Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

2006-12-20 09:09:43 · 14 answers · asked by suckingchestwound 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I'm Amanda and I really like this boy named Brandon and I think he likes me too, he is always looking at me and being goofy around me, and he is soooooo cute! i want to ask him out but i am not really sure what he will say so how do i ask him or atleast give a hint that i like him? i just broke up with my bf and he just broke up with his gf i really like him and i get butterflies in my stomach when i see him. he is soooo cute and funny and.....well you get the picture. how do i ask him out? what if he says no? I have only had one boyfriend before and he asked me out and i dont know what to do. can you help me? his name is brandon cox give me some info on him if you know him, i have known him for 4 years and i trust him and he trusts me and i like him and i think he likes me back. hw do i know if he likes me. he is always acting goofy around me and sometimes i catch him looking at me. i really like him ALOT. how cna i give him a hint that i like him? please help me i really need it.

2006-12-20 09:09:39 · 3 answers · asked by amanda hamilton 1 in Singles & Dating

I know they don't mean it, and I know I don't love them back so I don't say it. I just don't understand why guys say that though.

2006-12-20 09:09:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 09:09:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Two weeks ago i gave her one last chance .but she still continues to call out some guys name in her dreams .
I posted this 2 weeks earlier .telling you guys that my g/friend calls out some guys named Tony.on 3 separate
occasions and in 3 separate dreams .when i told her about it .all i got was sobbing crying ..telling me she dosen't know any one with that name ..and it could have been a friend from school days. when they were cheer leaders togather .some cockandbull story and that her name was Tooni.
I told her at the time .i wasn't buying any of it .she had her last chance then .i did tell her onece more and shes out on the curb..saturday night she said it again .so out she went ..she cried and said sorry .but no i am not having any of that, she can cry until the cows come home .
I had enough .Hey i am not taking some one to bed who i cared and looked after for, so she can call some dickheads name out in my apartment in my bed .yet it pains me when she phones and cries on the ph

2006-12-20 09:09:07 · 14 answers · asked by JJ 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 09:08:53 · 12 answers · asked by Tucker C 4 in Family

I asked her out last month a week before thanksgiving, and she said yeah, but then called me back and said she had a basketball game to go to with her parents that she had forgotten about. So I said fine, and we made a date for the weekend after thanksgiving. So saturday roles around, and she says she doesn't want to go. I got the message and pulled off, but then last week she made it obvious she likes me, the whole flirting thing, and fixing her clothes and hair when I come around the corner, and bumping shoulders deal. So today I talked to her and she said this week she has basketball practice and has not time to do anything. What the heck?? Any idea's?

2006-12-20 09:08:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why or why not?

2006-12-20 09:08:17 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to bake a wedding cake with real flowers and I don't know how to get the dye not to run on the cake. Please help thanks!!!

2006-12-20 09:08:15 · 7 answers · asked by lowcountry bakers 02 1 in Weddings

Big penis
muscular body
money
sense of humor


Please describe..

2006-12-20 09:08:02 · 15 answers · asked by J H 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you think....?
i was on the third date with this new guy who is divorced. he's 33 and i am 27. on the date, he got pretty drunk and told me why his marriage ended. he had sex with hookers several times, and also had issues with strip clubs and porn. he said this all happened 4 years ago and he hasn't done it since. up until this point, things were going great and i was really starting to like him. should i keep dating him?

2006-12-20 09:08:02 · 12 answers · asked by junebugger 2 in Singles & Dating

Last spring I called Family Services on my Sister Inlaws ex husband because I knew for a fact that he was molesting his 3 kids. And know the 3 kids are acting out sexualy with each other and get this, they are just under 6 years old. So, my sister inlaw told me all that was happening and so I had no choice but to call and turn him in. So I did. Because the kids didn't say that it was happening, they have no proof that it was. So nothing happened. The kids still go over to his house and are still being molested. The mom NEVER bathes the kids, never has them in clean clothes. The 5 year old little girl has a Urinary Tracked Infection and their mom won't take her to the doctor. It just makes me sick! I don't know what to do because I hate seeing these kids in this type of environment. I saw the kids at the store the other night and they looked like homeless children.They smelled real bad and their clothes were so dirty. What should I do? Should I call DCFS again? Please help

2006-12-20 09:07:31 · 5 answers · asked by I love my kids! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-20 09:06:18 · 5 answers · asked by jammy.greeny@talk21.com 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 09:05:50 · 38 answers · asked by jammy.greeny@talk21.com 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and common married female friend who is also married those two cheated...kissed, made out over a year ago. I recently found out about their ordeal through a common source and am waiting to see the woman's hub so we can all talk. I don't think he knows either because the woman still writes my hub emails even now. Anyway their kiss and all makes sense now because everytime they would meet in public, my hub and that girl always stared and gazed into each others eyes. my hub would dance with her and it seemed like a connection. But for a while now they have been exchanging emails, some of which my hub shares with me and others he does not and I find on my own. They write about their weekend plans, the family, work, jobs, everyday situations etc. The thing i notice is the lady writes to my hub always and then my hub replies back to her afterward.

I have never seen my hub initiate an email to the woman until 2 days ago. Apparently he talked to the woman's hub since they

2006-12-20 09:04:32 · 6 answers · asked by katezambelli 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can it be something wrong with my friend someone can tell her something do but sometimes she doesnt get it to they actually show her like shes taking class to be a medical assistant and the teacher have to show her in order for her to understand some things do that mean something is wrong with her

2006-12-20 09:04:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-20 09:04:17 · 5 answers · asked by vegeta_4121 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was at this woman's house yesterday to help her move furniture and she paid me to do it. After I was done, she walked me to the door and we said our goodbyes, however, she stood at the door and watched me go to my car prior to saying goodbye again. Does this mean anything or was the woman just being courteous to ensure that I made it to my car? This is the second time that this happened to me. The first time was with another woman where I hooked up her TV and VCR for her. Again, this was business and she paid me for my services. As I was walking down the driveway to my car, she stood at the door the whole time. I have heard the old urban legend that if a woman turns around to look back at you after she walks away, it means that she is interested in you. Would this apply as being the same principle?

2006-12-20 09:03:44 · 4 answers · asked by Joe K 6 in Singles & Dating

I recently got divorced and remarried. My ex-husband who has been with me and my daughter since she was 4yrs old and a great father to her, refuses now to spend time with her at the request of his new wife. My daughter is now 14 and is hurting very badly. What should I do in this situation. She really loves her stepfather and calls him dad.

2006-12-20 09:03:40 · 10 answers · asked by introspecmang 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know, I know, I hate these types of questions too. But I want everyone to give their honest opinion. If the general consensus is yes, then I'm printing this and handing it over to him.

First thing's first, he doesn't have sex with me.
And secondly, he's given me an explanation for everything listed here, but I still have a hard time believing him. So, what do you think?

-Opened condom wrapper on floor, not the kind we use or have used in the past. (His explanation: It was one we used, I just don't remember)

-Unopened condom in his wallet, put there before he spends the weekend out of town with his friends. (His explanation: He put it in there so we could use it)

-Shaved his, ahem, while I was out of state. (His explanation: It was for me)

-A small wooden jewlery bead in our bed. Not from my jewlery or his. (His explanation: He had no explanation)

2006-12-20 09:03:32 · 49 answers · asked by SHERINA 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 years old and never had a girlfriend i don't know why, I'm very tall and thin, 6'0", 155lbs (all muscle, almost six pack) Hazel eyes and black hair that flips out of hats and baseball caps.

I'm not bad looking I think, I got some acne here and there, not an excessive amount, but I look like an older boy, I thought girls like that? I've noticed most hot girls go out with the short, skinny, prepubescent little boys. (My school is weird)

Anyways I'm on the high school football and wrestling team. I'm funny and almost rediculously nice. Most of my friends have at least had a g/f at one point except me. -_-

I Think I'm just too shy to do anything. I Don't know which girls I like (but I'm positive I like girls lol), and I don't think any like me. I'm just stupid when it comes to girls I don't know how to talk to them and I don't know if any like me.

Any suggestions? No smart Remarks please :P

2006-12-20 09:03:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

get from people? have yo been told that it's like a chatting room?? have you been told that it's not right to go and ask a total stragner a questions about your personla life?

2006-12-20 09:03:01 · 5 answers · asked by Cheesy Stuff 3 in Singles & Dating

I was going out with this guy that was completely obsessed with me. He "loved" me. I never bought it, and eventually I dumped him. Now my he's going out with another girl, who is "way better than me" she's the complete oposite of me, so we don't get along. I'm not in speaking terms with either of them.
He likes her a lot (right) and now, somehow he found out that I still had feellings for him(which I don't) so he wants to flirt with me when she's not around. I'm so mad. He thinks that I really like him, and he could be with both of us at the same time. He said he didn't love me anymore, and this new girl, he was just using her at first to get over me. He's such an asshole, I'm glad i dumped his ***. What should i do? I want to get him back. Her too. She doesn't even know me, and yet she talks bad about me. It's probablly his fault too. I want to get him back so bad. what should I do?

2006-12-20 09:02:10 · 13 answers · asked by and so it begins... 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in this relationship and all kinds of bad things have happened to where I'm not in love with my guy anymore. I'm very comfortable with him but I know I'm not in love with him anymore. I'm sad because...well you know its sad when things have to come to end but I know it would be best. What makes me feel even worse is I feel as if he needs me. He doesnt have any REAL friends and very little POSITIVE family members. I've asked a couple people and they've told me it would be wrong of me to leave him over the holidays,even dangerous due to the fact that many people get lonely and suicidal during holidays. I agree. What sucks is I've actually met another guy. Hes super sweet totally goofy and all that jazz plus hes interested in me. He knows I'm in a relationship and knows I'm not gonna leave my bf, right now at least. I dont expect him to wait for me, but I dont want him to be the one that got away.

2006-12-20 09:01:59 · 3 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Singles & Dating

Over the years I have expressed my feelings about my husband having pornography in the home. I find it offensive and I am not comfortable with it (especially since he seems to use it as a REPLACEMENT for the real thing with me!). He has repeatedly told me that he respects my feelings on the matter... but over the past many years I have found HIDDEN pornography on three seperate occasions... and all three he said he understood my feelings and didn't need it so he would get rid of it. Well... I just recetly found a magazine and a video tape hidden in a tackle box in our garage (when I was looking for a piece of fishing line to hang something)... I just don't understand why he chooses to lie to me. Do you think he has a problem?? Am I being unreasonable asking him not to have porn?? Thanks.

2006-12-20 09:01:52 · 24 answers · asked by Jenna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what the hell is with men? i've been seeing this guy for over a month...we've had some great times together. you know, the kind of times where you stay up all night just talking about life. i thought this might actually BE something. we saw each other once or twice a week, and would either talk or email at least once a day. it seemed to be going perfectly. then, all of a sudden...he just stopped contacting me! WTF? the last i heard from him was saturday. he asked me to hang out, but i had other plans. so i texted him (once) on sunday - nothing. i sent him an email (one) yesterday - nothing. i'm done making any more efforts - i don't want to seem desperate, and i definitely don't want someone who doesn't want me. if he wants to see me, he knows my number. is this what guys do nowadays, just drop you cold? i'm in my mid-20's, but haven't really dated anyone regularly for awhile. i know we had no 'commitment' toward one another but i didn't even get a real brush off! or am i overreacting?

2006-12-20 09:01:50 · 6 answers · asked by beautifullyboring 1 in Singles & Dating

This bothers me. When this guy comes in close (close enough to feel his body heat but not quite touching), I simply freeze out of pure nervousness and excitement. Of course, I don't let it show. My ex has NEVER affected me like this. Can anyone relate?

You know...it's almost like you want to pull away, should pull away, but can't and don't want to. It's not a bad feeling. It's just I stop breathing and everything is tuned in on him.

***I'm asking this a second time because I really want to hear from as many women as possible.***

2006-12-20 09:01:37 · 9 answers · asked by Mike's Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 08:59:48 · 11 answers · asked by any 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with him for six years and we've now been apart for a month. I wasn't faking beeing in love with him so I have some days better than others I guess. He won't speak to me unless its a screaming match and he won't be honest. I have always felt like are honesty with each other would really keep us strong but I quess i was the only one being honest. He won't even give back all my things

2006-12-20 08:59:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

now she hates me. she won't respond to my emails. she'll never forgive me this time. it was 1 lie too many. what do i do.

2006-12-20 08:59:18 · 12 answers · asked by Sleeping Beauty 2 in Friends