2006-12-20 09:09:43 · 14 answers · asked by suckingchestwound 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would rather have a spouse, that does what she really wants to do rather than what I want her to do. My wife works, and she wants to. when we first married she thought i wanted her to stay at home. I told her, do what you truly wanted to do. She chose work and has a great career, we take care of home together.
2006-12-20 10:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by DH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we both have careers but my husband and I have had similar conversations in the past and I can confidently answer that he would rather have me work while he stays at home and takes care of the house. Although something tells me a putting green would magically appear in our backyard if that happened.
2006-12-20 17:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by CA DIVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get different answers depending on who you ask this question to. Some men are very traditional and would prefer their wives to stay home.
Men who has more self esteem in themselves usually tend to allow their women to do whatever she wants (whether to stay at home or work full-time).
Nowadays, many of the women do work full-time so the family can have duel incomes. If you're living in the bay area (San Francisco, CA), you'll find out more women are in fact working full-time.
2006-12-20 17:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife never worked much. She has had part time jobs over the years but ater a while she quits and just stays home . I earn enough for us so she doesn't have to work. I like her at home because then she is always there when I want her. She doesn't really like working anyway. I like it because she has no excuse for denying me my desires. And she's okay with that.
2006-12-20 17:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who ever has the job goes out and does it the other stays home with kids. i know my husband perverse to be out and working but i have had to be the one a few times over the years and he did his best at home but like he said he was no MR. MOM, he is not a multitasker and i am. so it depends on the people really.
2006-12-20 17:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a job. Without two incomes you cannot afford the house.
2006-12-20 17:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband was like ''you don't have to work if you don't want to'' but instead of staying home cooking cleaning(we don't have any kids) doing arrands i chose to attend school.and when i fininsh i'm going to work.he don't want me,but i aint staying in this boring house.he makes enough to take care of the both of us but i wanna do something in life before i start to have babies.
2006-12-20 21:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by Meow4Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband supports me and our family ever since we got married. he has a good paying job and we all depend on him. He is also very generous and I am very lucky.
2006-12-20 17:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a job because i dont make enough money for both of us and a family....luckily i dont have a wife or kids yet
2006-12-20 17:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work,There is less time on their hands to get themselves in trouble.
2006-12-20 21:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋