Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

I love him to death but damn...he gets LOUD! Tried everything from patches, nasel strips, throat spray...nothing works! I have to poke him and get him to roll over and it helps...until he rolls back over! I hate poking him, makes me feel bad and then I end up on Y!A. He woke the kids last night he got so loud. After 4 years, I thought I would get used to it, but just seems to be getting worse. Is there any relief? I love him, but I need some sleep. I hate to move to the couch or else I would really not sleep since I cant sleep without him beside me. I know, I know, Im screwed...lol but seriously, hasnt anyone else been there?

2006-12-22 17:46:52 · 19 answers · asked by Koozie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i just happen to realise that my g/f when is having her gelato ice cream is so engrossed in it . for that particular moment its just her and the ice cream.Is it true that we guys have got a competition from the frozen dessert?did any of ull experience this?

2006-12-22 17:46:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If anyone if from, or familiar, with NYC, do you have any suggestions for places to meet people? I like classy places, not snobby and prefer latin and hip-hop music for people in upper twenties, older thirties. Any suggestions?

2006-12-22 17:46:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After a couple dates with my gf who is 13 there is a moment of akward scilence,how do i break that akward scilence apreaciate the help

2006-12-22 17:46:24 · 14 answers · asked by Mikael F 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw a picture of them kissing

2006-12-22 17:45:05 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel N 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong when you have a BF but have special feelings for another guy? My BF got angry when I told him I had special feelings for another guy should he be angry?

2006-12-22 17:44:29 · 35 answers · asked by andingjuniorhighstudent 1 in Singles & Dating

busy on that day, would you get angry?

2006-12-22 17:44:14 · 7 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4 in Singles & Dating

Whats and ideal date for two 13 year old kids on christmas,ive already taken her to 2 movies in a row already i need help

2006-12-22 17:43:49 · 3 answers · asked by Mikael F 1 in Singles & Dating

I love the guy but I want to make sure that he loves me too! Help me pls!

2006-12-22 17:43:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband finished my Christmas shopping tonight, only to inform me that he was not wrapping them. His reasoning is that he has never wrapped gifts before and doesn't know how. Someone has always done it for him in the past but we have moved recently and he hasn't been able to ask anyone. He told me he would just hand them to me out of the shopping bag. I pointed out that it would not kill him to at least give it a try. He then told me that he didn't have time to wrap them. I got upset with him because even though Christmas isn't really about the presents, I would at least like to participate when he and my 3 year old son are opening their presents on Christmas day. I am really more upset that he can't seem to want to spend an extra 20 minutes to wrap them so that I don't feel left out. I don't care how they look. I would just like to be able to open presents with my family. I have worked really hard to make it the nicest Christmas I can . Am I not worth 20 minutes of his time?

2006-12-22 17:43:00 · 30 answers · asked by Michelle F 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and the nex door man is no that cute?

2006-12-22 17:42:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just ended my first relationship ever after 4 years. Me and my partner separated on good terms and still talk to each other, but I can't help but wonder if he ever thinks about our relationship. So guys who have been in a similar situation can you lend a hand? Is it easy or hard for you to stay friends with an ex girlfriend after you've both agreed that the relationship was rocky when it ended?
Also, now that I'm single, I want to start making new male friends (I've never had any besides my ex). The problem is that when guys do talk to me they're typically interested in me and want to date. I don't want that-I just prefer the company of men and want someone to hang out with. What can I do to establish healthy plutonic relationships with men?

2006-12-22 17:42:01 · 3 answers · asked by Seasonal_Company 1 in Singles & Dating

my father left my family when i was small now that im 17 he came back
and we wer living with him . one day me and my mom wer arguing. he then jumped in , he then tried to hit me . He actualy punched me, out self defense i hit him back. i gave him a broken nose and his eye was closed shut. i feelt bad about, but he was atacking me. should i have left him it me?
need some advice!!!!!!!

2006-12-22 17:41:40 · 15 answers · asked by CONFUSE323 1 in Family

i love my bf so much but i dont trust him. he is acting very nice to me and being the man i always wanted but i feel its just for the holidays. he never stays this way for long. i feel it coming. well im starting to look at other guys and daydream. i still love my bf. he has hurt me a great deal in the past and im sronger now to deal with it when it comes. the thing is i know its coming and i want to get along with him. what if he has really changed this time? i still got a bad feeling though. i just cant relax cuz i feel the bad day is coming cuz it always has. i love him but i might need to find me another guy. i dont know what to do. plz give me some insight. if i leave him it will be hard as hell cuz im so attached. i really dont know what to do. i dont want to start talking to other guys cuz i love him but at the same time i do want to talk to other guys cuz i feel he wont change what should i do. should i ask him if he wants us both to date other people? plz help.

2006-12-22 17:41:31 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

Please explain what you would do or how you would handle the situation.

2006-12-22 17:41:26 · 7 answers · asked by ssmithy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 17:41:02 · 31 answers · asked by Elvia I 1 in Singles & Dating

It's not like I don't like her, but I like her friend more than her. Is that wrong?

2006-12-22 17:40:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriend is older than me and this is the first time ive ever really been actually serious about anyone and hes amazing he treats me so good i love my boyfriend with all my heart i couldnt ever imagine being with anyone else, but hes the deal hes been in jail he got sentenced a year and a half and i love him and am gonna be there for him all the way. i have been for the past 11 months hes out in 2 now on good behavior and were planning on moving away together and cleaning up both of our lives a bit. but this is what happend basically me and one of his best firneds were just hanging out and he comes on to me(not the first time) i say no keep bringing up my boyfriend and how it wouldnt be right and its been so long since ive had sex i was weak and i gave in. and i finally told him hes crushed and now he doesnt know if he wants to be with me. i dontknow what to do what can i do to prove to him im sorry with out being able to see him. please if you got ne advice help me out ~L

2006-12-22 17:38:09 · 17 answers · asked by leslie0754 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my man been together for 5 years now. Last year we decided to have a baby, so we did. Now that the baby is here he seem very mean and staying gone all the time. When I threat to leave him he say why are you leavin please dont go. I'm very lost because he's getting worst and worst. What does this mean? I left today while he was gone. Should I go back? It seems like he dont love me anymore. He says he's not cheating. P.S. after baby I develope a even more beautiful shape. So what's the problem?

2006-12-22 17:38:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really miss my ex boyfriend and he will be going away for the holidays tomorrow. I am desperate to see him. I want him back badly. Do u think i should get him back? Our situation , we broke off in mutual terms saying that we should probably give each other time to see what we haven seen whilst we were together. But i miss him so damn much i think i could die. Should i tell him how i feel? Im afraid that i might regret my doings. We broke up last wednesday. Please help someone.

2006-12-22 17:37:27 · 10 answers · asked by Mimi P 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy at school named Damien. He spikes his hair and gets perfect grades. He has never had a girlfriend in his whole life, even though he is popular and really hot. Everybody has a crush on him. My friend and I thinks he might be gay. He might be shy. OR he is just focused on school and will date when he gets older. I really need help and will take any advice on guys to make them like me and understand me. What do guys really even like about girls? I asked him out once a long time ago, a year ago, and he didn't hesitate to say NO!! PLEASE someone help me.

2006-12-22 17:37:03 · 4 answers · asked by BeatlesRocker 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm with the wrong guy, but I still stay. We've been hanging out for six months, but are not "official." I've tried to find other guys (gone on dates--NEVER done anything physical w them) but I don't seem to have any luck. So I go back to this guy. I've also tried being completely single, it's just too hard bc I know he's there. This guy is wrong for me, bc he's uneducated, un-pc, and I know I could never make a life with him. On the other hand, we enjoy each other's company and he's great in the sack. I've told him the situation--that I'm crazy about him, but I don't feel that we are compatible, and he says it's fine, he does have feelings for me too, but he also likes what we have right now. Is is wrong of me to stay w him?

2006-12-22 17:37:02 · 8 answers · asked by lapoetsmoderator 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 17:35:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think everyone has a different idea on what perfect [in a person] really is. what do you think it is? what is your PERFECT significant other like?

2006-12-22 17:35:55 · 15 answers · asked by your wonderwall 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'd been seeing for over a year and he had just moved back to his hometown in September for a job. He told me he wanted to keep in touch, but the last time I talked to him was in October. So...since November, about a month now, I hadn't contacted him at all...now he just called me, 2 months later....
Uh..I don't know whether to be sad or happy...He told me that he was driving home from a bar and put in a cd to that was one that we always listened to. He said it reminded him of me. So we got to talking, he wondered how I was doing and everything. Then he started telling me that he met a girl after he sold her a system (ADT) and they've been going together for a few months. HUH? Why would he say that to me? Was he expecting me to be happy about that? I didn't understand that, especially after I haven't heard from him in 2 months. Was he trying to rub it in my face or something? Why would he be calling me then? Just to keep me in the picture...just in case?

2006-12-22 17:35:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 17:34:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

thers this guy i like and i really dream about him like ALOT!!!
Does this mean somethin?!?!?!?

♥ME

2006-12-22 17:31:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

girls, which do you prefer? a guy who loves you more than the way you love him, or a guy whom you really love but doesn't love you back as much or doesn't truly reciprocate your feeling. which will you rather take?

2006-12-22 17:31:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've never kissed a girl. anyone have any tips or anyways to pratice?

2006-12-22 17:31:19 · 17 answers · asked by Jesse 1 in Singles & Dating

For the past year I have been have alot of problems paying attention to and remembering anything and everything! When people talk to me I'm hearing them but its like I'm not! I have verbal outbursts were i can't stop talking I know it bothers people but I can't help it. but thats only on somedays most days I'm so tired I can't even function I know I really can't be tired though becouse I sleep alot. I have problems functioning socially I have off and on problems with leaving my house exept I can go in the car.I cry alot but other times I can't cry at all for long periods of time.I have problems controling my temper. I think about killing myself alot, not seriously I think, but often. also i've had depression for about ten years and I feel completly diffrent acually I feel almost like a completly diffrent person.(not literally) Sorry that was long but if you recognize these symtoms and can tell me what I have I would love to know!!! THANX

2006-12-22 17:30:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce