Why hasn't he called me?

Question

We went on our very first date (out of many to come) last night. He said he would call me. I waited and waited and after an hour I decided to call him. I left 25 messages on his machine since last night and have not heard back from him yet. What does this mean? Did he lie about calling me? He said he would. Why would he lie when we had such a good time. I told him my entire life story and he was sooooooo interested. Should I keep calling him? I know he likes me because he said he never met anyone like me before.

Answer 1

Stop calling and find something else to occupy the time that you are waiting for him to call.

Girlfriend, 25 messages? That's a bit much. You don't want a guy to think you are hard up for companionship.

Think about it this way....as long as you constantly calling him then he knows you are tied to your phone. He knows where you are.

Also, your actions told him alot about you.
1) You are clingy
2) You don't trust him to do what he said
3) He said he'd call you. You didn't mention that he gave you a specific time and date.

Not all guys want a mother figure. You see all that calling that you have done is something an over-protective mother would do. His mother has already raised him. Go find something to do until he calls.
Stop putting yourself on hold waiting for a phone call. You are only driving you crazy. That's not good. I know it's hard but be patient. Good things come to those who wait. Good luck

Answer 2

Might be a little too much interest on your part. When a guy says he'll call it could mean anywhere from tonight until whenever. The more you push, the less likely he'll call back, you're more likely to scare him off that way. I've called the guy I like about three times in the month since he left me his number and I thought that might be too much... 25 times in one day is way too many calls. Ease back, give it a few days and see what happens. Then try calling, but call once. To a lot of girls an hour is a long time to wait for a call, but to a lot of guys, several days or a week is the average time. Be patient.

Answer 3

2 be honest i dont think he liked u bcause he would of liked u he would of call u n u left hem 25 message i think u should wait a week 2 c what happens n if he doesnt call let hem go cause guys can say a lot of stuff n he couldnt told u ow u anoyed me with ur story y bcause that wuz gona b mean. n mayb he got scared about that cause u told told hem about ur life n mayb he though u were giving to much information for the 1st date n he u want 2 try 2 call hem again or send ghem a message wait n if he dnt call u n a week or heard from hem then call hem 1 more time b cause he might have been doin suthing important

Answer 4

Slow the hell down! If he hadn't called you in two weeks, then you should get concerned. Maybe his phone died or something. I don't think he should have told you when he would call for just that reason, but that's how I am. Don't overreact! If he doesn't think you're psycho after 25 messages, then you might still have a chance. Good luck!

Answer 5

I cant explain why he didnt call but if you really called and left 25 messages you can come off to seem like a psycho just wait

Answer 6

25 Messages!!!! He thinks you're crazy. "I know he likes me because he said he never met anyone like me before". Now you have scared him away.

Honestly, I hope this is a joke. If it isn't you have serious mental and self-esteem issues. Because he didnt call you in a hour didnt meant that he wasnt going to call.

Answer 7

Do not call him anymore if you already left 25 messages he probably thinks your crazy and don't want to call you anymore. Just be patient and he will call if he really liked you if not don't stress there are plenty more fish in the sea

Answer 8

When he said he would call you,he didn't mean that night. Guys have a different time table than women. It could be a week before you hear from him again. Don't rush him, when he's ready he will call.

Answer 9

when guys date u they do this 3 day thing they wait 3 days to call u its to make them look busy but there not
hes not gonna return ur calls until the time is up

Answer 10

Sounds like what I would do call someone, and then keep on calling them untill they would call me back. Unfortunately, you may need to take a break from calling him or he may never call you back. Good Luck anyways.