ok well lol how can u tell iif a guy loves u a mean we have been friends for ages but i havent seen him in about a year but he tells my family that he thinks he loves me and he tells me he loves me and always will he also said that he wanted to buy me a ring and that he wants me to wear it but whats confusing is that to anoy me he always talks about this girl liking him and that she wants out with him but he says he wants out with me and today he told me that this girl gave him a xmas kiss out of the blue a mean whats that about is he messng with me or does he love me am confused because i do love him xxxxxx thanks xxxxxx
2006-12-22 16:20:54 · 8 answers · asked by tasha a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and btw he sometimes askes me to ask my friends out with him and his reason is because ii wont go out with him
2006-12-22 16:33:14 · update #1
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2006-12-22 16:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by Uri b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you both love each other then why not accept eachother. Perhaps he talks of this other girl being in the picture because he would like to be in a committed relationship with you but doesn't know how to talk about it. So he mentions some other girl to bring to the surface the emotions between you. It is strange but women do it to men all the time.
I think you should just ask him if he is ready to be real with you and conduct himself so no other chicks are kissing him out of the blue cause they all know he's yours.
2006-12-23 00:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case, honesty is probably your best policy. However, there are a few red flags that should be considered. Address the issues and lay his cards on the table. (not literally) His actions clearly show that he is confused because he only wants, yet he won't go through with it. Cut him loose, spare yourself the heartache. More power to you if you decide to work it out. Either way it is your call, you know all the details.
2006-12-23 00:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by aprilkadenkobe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask Yahoo......If you have to ask friends and family.....
sorry to tell you, but, he probalby does not love you. Real love is a bit more obvious to both people.
It sounds like you are both young and confused. People will lie to tell us what we want to hear.
He talks about another girl. Then you go find yourself another guy.
2006-12-23 00:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful about getting too involved with this guy. Having another girl in the picture doesn't make for a commit ed relationship.Don't let him manipulate you by involving your family in things either.
2006-12-23 00:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him why haven't you seen him in a year? Sounds like fantasy and relity is confused. He's a player not a lover. Let him play his games with other lives, not yours.
2006-12-23 00:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Flab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He;s trying to make you jealous to see how you would react. Its all a game. LOL!! Counteract his responses by telling him that someone is interested in you and see what he says. :-D
Good Luck.
2006-12-23 00:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you , he wont kiss that girl even if he did that cause he missed it with you
2006-12-23 00:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by banan b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋