theres this girl a friend of mine is tryin to set me up with he told me to check out her myspace profile and so i did at first i just kinda thought y not but now its like soemthin is changin inside of me makin me into a better person i think im fallin for her i havent even met i just saw a picture of her with her hair coverin up one eye and smilin (she has a beautiful smile which is my favorite part about a female) and everytime i look at the pic a feelin comes over me i cant explain whats happenin to me but i like i havent felt this good in a long time
what my question is tho is should i wait until i hear from my friend (he is kinda playin middle man) or make a move (i have her myspace email) and if u think i say should make a move what should i say (i can tell other people what to say but i cant ever tell myself what to say)
sorry for the length
also please serious answers only
2006-12-22 16:28:03 · 9 answers · asked by cowboy76360 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she just turned 19
i turn 21 in 3 months
2006-12-22 16:55:33 · update #1
If you can tell other people what to say, do the same to yourself. Write an email like you were giving a friend advise on how to do. If it is successful with them, it's bound to be successful for you. Good luck and Merry Christmas!!!
2006-12-22 16:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way to about somebody but I am not sure for a fact. I think you should make a move because I am a teenage girl myself. (Is she a teenage girl?) We don't want to wait forever for a guy to make a move or make the relationship a step higher. I don't know any girls that enjoy being around a shy guy. Once you maybe start talking to her, then go on dates, she'll understand you more and you'll understand her. Don't be shy but also don't put yourself in an uncomfortable position. Girls understand how a guy feels about her most the time but a lot of the time girls have no idea what's goin on so you should just be yourself, express yourself. Good Luck with that and maybe we can chat some time because I want to get some advice on guys. My email is
cutiechiclovesrock@yahoo.com
Talk to ya some other time
2006-12-23 00:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by BeatlesRocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really sweet that you are starting to feel that way about her but be careful. You don't know if she will even like you yet. You should go ahead and e-mail her so you can get things started before you end up proposing to her the first time you see her. lol As far as what to say to her don't be all serious about the way you feel, she'll think you're nuts. Keep things light and easy. Tell her how you liked her picture with her hair over one of her eyes. Have fun, I hope it works out.
2006-12-23 00:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see her in person on a regular basis (at school), you should approach her and chat her up! But if you don't know her at ALL, don't start emailing her randomly. That will be a bit weird. And don't let your friend do all the work either. Be brave, but cautious! Good luck!
2006-12-23 00:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't wait go for it just email her and tell her that her pic really interest u and u would love to get to know the person behind those eyes and wait and see, and if u have a pic of urself then send that with the email and give her something to think about
good luck
2006-12-23 00:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by jane_queen_of_jungle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds hot, what's her myspace? j/k. I would wait to hear from your friend. It's best to play it safe instead of messing up and screwing up your chances.
2006-12-23 00:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Kronos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, id wait to meet her in person cuz u never know if she really is who she says she is... hope everything goes good! ; )
2006-12-23 00:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by laughoutloud22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her yourself, because who knows, your friends might not always tell the truth on what yall are saying to each other
2006-12-23 00:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-mail her, and say: 'hey, im ____, i know this might sound weird but, do you want to go out sometime?'
it could work.........
2006-12-23 00:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋