Will she ever ask you to be her Boyfriend? I 'm 27 no girlfriend ever, but i'm wondering if in the future i find myself talking to a girl for a long time and we meet frequently ..and then suddenly i feel like i like her alot. Is there a possibility the girl will ever ask me, instead of me asking her... ? I really don't think i would ever ask
2006-12-22 16:21:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I imagine it is very difficult for you to ask out a girl, especially when you are very shy. The best thing to do is show a girl that you are interested....even if you are shy, show confidence. Smile and make lots of eye contact. You have to know that girls are just as scared as you are.....some girls are brave enough to ask out guys, but not all of them. If you know that a girl is interested in you, like if she tells you, you should definately ask her out.....but if you are still too shy....wait until you find a brave girl who won't be scared to ask you out! And don't worry, she's out there! Good luck!
2006-12-22 16:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by ChunkyMonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she wont ask you out because she has no idea you like her. come on...your a man!! get some confidence. i mean your 27 years old and never had a girlfriend. im like half your age. well a little older than half your age and i have had a boyfriend every year since i was 6! besides a lot of girls like shy guys. =]]
2006-12-22 16:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is coming from a bold girl who is now married to that shy guy. No the girl is not going to ask because even though you know you like her, because your shy you won't put out any signals to let her know that your interested. Believe me girls are not mind readers and even though they are good with figuring things out when it comes to shy men they are hard to read. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being shy but you can find other ways to let your feelings be known. My shy guy would send me messages because it was easier for him to write to me because he didn't have to look at me directly. He would also have a single carnation sent eventually moved up to a rose and then in one of his messages he sent me his phone number. I called him and after talking for several hours and laughing he finally asked me. Because he made himself comfortable enough to ask me. We have been happy ever since. You just have to find your comfort zone and find ways to make yourself known.
2006-12-22 16:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by Chula 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thnik she might if she likes you and have the courage. I asked my current bf for his phone number at the party and that's how we started dating. hahaha I was a little drunk, got to admit, I don't think i'd do it ever again. Ask her, if a guy asks me out and I don't like him I just say that i'm busy or something like that and I don;t think anything negative about the guy. You shoudn't be embaressed. good luck
2006-12-22 16:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by maya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get SOME confidence, you can't ever like this, there is really small chance a girl is gonna ask you, 1/1000000. Yeh, even if you are attractive, you gotta get some Confidence.... XD
2006-12-22 16:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are afraid of asking someone to be your girlfriend, don't worry about it. all you have to do is start small and subtle, like maybe something really casual that could be considered a date but then again might not be. see how she reacts, and if it seems like she's into you then just step it up a bit (if you know what i mean ;) )
2006-12-22 16:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by carlyray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you better find the courage to ask her otherwise she might not ever ask you out, especially if she sees you like a good friend only. That happenned to me but good think he got the courage to ask me and know we're married!!!!!
2006-12-22 16:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Kat's Lil LAdy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe, depends on the woman... but, my money would be on no...but if you like her, ask her. nothing ventured nothing gained... you may be waiting a long time and may never have a women ask you out...as long as you would rather be safe and not take the risk of asking someone out, you will just have to learn to be without, but it is your choice!
2006-12-22 16:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by kewtber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you gotta step up to the plate. IF you never ask a girl out or try getting their number then you'll never get anywhere.
2006-12-22 16:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by HOVO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to get over your fear and ask her out. she may be traditional and believe that a guy is to ask a women out. you may be waiting a very long time before she ask you out (that's if she ask). if you wait too long she's only going to see you as a friend and then you'll be in trouble. so go ahead and ask. good luck.
2006-12-22 16:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by Inez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋