This is hard for me because there's a particular girl that I can't seem to let go, even though she's taken...in terms of her being married (bad...yes, I know). I mean I'm friends with her, but I'm also very cautious with what I do & what I say to her. In addition to that, does this make me a bad person?
2006-12-23 17:33:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it doesn't make you a bad person. But, just so you don't get into a big load of stress, Just be friends, I know it's hard to let go, but you know sometimes you just gotta let it go and be friends, i'm not saying you have to back away from her your whole life but you got to admit it, if I were you just go and find another girl to love, and cherish, it's for your good sake not your bad. :)
2006-12-23 17:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I met a girl at a Christian camp in Northern CA. Not many words were exchanged, but she was really nice. This was in June. Not one day goes by that i wish i would have said more. I know this may seem like puppy love since i am only 15, but either way, i don't care. I had so many chances, but took none.
2006-12-23 17:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it becomes obsession to where you're invading her and her husband's space or you're neglecting responsibilities in your life because of obsession- you need to get some help. Try individual or group therapy or a 12 step program. If you're just running this through your mind because you're hot for her and it's not cause you or others problems - get a hobby or a pet.
2006-12-23 17:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people fall for unavailable people because they are too afraid of a real relationship with intimacy. Maybe you need to think about why you are so attracted to her.
There are plenty of unattached women who are attractive and nice.
Stay away from her, she is just a fantasy, an infatuation.
2006-12-23 17:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sammie_Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about her and if you get her then her cheating on you with another person how would you feel if that happened? You would know her loyalities are elsewhere. You would feel terrible knowing she was with another man by her choice she didn't want to be with you. If you play with fire you eventually will get burned.
2006-12-23 17:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help how you feel about her. At least you respect that she's married and are trying to back away from her.
2006-12-23 17:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not a bad person..... **** happens go for it
2006-12-23 17:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by bongtokingsk8er 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋