I was going out with this guy that was completely obsessed with me. He "loved" me. I never bought it, and eventually I dumped him. Now my he's going out with another girl, who is "way better than me" she's the complete oposite of me, so we don't get along. I'm not in speaking terms with either of them.
He likes her a lot (right) and now, somehow he found out that I still had feellings for him(which I don't) so he wants to flirt with me when she's not around. I'm so mad. He thinks that I really like him, and he could be with both of us at the same time. He said he didn't love me anymore, and this new girl, he was just using her at first to get over me. He's such an asshole, I'm glad i dumped his ***. What should i do? I want to get him back. Her too. She doesn't even know me, and yet she talks bad about me. It's probablly his fault too. I want to get him back so bad. what should I do?
2006-12-20 09:02:10 · 13 answers · asked by and so it begins... 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i didn't mean i wanted him back. I want to do something bad to him.
2006-12-20 09:08:46 · update #1
Let it go. No good could come out of trying to get revenge. The best revenge would be for you to move on and BE HAPPY without him... that would make him realize what he lost. But for you to stoop and go after them to get them back will make you look bad... and he'll be glad to be rid of you. Just tell him that you are busy whenever he wants to come around you. And get yourself busy doing other things that are productive and positive FOR YOU. Forget him. Forget her. It's not worth it. Who cares what they think?? You shouldn't. You shouldn't even let it bother you. Ignore it and move on.
You deserve better.
2006-12-20 09:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, save yourself the drama of it all. You are feeling what is called rejection, not hate nor love. Most of us have been down this road before. Find you another man that you really like and he likes you. Think about how good you will feel in the arms of a man that kisses brings chills down your spine and let go of the I am going to get the both of them. Too much energy wasted on two people you won't even know in 2 years from now,
2006-12-20 17:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by introspecmang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his girlfriend exactly what he told you - better yet, if you can, offer her some proof (an email or voicemail he sent you). Let the truth be his downfall.
Otherwise, just wash your hands of it, don't ruin your karma by getting involved in some petty battle. He's not worth the effort.
2006-12-20 17:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as revenge goes....something to make sure the girl knows what a two-timer he is. I'm horrible at revenge plots, so I don't know WHAT exactly that could be. I would not suggest doing anything that involves making him think you are interested....it might just get him going again. The girl might not listen to you either....if she is so full herself to believe this is a decent guy afterall.
Good luck-and thanks for clarifying your story.
2006-12-20 17:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well "getting" someone back costs much more time and energy than just moving on and not let it affect you. That really is the best revenge and it does not back fire...why stoop to thier level?
2006-12-20 17:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no clue what you want. Go back and read your convoluted question...he's an asshole, etc. etc. Why would anyone want someone like that back. Grow up and move on.
2006-12-20 17:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play a trick on him by inviting him over to you house and call his girlfriend a few minutes after you pretend to make out with him and make her see him with you (another girl!)
2006-12-20 17:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by shaniemr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not in you to get revenge on him because you wouldnt have to ask us what should you do to get revenge. Its either in you or not. I TOTALLY believe in revenge and I have done some sh*t that would blow your mind. I do not let ANYONE get away with doing me wrong. That includes family. You F with me, U will pay the price. I say you should just move on.
2006-12-20 17:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
its a good thing you are not with him. just ignore and live your life. if he see you are obsessing over this, then he will believe you like him.
2006-12-20 17:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run over his mother with your car, and while she's down, gut her, and decorate his house with her entrails, like Christmas garland. If he's got a puppy, eat it in frot of him.
2006-12-20 17:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋