I'm with the wrong guy, but I still stay. We've been hanging out for six months, but are not "official." I've tried to find other guys (gone on dates--NEVER done anything physical w them) but I don't seem to have any luck. So I go back to this guy. I've also tried being completely single, it's just too hard bc I know he's there. This guy is wrong for me, bc he's uneducated, un-pc, and I know I could never make a life with him. On the other hand, we enjoy each other's company and he's great in the sack. I've told him the situation--that I'm crazy about him, but I don't feel that we are compatible, and he says it's fine, he does have feelings for me too, but he also likes what we have right now. Is is wrong of me to stay w him?
2006-12-22 17:37:02 · 8 answers · asked by lapoetsmoderator 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Un-PC is not a problem really, but anyway . . .
You should leave him and find someone who's right for you. It is wrong for you to stay with him. Why give yourselves a chance to get attached? Good luck with the next one!
2006-12-22 17:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "anonymous" why be put in the risk of getting attached to some1 who u don't like in the beginning...i think u should leave him and be single for a while...who knows tht the right guy mite come along after u stop seeing this guy...its just leading him on and may increase the risk of u getting attached to him..which may lead u to not care about the things tht u dont like about him....Good luck n Happy Holidays :)
2006-12-23 02:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by blue rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you truly feel for this guy and how deep your feelings may get with time. The things that you have mentioned are not important if you honestly want to be together and what you have grows stronger. Don't stay with him just because the sex is good or that you're afraid of being single. Then you're not doing yourself or him any justice.
2006-12-23 01:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUNNNN fine someone you know he not right for you you will never be truely happy. i also would see someone about why i pick the worng guys for my self ? there must be something there or not be with him. but if you feel you wont be happy then move on. dont stay where you not toldy happy.
or someday may fine your self in place you cant lave. lot ppl out there you could talk to and get help if need be. but please dont stay with someone you know not right for you.
2006-12-23 01:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by salems_cherokee_shi_raven 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful that you don't become trapped. You could get used to him and possibly find yourself married to him one day with disastrous results. If he's wrong for you then tell him you just want to be friends. Don't use him! One day I hope you will find the one you love passionately and I hope he's free. Meanwhile, don't settle. You will live to regret it.
2006-12-23 01:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, if you are not official, you can still see other people, and you enjoy each others company. Then it is kind of like you are friends with benefits. So in my opinion I would be ok to keep up your relationship with him until you find someone you are compatible with.
2006-12-23 01:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by beachchic705 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have one answer for you, and only one, and it's the deep down, God-awful bottom line truth_
FEAR
It's our undoing EVERY TIME-
that is, until we overcome it by eventually becoming comfortable in our own skin.
We need to first learn to love and respect ourselves, and realize we have every right to demand it from others.
We are all reflections of the One who made us, and we need to treat each others as such-
but we need to start including ourselves in the equation.
2006-12-23 01:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by beatle_george1964 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no just have fun
2006-12-23 01:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋