I am 24. I dated him when I was 17 I think. Was only for like 3 months. He really was a sweet guy, I just broke up with him because for some reason I lost interest. Really not sure why. We have remained friends for years. He is always there if I need something. Jokes around and tells me to call him If I get stuck with my car, get kidnapped or need to get married. Does things with me that most guys would not want to do. Listens to me when I am stressing over dumb crap. Subtly tries hitting on me when we hang out, but I mean subtly. I can usually take a hint, but at times he is hard to read. He has turned very responsible and is doing well for himself. Would be a good catch, has some girl that really likes him but he does not want to be with her. Talks to me about issues with other girls, etc etc. I dont know what to think . . .
2006-12-22 17:14:43 · 4 answers · asked by MissKristen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start inviting him out more often and see how he reacts. You need to show you are interested and he has put a lot of effort into you over the past few years now its your turn to put forth the effort.
2006-12-22 17:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know why you'd want to get back with him, I wouldn't, if I were you....sounds like good old fashion "afraid to be on my own" syndrome. Deep down somewhere inside you is the real reason you broke up, and believe me, it's probably still there, and will surely resurface not long after the two of you get together. I'd be really careful if I were you. Better to have him as a great friend than have him as a marginal boyfriend, risking what you have already. Trust your first instincts. They may be telling you something.
2006-12-23 01:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by beatle_george1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with the beatle..i had the same situation too,but at the end returning to him andstaying 2gether for one yera the stuf that i didnt like about him just resurfaces,,and this time it was so hard for me to seprate from him with a one full of memories,,i wished i had never got back to him,,and after i found out that maybe i came back to him just because till them i coudlnt have found someone that i liked better than him ,,so i had kinda settled with what was available...but i strongly dont recomend it ! !just follow ur first sences in a relation ship..and the reason that made u forget about him in the first place,,always remeber that feeling..dont let it happne to u one more time with an even more intensity..but u can still have him as a good friend and also take advice from him about the guysu meet,,as he does !!and tels u about the girls that like him and he's not intrested !good luck.
2006-12-23 01:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by sara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might be the one thinking of getting back with not only a long time friend, but a potential real love who will respect you.
2006-12-23 01:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋