I'm in this relationship and all kinds of bad things have happened to where I'm not in love with my guy anymore. I'm very comfortable with him but I know I'm not in love with him anymore. I'm sad because...well you know its sad when things have to come to end but I know it would be best. What makes me feel even worse is I feel as if he needs me. He doesnt have any REAL friends and very little POSITIVE family members. I've asked a couple people and they've told me it would be wrong of me to leave him over the holidays,even dangerous due to the fact that many people get lonely and suicidal during holidays. I agree. What sucks is I've actually met another guy. Hes super sweet totally goofy and all that jazz plus hes interested in me. He knows I'm in a relationship and knows I'm not gonna leave my bf, right now at least. I dont expect him to wait for me, but I dont want him to be the one that got away.
2006-12-20 09:01:59 · 3 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whats 1-2 weeks?!? If he gets away in that amount of time, then he wasn't meant to be. The holidays will be over after next week.
2006-12-20 09:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the holidays tell him..."we are going in different directions.."....or say it's "you and not him".....tell him something then NEVER CALL HIM AGAIN EVEN THOUGH HE CALLS YOU...BUT TRY NOT TO ANSWER...get caller id!!!"" or just say, i want to move on"...he should "get that"....say some thing so he knows...it is over...
2006-12-20 17:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him down easy after the holidays,get him a nice parting gift
2006-12-20 17:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋