the woman ive been in love with for yrs has announced she is engaged to be married. she knows how i feel and at one point said she felt the same and we were going to get together, but circumstances changed and it never happened. now she says she is sick of all her mates being married and having kids and she feels she is missing out. should i do something to stop her? or let her go? im confused about it all.
2006-12-20 09:21:04 · 25 answers · asked by big ric 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to let her go. she is happy and that should be important to you
2006-12-20 09:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think after long years of love you have not yet proposed her for marriage. That might have caused her to leave you and go for another man. If you still love her even after all this melo-drama you are a great man. You could tell her you will marry her soon. If it seems she is not the right person for you leave her and look for your girl. In my case I am in trouble over the matter of how to approach a girl I love. I know her and we are friends but I LOVE her. In your case the stage of approaching is over. If you had the courage to ask her if she loves you then you must have the courage to face what comes next. Think about it and decide. I pray that you be successful
A true friend
2006-12-20 18:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by Renny_007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you honestly feel ,and that she should consider whether she is getting married for the right reasons. If you feel your the one and can give her what she needs then let her in on it. Dont let her get married just so she can be married. It is not the same to be married unless you are truly in love. tell her how you feel, if she is recipical then work with her and help her thorugh it the best you can. if she isnt give her your best and try to move on. and if it doesnt work out with the other guy you guys will still be friends and you can try again later.
2006-12-20 17:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
to truly love someone ain't just about being with them but seein them truly happy weather its with u or someone else, if she believed it was u who can make her happy for life she would of chose u but she didn't so its best to leave her be and wish her all the best! if it bothers u so much u can tell her no matter what she chooses in life u will stand by her as a friend even if u can't be her man.
2006-12-20 18:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by it_wasnt_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact her once and tell her once how you feel ,,,, If that doesn't get a positive reaction then it's time to move on and leave her alone ,,,, If you like this girl as much as you feel you do then don't be a pest ,,,,, Just accept it ,,,, There are allot of fish in the pond ,,,, go fishing ,,,,, You are bound to catch someone ,,,,
2006-12-20 17:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go to the wedding & stand up, tell her how you feel.Tell her you want a family,a lifetime with her & if she says NO what are you doing then you should walk & get on with your life. It will mean you can forget her easily because she wont talk to you again for a start & you know you done everything you could. Good Luck.
2006-12-20 17:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude, wat u gotta do is wait till the priest says does any1 have any objections and u stand up and say yes i do, every1 looks around and u say i luv u (insert name) with all my heart and i never want to be away from u, and i want to spead every minute of every day wiv u with us hand in hand together forever, or sumfin along those lines, if she says no y wont be thinkin wat if. also seriously dude u cant let them get married wivout u proposing urself cos if she is the 'love of ur life' then y would u let her marry sum1 else? i wouldnt thats for sure.
2006-12-20 18:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop her--- im a sucker for true love stories.. dude stop her now go get your girl tis the season for a christmas miracle. Even if she tells you to get lost you know you tried and then can start the greave and moove on process back away from the computer go get your woman.
2006-12-20 17:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by mytwoboyz1 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have no alternative but to leave her to it, if she truly does love you she will call it off to the man she is about to marry
2006-12-20 19:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either tell her straight and risk a fall out or maybe get the girl you want , or put up and shut up!
2006-12-20 17:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish the love of your life a good luck and turn into a new lane.
2006-12-20 17:26:35 · answer #11 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋