Ok so I am physically (body wise) not a very attractive person. I am not an ugly fat either I am just fat and short. I dress nice and make myself look nice every day. I was wondering if there are guys in this world who would ask out a short fat girl because he likes her personality and doesn't really care about the way she physically looks. Do you think it is possible for me to find someone would can love me for me and not be so judgementally about my looks?
2006-12-22 16:35:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey I just wanted to say thanks for all the replys. It helps a lot and makes me feel more confident about myself.
2006-12-23 19:21:32 · update #1
I personaly prefer "plain" girls with good hearts and heads. Being a little overweight is not a big deal, I am pretty large, and with that comes a little extra weight too. so I have been "out" of some girls lists too. Luckily I have found a few women in my life who have liked the person that I am, and didnt mind that I was not physicaly perfect. You will find someone who will love you the person. Maybe even someone that you think is physicaly nice, as well as nice in the other, more important ways. I have had a few pretty cute girlfreinds, but they were good in other ways too. I'm thankful for that. Just be yourself, and someone will notice the real you and appreciate it.
2006-12-22 16:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is! You just have to believe it yourself before anyone else can see it. So you are short? So you are a bit chubby? Who cares, if you are wonderful, fun and someone everyone wants to know. Have a bit more self esteem and you will shine and I guarantee all the men will wonder why they did not notice you before! Have fun.
2006-12-22 16:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes open your eyes look around there are lots of fat ugly women and men that have found true love....Stop looking at yourself that way...
2006-12-22 16:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very down to earth and like a really nice person. to me you are beautiful you don't need a guy to tell you that. one day there will be a great guy for you.
2006-12-22 16:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely
lots a great guys out we r just hard to find (i said we cause i like to consider myself as one sometimes and now happens to be one)
looks arent everything and alot of guys know that the ones that dont r the ones that u dont want
have faith
2006-12-22 16:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, try smiling a bit more and carrying yourself with a 'you can talk to me' attitude. You'll be surprised how many people will notice you.
2006-12-22 16:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by NBinGP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is!!! There are guys for you everywhere...you just need to find them.
2006-12-22 16:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's very possible. lokks are not everything
2006-12-22 16:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by maya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! oh gosh YES!!! don't worry!!
2006-12-22 16:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by dancing4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋