ok i liked this guy( my next (door neighbor) and he asked me if i liked him, and i said NO!! is that a sign that he likes me and the only reason i said no is because i wasnt sure if he liked me or not . im sich an idiot
2006-12-22 17:23:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should go up to him and say" sorry but i really do like you, i was just nervous before'
Merry Christmas
2006-12-22 17:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Short and sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny story.
My current boyfriend and I were friends for about 3 years before going out. I LOVED him. Totally loved him...... but I didnt want things to get weird between us so I'd be like "yea your a great friend, I love having you as a friend"...and he'd say the same thing....when actually we both totally loved eachother.
He just recently gave me a ring..just a promise ring...but it means a lot to me, and it looks like we'll have a pretty good future together..
I learned something good out of this...always be truthful. I mean, who knows..... maybe this neighbor of yours is your soul mate lol. ...... if you dont tell him, you'll never find out.... and you could spend your whole life wondering...."what if i told him the truth"...
I'd go back and talk to him. Tell him how you really feel. ---- If he doesnt feel the same way...at least you know. And make sure you tell him that whatever hes feeling is okay with you, and that you still want to be friends (if thats the case...if thats what you're feeling)
2006-12-23 01:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well if you are a straight forward woman, walk next door, knock on the door, and when he answers just kiss him and walk away. But make sure it is a long passionate kiss , one he will think about for a couple of hours at least.
if not then just wait until you bump into him again and kinda drop little hints
2006-12-23 01:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by daisyhuff4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's cute! haha, sounds like something I would do. We have the same problem...fear of rejection. Just as him why he asked you that the other day and then if he says because he likes you then say "well so do I, I was just unsure of your feelings and didn't want to be embarrased."
Good luck and I bet you he likes you...if he didn't he would probably just ignore the fact that you could possibly like him!! God bless and Merry Christmas!
2006-12-23 01:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he should of ask you out, and told you how he feels.Maybe you should just say that you really ment yes because he ask you out of the blue and you got nurveous an slip no instead of yes.
2006-12-23 01:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by Smiley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk and tell him why you said no, when you really do like him. Let him know you weren't thinking straight.
He likes you so tell him you like him as well and get on the same page.
2006-12-23 01:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by poorprae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, i've done that so many times i've lost count.... guys sometimes just tr harder when you tell them that. just flirt with him, and maybe he'll ask you again.... but you cant wait forever, so try and make it more and more obvious as time progresses.
good luck=]]
2006-12-23 01:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by =] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably said no because u were nervous. try casually bringing the subject back up, flirt...and tell him
2006-12-23 01:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by jsmonkey013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not an idoit. But he could have a crush on you
2006-12-23 01:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you showed any signs as to liking him? and if not then he prolly likes you.
2006-12-23 01:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by froggy_lover84 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋