Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

People been telling me to be happy because it is christmas time, But it is hard because My best friend is in jail, My other best friend tried to kill himself and he is in icu . And my other best friend dad just died Today.How do you stay happy when this has happen with in The last 5 days? i need Help please.

2006-12-22 17:30:14 · 17 answers · asked by dmncprkr 5 in Family

Best answer gets a e-cake

2006-12-22 17:30:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have to start my coaching classes after 6 hours.But there is a complaining type of girl in my class she use to irritate me all the time due to which i cant consentrate on my studies.One of my friend is alse there but she also ignores me.I dont no whether to join these depressed classes or not?

2006-12-22 17:29:17 · 36 answers · asked by Nikita 2 in Friends

My husband and I have serious marriage problems lately. One of my biggest problems with him is his fairness in the give and take part of our relationship. If theres something that he can do to make things better & he just doesn't want to do it then he won't change even if he knows its not right to behave that way . Basically I am the only one who wants to make up after a bad fight even if he hurt me bad I suck it up and let it go for the betterment of the relationship. He would never apologize first and he shows no emotion besides being annoyed and angry because of the fact that I'm upset in the 1st place. In a sense I believe in the old addage (If you truly did someone wrong and are sorry about then you would do all you can to make the situation better (kissing up). I do this for him when I am wrong but he doesn't feel he can do this for me. I feel like he cares more about staying angry and annoyed rather then looking at how he hurt me and apologize and try to make things better.

2006-12-22 17:28:18 · 2 answers · asked by Bellas Mama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if we've been living together for nine years before the wedding ?

2006-12-22 17:27:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-22 17:26:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm deeply in love with my ex girlfriend Brooke. We broke up after two months because she felt that she couldn't get close to me because she had deep feelings for someone that she had been feeling things for, for many years. But now we're talkign again, and she keeps throwing hints at me. She says she only broke up with me because she didn't want to hurt me by acting like she didn't want to be romantic or intimate with me. What should I do? Should I try to get back with her, or just let her go? Or perhaps just give it time? I don't know, but I really love her. On the other hand, I feel strong feelings for this other girl named Anna. I don't know what to do. If anyone has any advice, please answer.

2006-12-22 17:26:09 · 8 answers · asked by big_bear29360 2 in Singles & Dating

Who is the best family law attorney in Portland Or.

2006-12-22 17:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by Eric R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with this wonderful man who I will marry in 2 or 3 years from now but not all of my family agrees with me marrying him because he is from Africa. His family and friends adore me and love me a lot. Yes, I have heard about what Americans say about African men. I feel he might be the one for me and explore the world together. How do I really know if he is the one for me to marry? If so, how can allow my family see he is "Mr. Right?"

2006-12-22 17:23:19 · 6 answers · asked by travel4christ1 2 in Weddings

ok i liked this guy( my next (door neighbor) and he asked me if i liked him, and i said NO!! is that a sign that he likes me and the only reason i said no is because i wasnt sure if he liked me or not . im sich an idiot

2006-12-22 17:23:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been with this guy i guess u could say over two years we have a one year old daughter but he refuses to grow up dont get me wrong hes a good father he just doesnt seem to want to be a family man what i mean by that is he still smokes pot and goes out with his friends till whenever he feels like coming home he has a good job and does pay the bills but does nothing around the house what so ever no dishes no laundry no sweeping nothing and when he actually is around and home he plays video games or goes on the computer instead of spending time with me.he has stupid fits over the dumbest things but yet i still love him so much. Ive been told that he doesnt deserve me but i love him so much and i dont wanna leave him talking doesnt help cause ive tried over and over he seems to think that cause hes the one bringing in the income he can do whatever the f%$k he wants to how do i get throu to him?

2006-12-22 17:23:00 · 4 answers · asked by Never_give_up_never_surrender 2 in Singles & Dating

Serrious answers only, please... This is important...

Okay, My mother and i used to be best friends, before i moved out of the house... This last few years though have been pretty rough.... When i can't afford to run the hour and a half down to her place to fix something, or clean the house, or take care of the kids, I'm selfish, I found the man that i knew i was going to spend the rest of my life with, decided to get married, and because i wouldn't put off the date, because she didn't have a boyfriend (Her and my father got a divorce about a year and a half before this) I was selfish, Even though we had waited already 5 years...
Now because i don't have all the money in the world to buy her a car, pay some of her bills, and help her and the kids, i'm not worth talking to unless i have something for her...
We used to be so close... Now i just think it was because she layed in bed all day while i mothered my 5 younger brothers and sisters, cleaned the house, and cooked the meals...

2006-12-22 17:22:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Some people schedule a physical meeting by cell phone with their friends. When they are actually meeting with that friend, they are then talking on their cell phone with another friend. Why meet with your friend if you will talk on the cell phone with another friend? Is that rude?

2006-12-22 17:21:53 · 36 answers · asked by calpal2001 4 in Friends

2006-12-22 17:20:57 · 12 answers · asked by poopy p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Met her 2 weeks ago. Hung out 2x, met up at school a few times real quick to talk and hang out. Shows all signs of wanting to date me, flirty, touchy feely, saying she likes me unprompted...etc. She's a virgin, so am I. It's not to hook up. I told her don't bother with me if it's for that. We have similar values etc. She's had her eye on me since last year, but I never approached her, she waited til I came to her. I did by chance..not on purpose. We clicked...I keep trying to win her over, but she still says she doesn't want a bf (no, i have not been annoying or pressuring about that). Her x who she broke up with 3 months ago was an ***, as were her other ex's. I'm 100% sure she wants to date me but she keeps saying she does not want a boyfriend..what do i do..how long do i wait, how do i handle this?

2006-12-22 17:20:48 · 13 answers · asked by MR. CLUTCH 1 in Singles & Dating

If your partner looked at you and told you to leave that they did not want you at their home any longer would you A)leave like a normal man would or B)Just keep sitting around like you haven't got a clue as to what the woman is saying and not budge

This is a Hypothecical Question.

2006-12-22 17:19:51 · 26 answers · asked by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

He's never really been "part of the family" and he's had so many of his 'bipolar' moments that it's lessened my respect and hope in him. Now, after years of 'warnings' and 'threats' to leave, I think he's actualy going to go. It's been going on since I was so young so I feel so heartless for him at times, but he's not a bad person...
He's acting unusually nice but still has his moments.

Is he trying to suck-up before he takes off? Or, is he trying to make it up and be a better person?

2006-12-22 17:19:40 · 4 answers · asked by delicate insomniac 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys, I am just wondering, when you do "check out/stare at" the opposite sex and then you make eye contact...what do you plan to happen after that?? Do you want to see any signal from the girl and what do you do if she maintains eye contact? What about if she looks away really quickly and blushes??

Just wondering.......thanks and Merry Christmas!! :)

2006-12-22 17:19:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

advice on things that are not good for the first date with a guy, please? anything that will keep a guy or figure out if hes good, or whatever..just let me know anything!! thanks!!

2006-12-22 17:17:19 · 14 answers · asked by davis chick 1 in Singles & Dating

Last year, I made a vow that I'd find love by this Christmas. Well, it hasn't happened. As a matter of fact, I've made the same vow for more years than I care to remember. Should I just forget it and give up? Geez... there must be something wrong with me.

2006-12-22 17:17:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 27. 2 kids that are nice. Married 10 years. I'm a little bored with things but overall i'm happy with my life. You guys?

2006-12-22 17:16:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i used to like this friend of mine, until i found out he started to do drugs. he seems like the type of guy that doesn't want people to lecture him on whats right and wrong. he tells me all these things about what he's done, and i know for a fact he's done them.

how can i tell him that he's going ruin himself [without bossing him around and keeping it casual] if he keeps up with all this?! i really care for him because i used to like him. but i know that i can't be with someone who is going to making stupid decisions.

so basically, how do i tell him he's ruining his life without him getting upset. we're 15 now, and i really dont want this to continue.

2006-12-22 17:15:07 · 10 answers · asked by jsmonkey013 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 17:14:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 24. I dated him when I was 17 I think. Was only for like 3 months. He really was a sweet guy, I just broke up with him because for some reason I lost interest. Really not sure why. We have remained friends for years. He is always there if I need something. Jokes around and tells me to call him If I get stuck with my car, get kidnapped or need to get married. Does things with me that most guys would not want to do. Listens to me when I am stressing over dumb crap. Subtly tries hitting on me when we hang out, but I mean subtly. I can usually take a hint, but at times he is hard to read. He has turned very responsible and is doing well for himself. Would be a good catch, has some girl that really likes him but he does not want to be with her. Talks to me about issues with other girls, etc etc. I dont know what to think . . .

2006-12-22 17:14:43 · 4 answers · asked by MissKristen 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so there is this guy and i really like him and i gave him an x-mas present and every thig but he is still decideing if he likes me or not.... should i wait 4 him?

2006-12-22 17:14:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex an I decided to work it out 1 last time, that we can continue to go out ,only if we do not argue forI 5 months, What are some best techniques on handling this situation? we would argue over petty things until it really got out of hand. I mean Im about to get a job to keep me busy, plus I have school. Please give me some advice

2006-12-22 17:14:14 · 17 answers · asked by snowprincess20010 2 in Singles & Dating

One morning at school I walked passed this cute guy and he kept looking at me and I looked back of course he did the same thing another morning Could he like me?Please don't tell me to ask him because I'm not going to ask him he so popular and if he turns me down i'll be really humiliated

2006-12-22 17:13:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this dude that is so hot and other then in the halls I see him on Tuseday for an hour. I like him and I think he likes me but I don't have the guts to ask him out. What should I do?????

P.S.
Don't tell me to find some guts becuase I can't!

2006-12-22 17:13:47 · 1 answers · asked by Shannon P 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys, I am just wondering, when you do "check out/stare at" the opposite sex and then you make eye contact...what do you plan to happen after that?? Do you want to see any signal from the girl and what do you do if she maintains eye contact? What about if she looks away really quickly and blushes??

Just wondering.......thanks and Merry Christmas!! :)

2006-12-22 17:13:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 17:12:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating