I have a friend who is 15. She only dates older men (20-35 )because younger guys give her no attention at all and call her chubby. so thats why she went to older guys who give her more attetion and affection.Do you think this Is wrong and plus she's having sex with them too!!!
2006-12-23 17:29:33 · 19 answers · asked by Lovely 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, she is dating older men, making them jail bait. She needs to have more confidence in herself and be positive. She needs to stand staight so it shows that she is confident in who she is and guys will love her for it. It doesn't matter if she's over weight, she can still be attractive. Being skinny does not mean being attractive.
2006-12-23 17:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by ExoTicA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to take her time and enjoy her youth, dating an older guys in their 20's is not a good move. One it is against the law and why would a MAN ( that's what she is looking for) date a 15 year old. She needs to look inside and find what makes her happy and if guy are calling her chubby and she is happy with herself then forget them and move on. Find something that she has a true interest in and meet someone her own age or closer to it. The biggest question is do you really need a man or young man to make yourself complete at this point?
2006-12-24 01:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when i was 16 i went out with a 25 year old guy then when i was 18 i went out with a 38 year old men
2006-12-24 02:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by $$$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEA!!! thats against the law and they can probably go to jail for that. how long has your friend been "trying" to get guys her age exactly? and they probably like her if the make fun of her..
2006-12-24 01:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes her think that old guys really care about her? and its sad how she is so deperate for attention at age 15. Tell her she needs to get her priorities straight.
2006-12-24 01:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ellie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well of course its wrong! 1st of all the age diffrnce!! i mean up2 20 is ok but 35???!!!! man! tell her 2 stop! advise her! she has to get attention frm evry1!
2006-12-24 01:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by sam_jal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she will edventuly get raped and she cant maarrie a guy 10 to 20 yeers older than her tell her to trie to date people younger. and if she gets mad at you and stuff tell her edvetully she will relize dshes wrong. shes gunna get raped or killed.
2006-12-24 01:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by lilkiz95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its wrong...youre friend has a self esteem problem and the older guys are taking advantage of that
2006-12-24 01:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by ytrewq 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a huge maturity difference. They're obviously taking advantage of her b/c she's vulnerable... It may be hard to do, but I think you should try to talk her out of this.
2006-12-24 01:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would have to ask what is really missing from her life that she pursues older men? a father figure? poor self esteem? she doesn't feel loved anywhere else in her life so she is seeking it elsewhere?
2006-12-24 01:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋