I know they don't mean it, and I know I don't love them back so I don't say it. I just don't understand why guys say that though.
2006-12-20 09:09:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because guys from a very early age learn that those 3 little words can get them out of trouble and get just about anything they want from women including their mother. So when they get older and start dating, they know thats what girls want to hear and they can almost get anything from girls if they say them. "I love you" are probably the most strongest 3 little words in any language. Now whether they really mean them when they sat them is another story. Guys dont really expect girls to return them but know actions speak louder than words so be careful of your actions if you dont repeat them. Good luck and Merry Christmas
2006-12-20 09:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not only the guys,I've heard girls say it too and they don't mean it.I asked the same question here once,i think if you really love a person then you should say it,i know that we all want to hear those words but if you're not in love you won't feel anything.
2006-12-20 09:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by genie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for my section. ok, truthfully. I surely have under no circumstances had a boyfriend in the past. some couples say i such as you or maybe though technique they say, to instruct that they love her/him. Pftt.. extremely perplexing to describe. ok, some adult adult males or ladies are fake couples., some. not anybody. There are lots of explanation why they do this, I recommend being a faux. ok i comprehend its extremely stupid component to do. some motives: For exciting - i comprehend its extremely stupid. Leaving you heartbroken interior the tip.. For funds - Why? They ask and ask for funds from you, And once you're extremely stupid you finally end up giving the money to him. Love: Love is a mixed emotion. Its an extremely perplexing be conscious to describe reason it has a great variety of meanings. Why mixed emotion? reason suddenly once you experience inlove, You look satisfied, excited , etc. yet while there are some issues, leaving you unhappy. Its an extremely stable feeling, it may exchange you, it may injury you, you may kill your self because of the fact of it. (LOL). Love is actual, its actual. there's no such be conscious in my dictionary for fake love. So it ability in simple terms call love the actual feeling. Its between the explanation (WHY) they might injury themselves. I agree. Its look to stupid to love while your youthful, or they might look issues yet.. You dont comprehend once you fall in love. It happens each time, or everywhere. so which you would be able to not tell..
2016-12-30 17:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys use the words "i love you" so freely because they think that is what the girls want to hear and they are hoping to be able to score some points with the girls so they can try to get down their pants:>)
2006-12-20 09:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by bright eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't think they want to think about the meaning behind those words, to them, it's just words. They think it makes girls happy, and it does, but not when they don't mean it. They think it will keep you with them/show their commitment to you.
Notice I didn't say all guys, lol, so don't pin that on me.
2006-12-20 09:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gives the relationship some meaning other than lets sleep together until one of us get bored, or until I find what i'm really looking for. Would you rather him say, i love to sleep with you; do you really want honesty.
2006-12-20 09:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by shadycaliber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph just like you said they don't mean unless you both know its genuine.Love can only come about when you both know each others good and bad characteristics and until that happens it is not possible regardless of what he says.Merry Christmas
2006-12-20 09:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get in your pants, u need to find a guy who respects himself to not want to hurt you with throwing the LOVE word around.
2006-12-20 09:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get in your pants..
2006-12-20 09:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by remigio_castaldini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋