I'd been seeing for over a year and he had just moved back to his hometown in September for a job. He told me he wanted to keep in touch, but the last time I talked to him was in October. So...since November, about a month now, I hadn't contacted him at all...now he just called me, 2 months later....
Uh..I don't know whether to be sad or happy...He told me that he was driving home from a bar and put in a cd to that was one that we always listened to. He said it reminded him of me. So we got to talking, he wondered how I was doing and everything. Then he started telling me that he met a girl after he sold her a system (ADT) and they've been going together for a few months. HUH? Why would he say that to me? Was he expecting me to be happy about that? I didn't understand that, especially after I haven't heard from him in 2 months. Was he trying to rub it in my face or something? Why would he be calling me then? Just to keep me in the picture...just in case?
2006-12-22 17:35:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also said that he still wants to go on vacation with me, & possibly my parents. Now if he was going to be serious w/anyone else, why would he still want to go on a trip with me? And possibly my parents for that matter? He told me to keep my chin up, and to call him if I needed anything. But what are his real intentions here?
2006-12-22 17:37:31 · update #1
Men are....odd creatures. I suspect that he maybe felt like telling someone about his new romance, and you were convenient...and he had a few too many to drink. Could be too, he was wondering what your reaction would be. I wouldn't spend too much time trying to figure it out, but I wouldn't call him again, either. If he wants to talk to you, he knows your number. Have yourself a good cry and start looking for someone new. If it was meant to be, it will happen.
2006-12-22 17:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear girl, i think you can know the answer in your heart. =)
Reciprocate his unthoughtfulness with yours.
Seriously, i think you do not need an insincere person as him.
2006-12-23 01:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by Blessed Person :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHA!! HE WAS DRUNK BABY!! HAHAHA OMG!!
2006-12-23 01:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋