2006-12-23 17:45:44 · 33 answers · asked by baby_girl83318 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes...
2006-12-23 17:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by shoe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's very wrong for him to take the vows of marriage and then to break those vows. I can only assume you are asking for yourself (only I hope that you are just posing a question out of curiosity or for a friend). It is not for anyone to judge (wrong or right) to have this baby, as long as you don't expect anything from this man. He can't keep promises. How do you expect him to take care of you and your child? I would ask you to put yourself in the position where this man were married to you and he was having an affair with someone else and then got her pregnant. Would you then have an answer to your question?
2006-12-23 17:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by coco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's still married and not getting a divoce, YES. All you're doing is having an affair, no good can come from it. You hurt yourself, your baby, the man, his wife. (their kids if they have any). What is good and sane about this picture? Women who pick a married man to live/love/be with are lacking self worth and they think he's going to leave his wife for the girlfriend. It seldom works that way. Do you read romance books ??? They aren't real... they are fiction, made up to be perfect. No one is perfect. I would suggest you seen a counselor, Dr, someone to get you some help. And leave Mr Married alone...
2006-12-23 17:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong. Speaking from experience, you will have a long road ahead, because he's not going to leave his wife especially if there are other children involved. Do you really want to be with a man who would cheat on his wife, because next it will be you getting cheated on. Trust me, cut your loses now, if you're going to have your baby get used to doing it alone and looking to find a SINGLE man who will love you and your baby. LEAVE HIM ALONE, nothing good will come from this.
2006-12-23 18:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in the mirror and ask yourself that question. How would you feel if you were married and the guy you're married to is going to be the father of a child from another woman? He was stupid to cheat in the first place, but it takes two. So tell me...is this baby going to be raised on welfare? I hope you know, he's not about to break his marriage just to be with you. If he's cheating on her, he'll be cheating on you, too.
2006-12-23 17:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do you knew that he was married from the get go and so you felt that if you got pregnant he would leave his wife and be a family to you and your child but now instead your babys father is going to have to be a secret cause he's never going to let his wife know about this child and if your looking for sympathy then i can only say that i feel sorry for the unborn child and that you should have have known better.
2006-12-23 18:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's guess your choice as long as you can live with the guilt of destroying another family.
But..it's not your choice if you have a child. The baby will have no father. He will be a second fiddle all his life.
Better move on and find a lasting relationship where you can plan some goals. Don't live life day to day.
2006-12-23 17:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by Neo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-23 20:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to make every possible plan for the health and well-being of you and your baby. It is wrong for a married man to have an affair outside his marriage. It is poor judgement for two sexually active people to have sex without protection.
Good luck.
2006-12-23 17:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! He is wrong and so are you. I don't know why women get involved with married men and vice versa. It is a guaranteed disaster. There are too many men/women in the world to get tangled up with somebody else's man/woman.
2006-12-23 18:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone will say yes because of society. It has taught us all that we should never cheat when married but one should never cheat period. But life is funny and who we fall in love with is beyond our control. If he's still with his wife and not with you then I would seriously think about not talking to him except for the necessary conversation about your baby.
2006-12-23 18:43:28 · answer #11 · answered by K-prod , KK, K-lizzle cousins call me all of those 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋