 'no' but I come home today to a new stereo made just for the iPod and a travel adapter so I can use it in the car! I am at a loss, what do I do?!

2006-12-23 17:42:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my good guy friends mentions quite often "why don't you have a boyfriend, you are very beautiful." and he calls me sexy or beautiful and is very touchy feely and grabs my sides and back a lot. He said that I was his best friend and we have a great time joking around with each other. He also jokes saying "ohh so and so likes you." I don't know what is going on inside his head, do you think he could be attracted or is he just being nice?

2006-12-23 17:42:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alot of thing change after marriage. divorce is the next what do you people think.

2006-12-23 17:41:45 · 12 answers · asked by meanie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i dint cheat on my girlfriend we simply got in an argument and we budded heads because we are both stubborn and we always think we are right...i want to make her something to show her that i am truly sorry for the argument because i started it and continued it for no apparent reason ..ive made her a scrapbook and written "im sorry" letters i want to make her something that will truly show her how sorry i am not for just this time but for every time ive made her sad please help!1

2006-12-23 17:39:23 · 17 answers · asked by brian g 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i recently hurt my exgirl's heart when i made her feel inadequate about sex. she is still a virgin and she's givin her all except for sex. i told her i can wait untill you're ready but after about 9 months, the wait takes it's toll. when i said what i said i didn't mean it in the context of her not giving me enough but thats the way she took it. for the pass week now she's been going out with other guys now but she said that they are just friends and she knew them since 10th grade. she told me that she has rejected there offer of replacing me because she still loves me, but she continues to go out with these people. should i do the same and try to get over her or should i just stick around and try to fix what i've broken?

2006-12-23 17:38:03 · 10 answers · asked by h 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u kiss??? do the lips just go together?
can u tell me about:
-open kisses
-french kisses
-passionate kisses
- and how to do it step by step or something plz
coz my boy wants to kiss me but i dont kno how

2006-12-23 17:36:04 · 11 answers · asked by cute_lil_surfer 2 in Singles & Dating

He loves me but is loosing intrest. calling dating lines exc. i would like to hear from a cheater how to keep a man from cheating!

2006-12-23 17:35:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanna take this. But i wanna know if it works? and willit help me loose my stomache? I need something. thanks in advance

2006-12-23 17:35:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had an arranged marriage. Today is my third day into marriage, and on the very evening of our marriage my wife told me not to touch her for at least two years... (Though I am clean, handsome, healthy,... and don’t have any problems that repel people)..... I don't want to divorce her, I can't hurt her either..... what should i do....

2006-12-23 17:34:17 · 46 answers · asked by ita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i hav nothing for my girl for chrimas i need some ideas from other girlsif u got a idea holler at me

2006-12-23 17:33:25 · 4 answers · asked by jjoe93 1 in Singles & Dating

I heard men cheat cuz they r bord or arnt getting what they want/need at home! how do you find out what that is if they wont talk to u? my bf has been calling dating lines and wont talk to me about what it it is he wants and isnt geting from me! he used to rock inbed and now well he cums fast and wont do anything to finish me! is it ok to cheat on him? i think he isnt intrested in me anymore and wants to cheat! should i cheat on him or can i fix the situation? i dont get y this is happining any real advice would be appreciated! by the by i dont want to loose my bf

2006-12-23 17:33:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is hard for me because there's a particular girl that I can't seem to let go, even though she's taken...in terms of her being married (bad...yes, I know). I mean I'm friends with her, but I'm also very cautious with what I do & what I say to her. In addition to that, does this make me a bad person?

2006-12-23 17:33:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I heard men cheat cuz they r bord or arnt getting what they want/need at home! how do you find out what that is if they wont talk to u? my bf has been calling dating lines and wont talk to me about what it it is he wants and isnt geting from me! he used to rock inbed and now well he cums fast and wont do anything to finish me! is it ok to cheat on him? i think he isnt intrested in me anymore and wants to cheat! should i cheat on him or can i fix the situation? i dont get y this is happining any real advice would be appreciated! by the by i dont want to loose my bf

2006-12-23 17:32:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 17:32:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay Im in a long distance relationship (about 2 hrs difference) hes in trouble right now so he cant come c me,, and I usually dont have the time to see him. He told me that when he gets out of trouble,, he'll make it worth the wait. And I still like him a little bit,, but not nearly as much as I did. so, Im not sure if I want to stay with him.. I also cant get over this one di c khead from where I live that likes me, yea I did cheat on my bf with him (call me a hoe if you want... but you know about 90% of the world's population has cheated at least once).... but he is playing games with me...... what do I say, I have a weakness for hot guys. And I don't know what to do. What would ya'll do if you were me?

2006-12-23 17:31:23 · 6 answers · asked by brandie 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 15 and i just met this girl at school and we are interested in eachother, but every time we talk on the phone i run out of things to say and i dont want to be boreing!!! So what should i be saying to keep her interested in me?

2006-12-23 17:31:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi all

I like a girl and I met her when I went back to India.
She is working in one of the bank and I met him when I went to the Bank.

Although I have her contact Number, but I am not sure which kind of things I should talk her about since I don't know her although I am one of her clients like a lot many others ..

Expecting to get some good suggestions from girls ...

2006-12-23 17:31:22 · 11 answers · asked by Manush K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been married 5 months and lived with my husband for a year before that. Ive become really testy and angry lately. Everything he does is annoying me. When he leaves everything open and running and leaves his pants on the floor and wont go anywhere with me. I feel some what neglected. I dont feel like he makes enough effort to clean up after himself and show me he cares and go out with me. Im starting school soon but ive been staying home cooking and cleaning for him. He never wants to go anywhere or go anywhere with me when i go to the store or etc. Ive been snapping at him when he does something annoying. Ive been very hurtful.Im stressed and ive let him know and we've argued and he has made no effort to be supportive or show me he cares with any jesture. How do i get him to see i need him to be there for me and feel less stressed by all the anything things he does and all the time i spend bymyself and when he comes home and doesn't want to go anywhere. He doesn't get it.

2006-12-23 17:30:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 17:29:41 · 10 answers · asked by Kimberly G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who is 15. She only dates older men (20-35 )because younger guys give her no attention at all and call her chubby. so thats why she went to older guys who give her more attetion and affection.Do you think this Is wrong and plus she's having sex with them too!!!

2006-12-23 17:29:33 · 19 answers · asked by Lovely 2 in Singles & Dating

My e-mai is:zrhacrb_2005@yahoo.com.cn.Please wtite to me if you have time.I will write to you at once.

2006-12-23 17:29:29 · 4 answers · asked by jonson 1 in Friends

I am a male

2006-12-23 17:29:14 · 5 answers · asked by Xzavier W 2 in Singles & Dating