ok my boyfriend is older than me and this is the first time ive ever really been actually serious about anyone and hes amazing he treats me so good i love my boyfriend with all my heart i couldnt ever imagine being with anyone else, but hes the deal hes been in jail he got sentenced a year and a half and i love him and am gonna be there for him all the way. i have been for the past 11 months hes out in 2 now on good behavior and were planning on moving away together and cleaning up both of our lives a bit. but this is what happend basically me and one of his best firneds were just hanging out and he comes on to me(not the first time) i say no keep bringing up my boyfriend and how it wouldnt be right and its been so long since ive had sex i was weak and i gave in. and i finally told him hes crushed and now he doesnt know if he wants to be with me. i dontknow what to do what can i do to prove to him im sorry with out being able to see him. please if you got ne advice help me out ~L
2006-12-22 17:38:09 · 17 answers · asked by leslie0754 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Leslie....
what u did was just weakness and may be not intentionally, though u had to be stronger.
Any ways what has happened has happened, cant change it, but u can move awau from this new Intruder and try to forget what has happened and move on in life.....
Life is the word Going on .......
even if u keep bringing ur past mistakes ur life wont stop for nothing, but moves on, similarly u too must move on....
Go ahead with ur life where ur BF is waiting for u and together u can erase all ur past mistakes and deeds and get lost into eachothers lives and move on with it.......
All the best to u Leslie.....
May God be with u...........
2006-12-22 17:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Vizz_up 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how many visits he has had with Ma Thumb and her four daughters. Has anyone warned you about "jail speak"? Jail/prison changes people mostly when they are incarcerated. They know all the things they need to change about their lives but that quickly changes once they are back on the street.
Most parolees make at least one return visit for a short time because they get too far out there and get back in with their old friends. These buddy's are usually part of the reason they went to jail.
The best thing you can do is take a good long look at what your life may be like with this man, as he was when he got caught doing what put him in. This weak at the time cheat, may be you, telling you to R U N!
2006-12-22 18:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I leaned in economics this year that there is no such thing as a "free lunch", meaning for every decision we make, we incur an economic choice. When you cheated on your b/f you said that sex is more important than the love of you b/f knowing that he might not get back with you...no one is that weak and you knew very well what you were doing...obviously you dont love him as much as you think.
2006-12-22 17:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok one u dont love him if u was so easy to stray while he is locked up trust me i know i been there done that walk away thats all u can do he will never let u live it donw even if he gets out he will either beat u or cheat on u so ya leave while he is still away so u have no problems besides is it really worth it this guy i mena c mon now...
2006-12-22 19:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by rebecca b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...honey. Your boyfriend is in JAIL!! What is WRONG WITH YOU?? I'm glad you cheated. And I hope you keep cheating. You need someone who is going to lift you up, not bring you down. Do you REALLY want to spend the rest of your life with some law breaking loser?? You need therapy.
2006-12-22 17:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser and get your life back together. You are such a loser for waiting for a jailbird boyfriend. Get on with your life. Don't date such losers next time. Get a guy who will not go to jail and be able to satisfy your needs. It's not that hard to find.
2006-12-22 17:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sax M 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tatoo the word B**itch on yr body. Go to Orchard rd and tell everyone what a bad girl u are.Maybe he might forgive u...If not then go to hell kill yrself do whatever u like who cares anyway
2006-12-22 20:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it would have never happened,if he wasn't away for so long.You had a physical need and couldn't go against your body.Tell him you regret it and it wasn't good anyways.
2006-12-22 17:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... that sucks. shoulda bought a vibrator. nothing fixes that. so was his best friend worth it? ask yourself that and then write a long letter, like 20 pages. maybe you'll get lucky if he really loves you
2006-12-22 17:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by josh c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he really loves you and cares for you, he should be willing to try and work it out and give you another chance, BUT IF YOU really loved him, you shouldn't have felt the desire to be with someone else; weak moment or not.
2006-12-22 17:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋