My husband and common married female friend who is also married those two cheated...kissed, made out over a year ago. I recently found out about their ordeal through a common source and am waiting to see the woman's hub so we can all talk. I don't think he knows either because the woman still writes my hub emails even now. Anyway their kiss and all makes sense now because everytime they would meet in public, my hub and that girl always stared and gazed into each others eyes. my hub would dance with her and it seemed like a connection. But for a while now they have been exchanging emails, some of which my hub shares with me and others he does not and I find on my own. They write about their weekend plans, the family, work, jobs, everyday situations etc. The thing i notice is the lady writes to my hub always and then my hub replies back to her afterward.
I have never seen my hub initiate an email to the woman until 2 days ago. Apparently he talked to the woman's hub since they
2006-12-20 09:04:32 · 6 answers · asked by katezambelli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
both work for the same company and have known each other for 7 years now, we are actually common friends. So in that time his wife got to speak to my hub very nicely and then yesterday my hub sent an email to everyone wishing them the best for the holidays and sending them our holiday family photos. There was another email he wrote to her 2 days ago saying he told her husband he would be in the area on Jan 8th week and wanted to do something on Thursday or so when he's free with them. Okay so he has never written to her about his plans for going there, why today? You think they still have a connection even though they write about friendly how are you and I am working and studying and that kind of stuff? Is there a bond between them?
2006-12-20 09:07:10 · update #1
wow i guess u have some serious talking to do...
2006-12-20 09:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they still have a bond. ALthough they have a bond and possible sexual attraction doesnt mean there is anything going on though. My advice is to talk to you husband and tell him how you feel, he should love you enough to only have a buissness relationship with her at work and not be emailing her unless it is work related. If they have a connction they should not have any other contact then what is possible. they are both married and obviously can not contain themselves or they would not have kissed. keep the apart.
2006-12-20 17:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah and unless you're trying to make this a foursome, you need to do something about this soon.
LOL@ Stevie Wonder comment.
2006-12-20 17:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by cute_chocolate_buggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. They might be in lust, or even in love. What you are describing sounds like an emotional affair.
2006-12-20 17:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Stevie Wonder can see that.
2006-12-20 17:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TMI
2006-12-20 17:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋