Double Crush, Help?

Question

Ok, so i'm in 7th grade, in middle school, And I like 2 guys, one named Kurtis, the other, Tim. Kurtis is in most of my classes and we usually chat and know each other well. But on the other hand, I like Tim, but I only see him in my Chorus Class and I don't know him very well, but I want to know him, but then again I ask myself, Why date a guy you only see in 1 of your classes, when you have another guy that has a better chance to actually be with? But I don't really want to ask myself that because that just gives me more stress. I don't know who to like more, I mean they are both hot, I have to say but I don't know what to think right now, help? :(

Answer 1

Slow down and take it easy. You are young enough to have years to develop a very serious relationship. You need to start by just finding out if you can have a boy as a friend before you can have a steady boyfriend.

Marriage is a lifelong relationship. Being engaged is learning about commitment. Going steady is learning about what is excluded and what can be included in you relationships with others. Having a boyfriend is learning how to relate with another human. Take each step as it comes.

Right now, you are not choosing a mate. You are learning how to choose a mate. There is a big difference. Communication is the key. Talk with Kurtis (but you do not need to mention Tim unless he asks). Talk with Tim as well. What do you have in common other than increasing hormone levels and approximate age?

First learn to communicate well. Learn to express yourself and learn to listen. Even if everyone else you know is rushing into "one boyfriend" act with greater wisdom. Learn about your emotions. Learn how one boy makes you feel. Learn about another as well. You have time on your side.

Answer 2

you just have to make sure one of them likes then stick with him hahahha