girls, which do you prefer? a guy who loves you more than the way you love him, or a guy whom you really love but doesn't love you back as much or doesn't truly reciprocate your feeling. which will you rather take?
2006-12-22 17:31:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg! I've been through that once and boy did i learn my lesson! i was in a dilemma once and i really love this guy but when we are together, he seems to treat no more but a friend which was really weird because I'm his gf! then we would go together with his friends and then i get out of place! it really sucked but i know he loves me though (he just doenst know how to appreciate me)! then i met this guy later on and he confessed to me that he loves me a lot! (lets name him sam!)
i was really confused ofcourse and after sometime i decided to leave my boyfriend! i was rii sad at thaose moments cause i couldnt take the pain! but sam was always there! he cared for me like i never imagined someone else could!
then we were a couple and at first i wasnt really sure of what i felt for him but as days passed and he still keeps on making me happy! and you know? it reallly makes a diffrence! as days pass my love for him grew and all the love i could give to him is all worthed!
he makes me feel special, wanted and apprecaited!
isnt that what girls like us wants???
2006-12-22 17:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first one. You end up with a lot of heart ache if you go for the guy who doesn't love you back as much or reciprocate. He will probably find someone else who he does love as much, and you are just a passing fancy. OR...WAIT for the right one to come along...a relationship where you love each other equally. That is the best resolve. (But you didn't make that an option.)
2006-12-23 01:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I settled for someone that i loved more than he loved me. As time went on i think we both love each other on the same level which is on a friendship level. Even though we live together like a husband and wife ; we get along better as best friends which i think is very important in a relationship.
2006-12-23 01:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one. I'd rather be solo until the RIGHT one comes along. The one I'm friends with and crazy passionate about and who is best friends with and crazy passionate about me too. Either of the other two choices is settling and that's NOT something you want to do when talking about the mate for the rest of your life. Your setting yourself up for heartache.
2006-12-23 01:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one. But if you love the guy who doesn't love you, you should tell him; unless it would make things really awkward. I have that problem sometimes and it sucks. But if you don't love a guy as much as he loves you, and you don't see you being able to spend the rest of your life with him, then don't lead him on. More or less, listen to you heart. (Corny I know, sorry)
2006-12-23 01:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First one. I'm a lil' selfish anyway and I dont give as much as I should get. I would pick up the one that truly loves me and hoping that I might fall inlove with him someday. I think its better than being with someone that doesn't love you. I'd suffer more.
2006-12-23 01:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not possible for two people to love each other equally. One always loves more, even if only slightly. So I would choose a guy who loved me more than I loved him.
2006-12-23 04:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Pippa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever been walking through the mall... or down the street and seen a gorgeous woman with a man that appears to be less than desireable??? SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE'S DOING!
i'd rather be with a man that appeared to be "out of his league"... they treat you better than any man that you could dream about. AND my mother always said "beauty will fade but what's inside, THAT'S FOREVER!"
2006-12-23 01:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother told me always marry someone who loves you more. You should both love each other but there is always someone who will love the other more... I think I can deal with someone who loves me more, but I am so loving I don't know if they could top me.. lol
2006-12-23 01:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer a girl that loves me..because I have seen myself having no problem loving a girl that loves me truly....oops...I am guy..sorry...but that is what works for me
2006-12-23 01:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋