Ok I need help...how much of an age gap is too much to have a relationship and makes the whole think just silly? I'm talking ahem older woman younger man....both over 21 of course....
2006-12-20 09:09:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as both are legal age, I don't think age should matter if they care about each other.
2006-12-20 09:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Age difference really doesnt matter. If you are of age and know what you are doing, then it is alright. I am married and my husband is or just turned 20 back in June, and I will be 22. That is a 1 and a half year difference. But no one notices it. Everyone that we go around think I am way too young to even be with him. Someone even thought I was 14.
Do what you want hun, and just remember as long as you are of age meaning over 18 or 21 then the age difference doesnt matter.
2006-12-20 09:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are both 21 and adults age should not matter. However I am sure there is an age you are more comfortable with. Make sure you are comfortable with the age gap because if you are not the relationship may lack a little bit due to being uncomfortable. Myself I am 10 years younger then my spouse. I mean it is a judgement call~
2006-12-20 09:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think age has anything to do with making a relationship silly. I'm 21 and my Husband is 32 , we dont even talk about the age difference, we have a lot in common and we challenge each other and balance each other out, that's whats really important not who's older or younger.
2006-12-20 09:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we should allow society to dictate age restrictions in relationships. There is a 21 year age gap between my boyfriend and I (I'm 27). I have never been happier in my life. Just like with any relationship, it needs to have the essentials like trust, understanding, communication, interests, goals, etc. If those elements are in place, then nothing else matters. Love is the greatest feeling in the world, and age shouldn't stop anyone from experiencing it.
2006-12-22 01:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy-N-Luv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on maturity and where a person is at in their life. You really have to look at life experience , common interests, where you are at in your life and where you plan to go. In the case of the older woman and younger man their is often the issue of children. Many older women are done having babies, while younger men may still want children. I have a younger boyfriend, we have been together five and a half years and will be married in June 07. We have a ten year age difference, he is my best friend, we have plenty of interests in common and both are done having children. I am in my early 40's and he is in his early 30's. He had a rough life growing up and had to mature early and has experienced many things I have never had to deal with. So it isn't so much age, but being on an even level with one another.
2006-12-20 09:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we are talking about you than that is great, but if we are talking about another person that is it any of your business who and what they do? As far as age goes, as long as they have things in common, likes dislikes, they get along with each other and enjoy each other and they are both of legal age, then why the big deal? Love sometimes knows no age, race, color, and gender. Love finds you if you are one of the luck ones. Take a chance on love as it may only come around once and wouldn't you be the silly one that pasted it up or snubbed your nose at someone who has found love all because of a number!!
2006-12-20 09:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by motherof two 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 05:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my bf are 18 yrs apart doesnt feel like much and most ppl dont think much of it since weve been together for a while
i think anna nicole and her dead old fart was too much as for older women and young men aslong as there isnt a 25 yr gap its all good now the maturity of the man is another thing ive seen older women get along great with younger men but theres a fine like between baby and toddler
2006-12-20 09:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by oldermenrockmyworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is all relative. I know old 21 year olds and I know very young 50 year olds. I am 47, wife is 27 and we have a beautiful ten month old son, and we deeply love each other. while she runs ten miles each morning, I read the paper and fix our breakfast. everything else is very very good!
we have some older freinds and we have some young freinds and we mix them at partys and it works great. I dont think age matters at all just for the sake of numbers. my 26 year old daughter gets along great with my wife. before this relationship I was dating a 47 year old and she was in bed each night at 8, no energy, moody, hot flashes all the time and it drove me crazy!!!!!!
2006-12-20 09:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of things to consider. when you are younger the age is no so important. 7-9 years at 30 is not bad, but 10 years later the man older p[rostate problems, or the woman hormone-change of life, things to cinsider in marrying.
2006-12-20 15:47:00 · answer #11 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋