2006-12-20 09:05:50 · 38 answers · asked by jammy.greeny@talk21.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I only see an apology as a weakness when it isnt' geniune. For example....if someone has to apologize again for something they were suppossedly sorry for before. If you were sorry, you wouldn't have done it again!
2006-12-20 09:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I looked at your question very carefully and I took some thought to what you were asking, it took me for a sec to read it again and it hit me you wanted to know if women took sorry for a weakness? Well you could, so would, and then you have the maybe's, but understand it would have to be the situation at the present time he is saying sorry about.
Let's think about this ladies, if men knew what we do then what difference would it make for us to play the same game as they do. So why should worry, first off I think a man who does say he is sorry as a noble sign, he is willing to take the abuse a bit because he knows you are going be mad at him, he will take it for a bit if he feels that you will forgive him and some of us will, some of won't and then you have those maybe's that I spoke of earlier.
To me a real man is a man who can stand up for himself, take care of the family and provides for us to have a place to stay no matter where it is....At least he will try! so there is a break you must give in that area. So I would depend on the circumstances would give him another chance but he would know he would have a hard time working with me, but I do and will soften after I have been angry for a while...We all do ladies, there is no denying it!
If you have been with him for a while and had good times with that person then it would be hard to say no!
I found your question very interesting since you would feel men are weak?
Listen men aren't weak they are just a strong as you might think....Men can survive and will bounce back from any situation depending on the circumstances. Don't ever take a man's sorry (Apology) as a sign of weakness believe me that isn't it, every man has a breaking point meaning given time of the right person and honest person talking to him he will get back into the gate and play! Please feel free to take what I am saying any way you want I am giving you something to read.
Women you need a reality check on one thing (understand this is out of no disrespect of no women that rights into this column!) We need to quite assuming things that are not there. Men aren't too hard to figure out they will respond if we did half of the things out of kindness and not out of vendictivness we would get anything from them.....I am only speaking from experience I am a married woman that has a good man at home for me, but yet I don't respect that which makes me the biggest *** in the world, I have not appreciative to this man as I should so a many of my problems are caused by me. And I cannot blame anybody either.
Men are good and if a man tells you that he is sorry and he is sincere in his apologies and (I didn't say be nieve) but take him on a trial basis things will probably work out.
There are a lot of good men it is about finding them!
2006-12-20 09:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no---i don't. if they're crying when they say it, i think that makes them saying "i'm sorry" all the more sincere, and yet another reason why you should forgive him---unless of course he's used this before and alot, doing this all the time. then, you shouldn't forgive him---or at least say you don't know about forgiving him. but no, i don't see it as a weakness when they say "sorry". i mean, men are human too, so they should say sorry just like everyone else.
2006-12-20 09:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by K.D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me as a women think it's so sweet and cute that a guy would say sorry. Usually guys would act like there all hard so I think it's cute excpecially if he means it. But if a guy keeps saying sorry for the same thing I would dump him. So hope your not saying it over and over for the same thing.
2006-12-20 09:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on if they've been wrong or not.. if you do something wrong and DONT apologize that would classify you as a jerk. so.. lol.. if you're sincere and not whiney then why would it be a weakness? i think it's a wonderful thing. and if your gf or whoever sees it as a weakness.. then maybe it's time to move on because you could never win with someone like that.
2006-12-22 07:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by Emo B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO way...unless it's not sincere. Some guys just say it all the time so their gf's won't be mad at them (that is annoying). If you say it from your heart and you don't repeat the same mistakes, women will respect you. If you say it just to "get out of the doghouse," then yeah, a woman will think you suck.
2006-12-20 09:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not for me, men who don't say sorry makes me want to slap them across the face, but who cares what I have to say after all I'm just a freak
2006-12-20 09:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by A nobody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you are in the wrong, whether you are a man or a woman, you should apologize. It is hard sometimes but it is the bolder thing to do, and you will be percieved as a better person for it.
2006-12-20 09:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No on purpose, it's like they seeing a hundred dollar bill laying on the side walk while nobody's around. Sure the "right" thing to do is to try to find its owner or donate it to charity but why not take it if you know you (think) you can get away with it?
2006-12-20 09:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy saying sorry is a great thing for women to hear, it doesnt make them weak, it makes them sweet
2006-12-20 09:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by Lucky#11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋