I'm 14 years old and never had a girlfriend i don't know why, I'm very tall and thin, 6'0", 155lbs (all muscle, almost six pack) Hazel eyes and black hair that flips out of hats and baseball caps.
I'm not bad looking I think, I got some acne here and there, not an excessive amount, but I look like an older boy, I thought girls like that? I've noticed most hot girls go out with the short, skinny, prepubescent little boys. (My school is weird)
Anyways I'm on the high school football and wrestling team. I'm funny and almost rediculously nice. Most of my friends have at least had a g/f at one point except me. -_-
I Think I'm just too shy to do anything. I Don't know which girls I like (but I'm positive I like girls lol), and I don't think any like me. I'm just stupid when it comes to girls I don't know how to talk to them and I don't know if any like me.
Any suggestions? No smart Remarks please :P
2006-12-20 09:03:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a really great guy DONT STRESS! The problem is your trying to find a girlfiend, you have to let her find you. I had the same problem when i was your age, but im a girl. All my friends had boyfriends and were "going out". I thought something was wrong with me, but there isnt. It took till my Junior year in high school but i finally got a boyfriend. He is great and i love him to death. You have the let the right girl find you. It so hard to wait but its worth it to let the right person wonder into your life. You sound really mature, so your probably just too mature for those "hot girls". As far as being stupid about girls, your not your just nervouse. Don't be! just be cool and be yourself. Your only 14 you have your whole life to find love. Like i said good things come to those who wait. Good Luck!
2006-12-20 09:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all I would have to say that from listening to you you sound like a totally awesome and cool person. But I am not exactly sure what to say maybe you can ask one of your friends to hook you up wit some one or one of there girlfriends to do it. I am sure that someone at your school has a crush on you but you just don't know it yet. Try talking to some girls you know just strike up a conversation. Then if you all hit it off ask for their phone number. Get to know them first before you go wit them. Oh or you can go on a double date with one of your guy freinds and his girlfriend and she can bring one of her freinds along for you.
2006-12-20 17:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by C.W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still young. There's no pressure to have a girlfriend and be in a relationship at your age. Don't worry about your friends having girlfriends and not you. When you're ready and you know what girl you like, just go up and ask her to go out with you.
2006-12-20 17:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by jjc92787 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a "hot comodity" so that the girls will come to you instead. All you have to do is be patient and work on developing your talents, skills, personality, style, etc. By the time you get my age, you will be asking how to get the girls off of you, lol!
2006-12-20 17:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be yourself and go for it. Maybe those girls you like feel the same as you do so don't be so hard on yourself. Eventually everything will work out in finding a girlfriend....good luck ... : )
2006-12-20 17:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by Rita N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the rush, chill out and enjoy finding out who you are, however if you must, chicks dig a confident guy, the reason the chicks go for the short guys is confidence, it exudes a sense of self control and a feeling of not being afraid, Be yourself but be confident around the chicks you like, look them in the eye when you talk to them and talk confidently, be your funny self just be confident and if they blow ya off go on to the next someone will dig ya.
2006-12-20 17:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by claimusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and be friends with at least one girl, it isnt that hard. Just talk to them. Ask them out. Maybe someone does like u but u just dont know that.
2006-12-20 17:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by hamster gurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl, i would try to get my friends to find out for me who liked me. Then try asking them out...asking won't hurt you know. Or tell you're friends that you really wanna go out with someone and ask them to set you up...yeah dude! ur school is weird
2006-12-20 17:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by alisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not trying to make a smart remark but u just got to ask one out it is usually that easy not owes but most single girls will say yes
2006-12-20 17:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by The godfather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way is to ask someone you like out and see what happens...
its something called 'nothing to loose'....
coz if you make a move, you might win something, but if you dont you don't even stand a chance...
2006-12-20 17:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by forgetAgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋