Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

ok I asked him to ask his sister fi she was like mad at me, and she said that he would if I told my best friend that he thought that she was hott and sexy...well we had a conversation, and she said that he liked me. well I had to go so i said, 'I g2g ttyl xoxo Heaven' and she said, 'how bout 'love u' and I said 'awwwww fine I luv u! LOL!' blah blah blah blah blah...then he sent me like 13 E-Mails like this:
so u really think jackie likes me cause u know u pretened to be her but do u really think she likes ryan to?
But I never pretended to be jackie, and my crush is Ryan, and I told him that, but still. He E-Mailes with this 1 2:
thanks for telling jackie i like her i owe u
and this:
so thats what you have to tell jackie but make it seem like i dont like her like i did but make sure she knows i do
and a lot more...well what do u think???

2006-12-22 16:37:34 · 5 answers · asked by MRS. EFRON ♥ zac 3 in Singles & Dating

that have boyfriends and husbands who take them nice places and buy them nice gifts and help them with their bills or when they are having hard times but I only seem to meet guys that are cheapskates. If they were poor I could understand but they can afford nice cars and stuff for themselves but they won't even buy me coffee. I would like to have a man who would take me some nice places as I really don't want to go out unescourted. If I meet a guy who seems nice, he only wants to stay home and watch tv, and his idea of a date is to pick me up too late to go out anywhere and watch tv at his house. that's ok sometimes but I wish I could find someone to go places with that wouldnlt' be afraid to spend a little money. I went out with one guy to a restarant and he only ordered us chips and salsa. I know he could have sprang for a meal but didn't even offer. This was all we had after spending hours together. Where are the generous men? I am 40 looking for someone arouond my age.

2006-12-22 16:37:17 · 8 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

it's just a struggle. I'm not a complicated or rude girl, I just can't stand seeing someone hurt. what's the best thing to do?

2006-12-22 16:36:35 · 4 answers · asked by delicate insomniac 1 in Singles & Dating

Possible to be in love & be in denial about it?

My friend thinks that's what is going on with a guy who's been a good friend to me & I like as more. It's a long story but there's really no reason for us to be talk & be friends anymore but he will never completely let go. He will go a couple of weeks before he calls but when he does he says he is super busy at work (he just started a new job) but he really does want to stay in touch with me. This last time I told him it won't hurt my feelings if he is 2 busy for me or has new friends that take up his time so he doesn't have to keep saying he'll be in touch if he doesn't really want (we spoke for 30 min). I've given him several chances 2 cut off all communication & he won't take them.

My friend thinks very strong feelings for me kind of snuck up on him & he didn't want to have feelings for anyone at this point in his life. He can't bring himself to act on those feelings or let me go.

So, denial or trying 2 not hurt me?

2006-12-22 16:35:37 · 7 answers · asked by Hopeful girl 3 in Singles & Dating

Man,, friday night.. and Im bored. Im the only one at my house up.. and worse,, im at my house. Wat should I do,,, wat should I do? I have a 12 pack of smirnoffs and a gallon of vodka...... not fun.. why.. b/c Im by myself, duh. so wat should I do?

2006-12-22 16:35:33 · 10 answers · asked by Payton 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I am physically (body wise) not a very attractive person. I am not an ugly fat either I am just fat and short. I dress nice and make myself look nice every day. I was wondering if there are guys in this world who would ask out a short fat girl because he likes her personality and doesn't really care about the way she physically looks. Do you think it is possible for me to find someone would can love me for me and not be so judgementally about my looks?

2006-12-22 16:35:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To think you were supposed to be amazing,
When you actually werent,
To think you promised me so many things,
But never came through,
What did i ever do to you,
I really did like you,
But i found out the hard way,
You were not at all what you imagine yourself to be,
So with this...i say goodbye,
To the one night you kissed me softly,
To the one night you looked into my eyes,
And you never even said,
GOODBYE!

2006-12-22 16:34:57 · 6 answers · asked by Gloria 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 16:34:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's a gentlemen around me.he tries not to swear in front of me,pays for things for me.we have some same interests so we talk a bit about them and he does listen to what is say.he's asked me to go out before and said he'll pay just as an aquaintance type thing but i said no.tells me about his friends/family and his life.talks about his job.tells me when he's had a thought about me.but he's real easygoing and i just get the feeling he doesn't feel the same.he's older too.and when we talk he gives good eye contact.but then other times he looks away.laughs at some things i say.what do you think

2006-12-22 16:32:54 · 11 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 16:32:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I get along with my dads girlfriend in most cases, but she eats his money. My dad works 80+ hours a week, and he gets paid for 40 hours. I feel terrible for him. I told him to find a new job. She has a job, she has her own daycare, but she's off work on doctors orders. I'm worried he might dig his hole deeper, what should I do?

2006-12-22 16:32:16 · 12 answers · asked by ZackyVPresents6661 1 in Family

tom and i just got back from our yearly x-mas party at my inlaws house.when we were there tom's exwife showed up with thier son to bring gifts(even the dog got a gift but not me what a surpise) and made herself right at home for more than 2 hours.i know what everyone is thinking that i'm a evil stepmom.but what you don't know is we had a party with joe's son the night befor with my inlaws to exchange gifts with him.she knew we were having our party and can just to make me upset.we do not get along at all she is very bitter and jealous that i married her tom and makes my life hell anyway she can.my inlaws did not invite her but she uses thier son like bait to get into these functions.i'm also mad at tom as this did not bother him at all and he has no plans on saying anything to his ex about this.i told him how this made me feel and he just said what do u want me to do i can't stop her from showing up.i'm just afraid that she got away with it this time and will do it all the time now.

2006-12-22 16:31:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So it looks like I'm about to go on my first lunch date in several years (and my first since starting college). I understand that the best way to act during your first date is just be yourself, and I certainly intend to. But, ladies, what do I absolutely AVOID doing on a first date?

2006-12-22 16:29:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend says he stopped smoking, but i don't believe him because he still smells like smoke. or it could just be me. Also, he's really acting differently; his clothes are more emo and he hangs out with somking senior, though there was a dramatic change in personality when he said he stopped. And he goes to his smoking friend's house almost every day after school (his mom works full-time) How can I tell for sure without asking? And what can I do about it and convince him to stop? He already claimed to have stopped. He's a freshman.

He has a reason to lie about it too. My friend who we think he likes (even though hes dating) literally chased him around the school when she found out. and I don't approve of it either.

Or am I being to paraniod?

2006-12-22 16:29:19 · 6 answers · asked by Aliiiii 2 in Friends

theres this girl a friend of mine is tryin to set me up with he told me to check out her myspace profile and so i did at first i just kinda thought y not but now its like soemthin is changin inside of me makin me into a better person i think im fallin for her i havent even met i just saw a picture of her with her hair coverin up one eye and smilin (she has a beautiful smile which is my favorite part about a female) and everytime i look at the pic a feelin comes over me i cant explain whats happenin to me but i like i havent felt this good in a long time

what my question is tho is should i wait until i hear from my friend (he is kinda playin middle man) or make a move (i have her myspace email) and if u think i say should make a move what should i say (i can tell other people what to say but i cant ever tell myself what to say)
sorry for the length
also please serious answers only

2006-12-22 16:28:03 · 9 answers · asked by cowboy76360 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking of Speedzone or something similar. Any more thoughts?

2006-12-22 16:27:30 · 3 answers · asked by matty 1 in Family

tom and i just got back from our yearly x-mas party at my inlaws house.when we were there tom's exwife showed up with thier son to bring gifts(even the dog got a gift but not me what a surpise) and made herself right at home for more than 2 hours.i know what everyone is thinking that i'm a evil stepmom.but what you don't know is we had a party with joe's son the night befor with my inlaws to exchange gifts with him.she knew we were having our party and can just to make me upset.we do not get along at all she is very bitter and jealous that i married her tom and makes my life hell anyway she can.my inlaws did not invite her but she uses thier son like bait to get into these functions.i'm also mad at tom as this did not bother him at all and he has no plans on saying anything to his ex about this.i told him how this made me feel and he just said what do u want me to do i can't stop her from showing up.i'm just afraid that she got away with it this time and will do it all the time now.

2006-12-22 16:27:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with my ex yet again for pretty much the same reasons as last time, but now i need that attention he gave me if you know what i mean and i have no one else to get it from...

2006-12-22 16:24:52 · 13 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm seventeen years old and very conflicted about what to do for Christmas. My dad died when I was eleven and just this year I moved out of my mom's house because I could not longer endure her abuse. With Christmas fast approaching I have no idea what to do. I want to spend time with both sides of my family, but I don't think this is going to be possible. I can either leave on Saturday and travel to dad's side of the family or stay in the area and celebrate with my mom's family. My mom has been very unhelpful in the matter and told her family members essentially that I don't want to be with them. Although, she invited me to the family function I get the impression she doesn't even want me there. I have suggested plans to my mother to work with both families but she is unwilling to do so, and plans on preventing my little bro from seeing my dad's side of the family. I feel bad about choosing sides, but what can I do? Does anybody had any advice for someone who is a hard place?

2006-12-22 16:24:52 · 1 answers · asked by 4077 MASH 1 in Family

2006-12-22 16:24:30 · 10 answers · asked by torontoguy_76 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a bf that has been cheating way too much, not on me, but his w ife. i am so in love i can't dump him, i mean he tells his wife that he has to stay at work all night for something, when really he rents a room in a hotel and takes me there, we usaully do the usaul take a bath together and then make out and then it gets more serious but the problem is that he doesn't know i am 21 and he is 30, it's cool and i have fun making out with a guy that had so much experiance, but know i think i am pregnant wat should i do

2006-12-22 16:24:01 · 9 answers · asked by Katleen F 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just admitted to me that he was bi, and that he may want a relationship with a man instead of woman. I'm not inclined to leave him. Should I offer him a threesome with another man in a last ditch effort to save our relationship. I love him more than anything.

2006-12-22 16:23:18 · 16 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Singles & Dating

We went on our very first date (out of many to come) last night. He said he would call me. I waited and waited and after an hour I decided to call him. I left 25 messages on his machine since last night and have not heard back from him yet. What does this mean? Did he lie about calling me? He said he would. Why would he lie when we had such a good time. I told him my entire life story and he was sooooooo interested. Should I keep calling him? I know he likes me because he said he never met anyone like me before.

2006-12-22 16:22:20 · 17 answers · asked by Fanny Loofburrow 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 16:22:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will she ever ask you to be her Boyfriend? I 'm 27 no girlfriend ever, but i'm wondering if in the future i find myself talking to a girl for a long time and we meet frequently ..and then suddenly i feel like i like her alot. Is there a possibility the girl will ever ask me, instead of me asking her... ? I really don't think i would ever ask

2006-12-22 16:21:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well lol how can u tell iif a guy loves u a mean we have been friends for ages but i havent seen him in about a year but he tells my family that he thinks he loves me and he tells me he loves me and always will he also said that he wanted to buy me a ring and that he wants me to wear it but whats confusing is that to anoy me he always talks about this girl liking him and that she wants out with him but he says he wants out with me and today he told me that this girl gave him a xmas kiss out of the blue a mean whats that about is he messng with me or does he love me am confused because i do love him xxxxxx thanks xxxxxx

2006-12-22 16:20:54 · 8 answers · asked by tasha a 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I haven't seen her for 2 years for now, if someday when I fix a date to meet her, I will love to take photos of her, do you think she will smile? I don't even know how to make girls smile. She don't smile much in photos, and she never show her teeth in photos either.

2006-12-22 16:20:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2 weeks ago i let 5 of my buds run a gang bang on my girlfriend while she was passed out drunk. she has no memory of this.. now when i sleep with her it makes me sick to be with her .how can i get over this.

2006-12-22 16:18:57 · 18 answers · asked by ma990rk 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been with him for 5 years.in the last couple of years,his grandma passed,and he got really depressed.he started drinking,and he just changed.he is such a wonderful person,when he is sober.but,when he is drunk,he is a whole diferent person.not a violent drunk.but i cant stand this anymore.i stood by his side,because i wanted to help him.even,asked his friends,not to buy him drinks.but,they always say,well,too late,i already did.and ,im done.i want to help him,but,at the same time i cant do it by my self.i cant stand,the smell,and the fact,that he always wants sex,when drunk.but,i just cant do it.he stinks.im just done.but,dont want to hurt his feelings.is there a nicer way to say,baby,im done with you?

2006-12-22 16:18:43 · 22 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother and I bought this house before my wife and I got married. I am going to take my name off the deed to avoid any problems.

2006-12-22 16:18:33 · 15 answers · asked by Dobe 1 in Marriage & Divorce