i have a bf that has been cheating way too much, not on me, but his w ife. i am so in love i can't dump him, i mean he tells his wife that he has to stay at work all night for something, when really he rents a room in a hotel and takes me there, we usaully do the usaul take a bath together and then make out and then it gets more serious but the problem is that he doesn't know i am 21 and he is 30, it's cool and i have fun making out with a guy that had so much experiance, but know i think i am pregnant wat should i do
2006-12-22 16:24:01 · 9 answers · asked by Katleen F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whatever you do, DONT get an abortion. if you dont want your baby, someone else does.
2006-12-22 16:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by laughoutloud22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hind sight is 20/20 honey. All you can do is tell the truth, facing the music is a lot easier than keeping up the lie. Also, I have to shame on, marriage is a hard thing to keep together without people taking your man away. Remember, this is the man that she invisions as the father of her children, and you are taking her life away from her.
2006-12-23 00:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making out? Girl that can't get you pregnant! You've been all the way! He is spoken for! You are in a mess alright! Pregnant by a married man! I just can't feel sorry for you. You brought this on yourself. You had unprotected sex, you knew he was married! You are going to have to get a pregnancy test if it comes back positive tell him. What else is there to do!
2006-12-23 00:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many girls do so many dumb things because they "love" someone and think that means they're allowed to turn off their brains.
You're in love? So what? You are damaging another woman's life for your own selfish desires.
Do this... stop seeing him IMMEDIATELY. If you turn out to be pregnant, have the child, and give it up for adoption.
Afterwards (or if you're not pregnant) go create a real life for yourself, not some sham of a life that is based on nothing but lies and sex. And trust me, honey, it is just sex for him. He doesn't love you, but saying he does makes it easier to take baths and fool around with you.
2006-12-23 00:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought of that before. If you think it's cool to be having an affair with a married man then you deserve everything you get. I only feel bad for the baby. I hope you take good care of it and love him or her more than you love yourself.
2006-12-23 00:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life and your own man! Would you want someone sleeping with your husband.
Granted he is wrong but if know he is married you need to get out. If you are pregnant then you will have some decisions to make.
2006-12-23 00:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by dmjrev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take pregnancy test and pray
2006-12-23 00:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by clement J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
raise kid on ur own or the other options, but that guy is scum
2006-12-23 00:26:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get abbortion.
2006-12-23 00:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by RAJ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋