I slept with this guy unprotected, I was drunk,he said he pulled out and now he is worried...we both married , He keeps calling and asking if i'm pregnant,,Now what I want to know was it done on purpose to hold me as a booty call ?
2006-12-20 09:17:27 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no i think he is just worried that you might be .. tell him to chill for a few weeks and get a home preg test and tell him the results... and no more booty with him he worries to much and makes you worry to much also
2006-12-20 09:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing holds you for a booty call but YOU. Take a damn preg test and tell the fool to leave you alone. If you get so hammered that you are not in control of the kind or who you are having sex with....you need to stop drinking!! Now that I think about it..you need to get tested for all STD, you can very well be infected with something and pass it on to your innocent husband. Shame on you and dont think for a minute the I was drunk excuse makes a difference. What the hell were you doing out with the guy in the fisrt place? You peeple killl me. Cheaters SUCK!
2006-12-20 09:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing - you can get pregnant even if he "pulls out." How old are you, 9? There are sperm cells even in pre-ejaculate fluids. He can come *on* your vagina, not even *in* it, and you can get pregnant.
Second, if you are both married to other people, and you are having sex, you *already* are a filthy booty call whore - you made yourself that - he just helped.
Best solution: [1] get skin implant birth control so you stop infecting the world with unwanted b*stard children, and [2] tell your spouses you were f*cking other people. It's only fair they know, and that you stop being so childishly selfish and making life decisions for them without telling them about it.
2006-12-20 09:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking you are the world. He is calling cause he doesn't want to be months from now getting a call from you talking about you are pregnant. He is married and despite doing the horizontal cha cha with you still doesn't want to be paying alimony. Man some people are so full of themselves. Wants you for a booty-call....Sheesh!
2006-12-20 09:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so scared and so shameful that you don't even have an avatar or real ID name. That tells me, you feel so bad about this whole thing, and now you are sitting all by your self while your hubby is watching TV (possibly King of the Hill) and you are glancing over your shoulder to make sure he wont crawl behind your back and read this....that's sad.
And this other guy...gee...if he KNOWS he pulled out (which is sorry @ss conception prevention) why is he so worried? Obviously he used you once and now he does not want to have anything to do with you, and definitely not a child!
2006-12-20 09:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jax4all 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, your in the wrong. I hope your not pregnant, and since he was drunk there is a chance that he actually might know if he did or did not pull out. Next time control your drinking before you do that again.
2006-12-20 09:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Still Standing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't have been drinking so much. Don't get an abortion if you are pregnant, dump the baby on him. Tell his wife about it and if she is understanding she will probably offer to help. Tell her that you really can't handle a baby right now and that the child should go to the dad.
2006-12-20 09:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by gubbgoogoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a jerk. remember the only person you should have a "booty call" with is your husband. As for the guy tell him to get lost if cheated on his wife he will be a dog to you too!
2006-12-20 09:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by renell G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to know the real reason he is calling you so much to ask if you are pregnant....he really wants to know if you are pregnant...if both of you are married then you both made big mistakes...the first one being you committed adultry...the second is that both of exposed yourselves to the risk of pregnancy and std's by being 'caught in the moment'
I would suggest you get a pregnancy test and get tested for std's so as not to compound your problem by passing an std along to your spouse.
2006-12-20 09:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by thatsmystory&imstickin2it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg. This was a mistake. I have no idea why he is calling and no here can tell you for sure. Please confess to your husband, get an aids test, and sort out if you're pregnant or not. I hope you learned your lesson. I hate to lecture but we want to freak out over gay marriage when this is happening with straight marriages.
2006-12-20 09:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋