its been four months she got married, i still think of her n miss her badly. iam also very jelously, every time when i see a couple or romance scene, suddenly the romance between her husand n my lovers flashes in my mind. its really hurts. before marraige she promised me that we will be lovers forever. till marriage she used to tell me that she loves me very much.
one day i called her after marriage(after 14 days). she talked to me like a stranger it even hurted me badly. after that she never called me back. recenly after 4 months i called her n the story is same, she says that i dont have any importance in her life. earlier i supported her very much. i think she forgotted all the favours done by me.
2006-12-23 18:00:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you need to leave her for her husband to handle. You need to get on with your life do not chase her and spoil yours and her life. Give it a break you can find someone more loving and caring and trust-worthy. Any way she was not trust-worthy as per your details.. then why to worry forget her and go on with your life. Life is precious do not waste for nothing. Time is the best healer remove all belonging that are having her memory good time to do some charity.Do not try and contact her on the contrary if she contacts you, you should behave as if she is a stranger to you.You will be best at it wake up tomorrow morning thinking this was just a dream and you have to live in reality...
Best of Luck
"earlier i supported her very much. i think she forgotted all the favours done by me."
Is your Love selfish??
Love is patient and Kind;
Love is not jealous or boastful;
it is not arrogant or rude.
Love does not insist on its own way;
it is not irritable or resentful;
it does not rejoice at wrong,
but rejoice in the right.
Love bears all things,
endures all things.
Love never ends;....
2006-12-23 22:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
U want her seriously! R u sure? I have the right answer. with my experience i can give u the right direction. Wait . Just wait. Let a few months & years pass. U need to be patience. One day she will response u. Don't disturb ur normal life. Even ur new life. I mean get married. Just keep target in mind. I find lot lot girls like that, who loves once get back to love again their old lovers. After she got loose from her emotion of marriatial life. May be after birth of a child. It is natural for such woman who loves once, love to loved again. If not 100% in 98% cases tired of love from husband. Try. keep on tring. keep little contact. Don't show ur serious eagerness. But keep on showing interest on her. Remembers , GIRLs WOnder of the World.
2006-12-24 02:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by ogmansur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you. She used you. So you better forget and go on with your life. I am sure you will find the right person for your self. Travel... that will be the best medicine for you. Make new friends, read books, or get a new hobby, like sport or stamps or something interesting. Good luck.
2006-12-24 02:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lucia I 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't leave her pursue her follow that words tooth to tooth eye to an eye you why i commented so bitterly because she spoke as if you where some stranger . or another solution is such female are not even bloody well worth scond glance try somebody else aond enjoy don't waste your energy and time behind such worthless female
2006-12-24 03:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by venkatraman s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋