ok so there is this guy and i really like him and i gave him an x-mas present and every thig but he is still decideing if he likes me or not.... should i wait 4 him?
2006-12-22 17:14:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
way to play hard to get...
2006-12-22 17:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Hushyanoize 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this can be toughie. Guys usaully don't develop as early as girls do. Physically or emotionally. Some women will tell you that their man still doesn't know how to communicate with them after 15-50 years of marriage! Guys need time. But if he takes too much time, and this is making uncomfortable then you should decide to let him go. If you're ok with waiting and you really do like him, he might just be worth the wait. My question is why is he waiting? Maybe he just got out of a bad relationship and isn't ready yet to get into another one. This is legit and common. In this case definately give lots of time. People who are on the rebound aren't emotionally stable for a relationship. Anyway, I sincerely hope this helps you. Merry Christmas!! Make sure that whatever happens you are comfortable and happy b/c you deserve to be treated like a princess! :)
2006-12-23 01:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Leash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for no man!
Well that is, unless you're married to him. Then he should be worth the wait.
If this guy can't tell you what he's thinking about you, you don't want him, besides, you sound very young and should be doing lots of other things besides thinking about boys you have an entire life ahead of you, don't waist it on having to have a man make you complete. Be complete in all you do and the right guy will find you..
2006-12-23 01:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by Joanie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how long have you known this guy? And why are you buying him a Christmas present? If you only know him for a short period of time, buying him a present could actually push him away. OR worse yet, make him like you for what you will give him.
2006-12-23 01:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by Christinaaaaaahhhhhh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes wait for a while, how long is the real question here...right?
If it is met to be it will be, but do not set yourself for a fall. look around in the mean time it will be ok to look, and if you fall, that's cool too cause you'll learn and grow from it. .
2006-12-23 01:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mijoecha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but no if there is someone else that likes you and you like him go for that one just because he don't know yet doesn't mean he should get to hold you back but if there isn't you might as well wait!!!
2006-12-23 01:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are way more attractive when they have their own lives and are too busy to wait around. Keep dating, and if he comes around, then you can date him too. Unless you get in a monogamous relationship. Don't cheat.
2006-12-23 01:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by T.M.Y. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Liking some one is not good enough, any can like, but to love some one it is real and blinding like the sun.
2006-12-23 02:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by non existance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you should ask him out to the movies and have fun.. why not.. I wish I had someone to date this coming new year eve.. say new year eve coming ask him to go out with you and have fun with a midnite kiss as well^_^ good luck
2006-12-23 01:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you really like him wait for him.
2006-12-23 01:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by Stacey K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. He sounds like a total loser. If he cannot decide, then he is not worth your time.
2006-12-23 01:16:11 · answer #11 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋