Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

2006-12-20 09:26:17 · 9 answers · asked by gloangel93 2 in Friends

is it wrong to watch? and also i was watchin dave chapelle and like a girls gone wild commercial came on things were censored but u get the general idea..

2006-12-20 09:25:51 · 21 answers · asked by Improv 1 in Singles & Dating

My gosh, every year I have to claw the walls, so to speak to find just the right gifts for my husband, father, sons-in-laws, and now, even my grandsons, while my mother, daughters and granddaughters are so easy and fun to buy for. Is it just me or do other people feel this way, too?

2006-12-20 09:25:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I need help on what to get my mother in law for christmas even though she is not getting me anything, not that I care! I dont give to recieve on christmas, but something on a low budget would be GOOD any ideas? Thanks for the answers.

2006-12-20 09:25:07 · 26 answers · asked by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 in Family

2006-12-20 09:24:51 · 19 answers · asked by james w 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 9 months now and been with my husband for 4 yrs. His old friends wife was rude with me on the phone and in a round about way said I didn't know my husband as well as she does. She has not talked to him in 5 yrs. She holds onto the past and keeps telling me about how she had a special closeness with my husband and it was changed out of respect for me. She is married to one of his best friends and my husband said he has no idea where she got that kind of a notion. She has emailed me and said she will have her perspective and I will have mine. I told her off and said friends like that are not healthy for a marriage and that she should never speak to someones wife like that. Why is she trying to mess with me like this? What is up with the things she is saying? She knows we are newly married and trying to get pregnant. What the hell? Advice?

2006-12-20 09:24:50 · 18 answers · asked by babygrlpls 2 in Friends

Which do u want Santa to bring u and why?

2006-12-20 09:23:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you hold it against me?

2006-12-20 09:23:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousin told me that my girlfriend wanted me to kiss her. My girlfriend denied this but I think she was lying but Im not sure. We've been going out for five or six weeks now. What should I do?

2006-12-20 09:22:33 · 20 answers · asked by Mystery Man 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I meet this guy online and we've been corresponding for 7 months via photos, emails, IM, phone calls, text messages and greeting cards through regular mail(birthdays,holidays,etc).. He seems like a very nice guy and I enjoy talking to him. We can talk for an hour and it seems like 15 minutes. We know alot about each other and I've been able to verify things that he's told me. We have yet to meet in person. He lives in the mid west and I live on the east coast. He asked me if I would like to meet at his summer home in Florida. I declined. He has agreed to fly to my state for the weekend so that we can meet face to face. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks

2006-12-20 09:21:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the woman ive been in love with for yrs has announced she is engaged to be married. she knows how i feel and at one point said she felt the same and we were going to get together, but circumstances changed and it never happened. now she says she is sick of all her mates being married and having kids and she feels she is missing out. should i do something to stop her? or let her go? im confused about it all.

2006-12-20 09:21:04 · 25 answers · asked by big ric 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, so been going out with this guy over two weeks now - first boyfriend - am 17 - so how do i tell my parents - they're not like overly strict or anything - i just wouldnt know how to bring it up!

2006-12-20 09:20:48 · 28 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it healthy to miss your best friend everytime you see him/her go away for a time ? (month or day or hour.ect) I know it sounds like insecurety...but is it healthy ?

2006-12-20 09:20:04 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4 in Friends

we r both 14 and we have only been dating for a week

2006-12-20 09:19:38 · 11 answers · asked by lover boy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you get over a girl, who really have fallen for?
i find her to be a ideal match for me.

but she's already with someone who's like 7~10years older than her....

we are quite good friends, but from different race and backgrounds and can get along very well

I've tried asking her to spend some time alone, so that I can tell her what i feel, but she somehow denies it with a really good reason, so I decided to let her go.....

but its just so damn hard, i keep waking up in the middle of the nights and just cant get back to sleep again, i keep thinking of her at the back of my mind for the last few days~

I would really want to move on, any suggestions on how to forget a girl is greatly welcome.

Thanks for your time

2006-12-20 09:19:35 · 7 answers · asked by forgetAgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

it's our 1 year dating anniversary. I want to take her somewhere fun, memorable, not extravagantly expensive, lasts a day. we're under 21 and live in new jersey. please be specific. Girls...what would you like your man to take you? huh? lol

2006-12-20 09:19:09 · 2 answers · asked by hack 3 in Singles & Dating

I slept with this guy unprotected, I was drunk,he said he pulled out and now he is worried...we both married , He keeps calling and asking if i'm pregnant,,Now what I want to know was it done on purpose to hold me as a booty call ?

2006-12-20 09:17:27 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 09:17:16 · 29 answers · asked by vegeta_4121 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine (honestly, it's not me!) cheated on her husband. She despised herself for it, swore it was a mistake, and vowed never to do anything like that again. Her husband, she felt, hadn't a clue that she'd been unfaithful; nevertheless my friend had this 'need' to tell him about it--to confess. He nearly left her, doesn't trust her anymore, but she says she feels better having gotten it off her chest. Perhaps she's just a glutton for punishment, but I doubt it. Where do you think this psychological 'need' to confess comes from, and how universal is it?

2006-12-20 09:16:43 · 12 answers · asked by pat800 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin the same age as me (12), wants to see me. We're playing cat and mouse! She comes here, i go there! i miss her so much and its hard beacuse we are like sisters. I love her with all my heart i would anyting for her. Her mom, my aunt is too poor to get a phone and when she goes to her dads, my uncles house she never calls me Because he somtimes doesnt have minutes on his cell. What can do?

2006-12-20 09:15:43 · 11 answers · asked by montanna l 1 in Family

I'm in this relationship and all kinds of bad things have happened to where I'm not in love with my guy anymore. I'm very comfortable with him but I know I'm not in love with him anymore. I'm sad because...well you know its sad when things have to come to end but I know it would be best. What makes me feel even worse is I feel as if he needs me. He doesnt have any REAL friends and very little POSITIVE family members. I've asked a couple people and they've told me it would be wrong of me to leave him over the holidays,even dangerous due to the fact that many people get lonely and suicidal during holidays. I agree. What sucks is I've actually met another guy. Hes super sweet totally goofy and all that jazz plus hes interested in me. He knows I'm in a relationship and knows I'm not gonna leave my bf, right now at least. I dont expect him to wait for me, but I dont want him to be the one that got away.

2006-12-20 09:14:34 · 12 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I've been liking for awhile. Sometimes when we are around each other he is so sweet and considerate and then other times he says things that he knows will upset me. Like some girl is really hot or telling me about girls he likes. I've started to give up thinking that we will ever be a couple and all my friends think he is a jerk. Anyways strangest thing happened a couple weeks ago. I ran into one of his friends at the mall and we started talking. He told me that this guy really likes me. I was floored. I said he sure doesn't act like it and he said believe me he does just give him some time AND stop acting like you like him. I don't know what to do. I've invested so much as it is, but if it is true I would be so happy! My friends tell me to drop him now before 07 and don't look back. I don't want to hurt anymore over this guy but if he actually does like me why play games? Is it even worth me to try and play his game?

2006-12-20 09:14:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He likes music(pink floyd, sublime, for examples), bass guitar.He is tall and has long brown hair to his sholders. I want to get him something special because he is special to me. He loves the movie dazed and confused and he likes food. I have no ideas except maybe a live concert music dvd of pink floyd(dark side of the moon) . but i want to get him something else thats is more romantic and special. any ideas???

2006-12-20 09:13:37 · 16 answers · asked by Lovette 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 09:12:25 · 21 answers · asked by rays of sunshine 2 in Family

My husbands sister is pregnant and she just had a baby shower. It turns out that all my sister in laws (blood or not- I have a few because my husband has 10 siblings) got together and made a quilt for her and gave it to her at the shower? I never heard about any of this until she opened the gift at the shower so of course I did not contribute. Should I be upset? I am trying hard not to be but I am sort of hurt. I married the youngest and we have no kids so we are left out of a lot anyway but this really hurt. How would I go about saying anything to anyone anyhow? I really don't want to start a conflict. Any advice would be wonderful.

2006-12-20 09:12:11 · 19 answers · asked by Jamie A 3 in Family

Well friday I was late home and she had to call the plice. Now she freacks out when a guy in store exesice in fronet of me. I want to walk home but I don`t know to tell her I am walking home without getting in a fight with her.
She is easy to get in fight with. I wonder be high strong and not in tourlbe, Is there away to tell her in 3 weeks I am walking with my boyfriend and not get pickied up her.

2006-12-20 09:11:55 · 3 answers · asked by Grace D 1 in Family

ive broken up w/ my bf for 3 months already, we stayed in touch the first week, like we were still friends, but now we totally ignore eachother for no reason. kinda lame, but what can i do to be friends w/ him again? guys, what would it take a girl to do to get you to be friends again?

2006-12-20 09:10:46 · 6 answers · asked by M.O.B 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 30 and am struggling with the decision of whether to have children. I like children. I believe I would be a good mother. I love the idea of motherhood, except one thing. On the selfish side, I worry about my livelihood. I don't want to work the rest of my life, struggling to make ends meet, retiring when I'm too tired to enjoy it. I don't have the fear of not having someone to take care of me, because if I don't have children, I hope to be able to afford to pay someone to take care of me. And, before you get on me about how selfish it is to not want to have children because "I want to retire earlier", let me say that I can list several reasons people give to have children that are just as selfish.

I'm not looking for reasons to have or not to have children. I'm really wondering, for those that didn't have them, do you regret it now? Or, do you still have the fear that you may someday regret it? Will I live with the constant question, "Did I make the right choice?

2006-12-20 09:10:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just want to get him something sweet and sincere to drop off to his work. I don't have time to make any treats or such, just want to grab a little something to let him know he's appreciated. Thanks =)

2006-12-20 09:10:01 · 15 answers · asked by Sara Lee 23 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I need help...how much of an age gap is too much to have a relationship and makes the whole think just silly? I'm talking ahem older woman younger man....both over 21 of course....

2006-12-20 09:09:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce