Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

I've met this girl on the internet. She gave me her phone number. We talked a bit, decided to meet each other. Then, she invited me to her birthday party, theater. And then, I've invited her at my family party for christmas. She said yes. But sometimes, I've the feeling she's not that much interested. I know she's a bit busy... but each time I've talked to her, it was really ok. When I see her in person, she has a way of looking at me that gives me hope... she's really nice and intersting. Well, what do you think about this ?

I've sent her an email (lame of me) about how I feel and stuff, but she didn't answer... yet. She told me she was confused and didn't know what to answer. What I know for sure, is that she accepted my invitation, so now, I'm a bit confused about everything.

Yesterday, she didn't call me back, she was probably busy... she's not a liar...

2006-12-18 19:12:09 · 10 answers · asked by eth1_hifi 2 in Singles & Dating

1. can a girl n a boy be bestfriends without being attracted to each other?

2. is it normal to be jeaulos if ur besfriend has sumone special other than you? should you be jeaulos?

2. can 2 bestfriends become a couple but still be bestfriends n not be so lovey dovey? can the friendship survive as a couple?
wut if they broke up? would there still be friendship? or is it a lot better to stay as bestfriend?

2006-12-18 19:11:40 · 6 answers · asked by haru 1 in Friends

2006-12-18 19:10:51 · 12 answers · asked by bikash s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why does this happen to me? Dudes input would be great...?
No offense intended here, im just wondering if this happens to dudes too. I can never get it 'UP" around meaty, stocky--fat women. Even if shes curvy, I just dont get turned on. Im actually gross out by the whole situation. But what I dont understand is how some other homie date a fat girl, how can he do it? iS it out of desperation or real love? I mean, when shes naked and you see all the flabs, wouldnt that be a site to vomit on? sorry to all who got offended im really wondering about this///

2006-12-18 19:09:34 · 14 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 19:07:58 · 10 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Singles & Dating

i got to know this guy recently and i only found out that we were actually in nursery school together.. same class !! coz in the were looking through old photographs togehter and in a class photos he was just rite beside me ..and to imagine we were close and played together when we were younger...
its been like 20+ years before we met again as we are both working around the same area now and only recently he approached me .. coz he felt some kind of connection when he 1st saw me ... but he was not sure..he told me he was searching for me all these years..
is he for real?? any thoughts

2006-12-18 19:06:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 19:06:34 · 6 answers · asked by Cheers 2 in Singles & Dating

Come on make me as mad as you were!

2006-12-18 19:06:33 · 7 answers · asked by * * 1 in Family

2006-12-18 19:01:13 · 11 answers · asked by Fall 1 in Singles & Dating

Accidentally looked at my boyfriend's e-mail (seriously total accident). He talks about a "sweet membership" to a porn site and sends his buddy the username and password. He goes into detail about the site ...DISGUSTING. Then he starts talking about going to Hooters and hitting on a "hot brazilian girl." WTF?!! He acts sooo differently with me. This is really hurting me. I feel like I dont even know him. (we've been going out for 3 years). What do I do, do I confront him or not?

2006-12-18 19:00:23 · 17 answers · asked by Kristina 1 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy that i really like but the thing is all we do is exchange mails and due to his really tight schedule, the most number of mails we can exchange up to is 3 which is limited to the weekends reply(he apologized to me abt that which i thought was sweet!) but everyday seems like a guessing game for me because i have to guess if he's going to reply today or any other day or even if he wants to reply! at the beginning, i'm quite positive that he's interested in me but now i'm not sure anymore. i've asked him out before but i guess i was being too direct and scare him off a little, i wanna ask for his number or maybe out for coffee one day but i'm really afraid he will not reply and there goes our friendship which i cherish so so much..tell me what i can do?

he told me that he's having his hols now till 3rd of jan, is that a hint for me to ask him out? i don't wanna read too much in to it but i'm already at my wit's end..pls help..

2006-12-18 18:59:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 18:57:45 · 9 answers · asked by sona 1 in Friends

DOes this confirm that the French are just a bunch of Sissy Cowards or what? I don't think that they have contributed much here anyway? Supposedly they are leaving the French Special Forces, but I think that those guys could not beat Cub Scouts in a fight.

2006-12-18 18:56:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-18 18:56:06 · 18 answers · asked by ronizshyat2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with him for a while now
and he and he ex have been getting close
which i really don't mind
but they almost did it
do i break up with him?

2006-12-18 18:55:54 · 7 answers · asked by brazilianbeauty 2 in Singles & Dating

who would it b with and why??? would it b with somebody who is opposite of you spouse???
Me.... Keyshia cole baby

2006-12-18 18:54:50 · 12 answers · asked by j-chris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 18:52:59 · 33 answers · asked by firerookie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 18:52:44 · 6 answers · asked by adel a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

With the food, dresses, and colors. I need ideas for mine.

2006-12-18 18:52:24 · 16 answers · asked by almost married 2 in Weddings

and want to just mess around with her. But the problem is, I have a girlfriend that I love. Should I tell the stripper that I have a girlfriend and I just want to mess around with her? Or should I tell my girlfriend that I met this stripper and bring her into our relationship for some spicy times?

2006-12-18 18:51:45 · 17 answers · asked by stryc9 2 in Marriage & Divorce

An analouge of my situation: say I knew my gf was into the "scene" but it had only come to my attention how into it she really was recently and had become a cause for concern. After talking with her about it, it occurs to me she recognizes she has a problem but isn't willing to get help for it. The tricky part is she wants to change but is convinced she is strong enough to do it by herself. So noble to want to and to try and yet so foolish. What would you say? Anything even? Accept it as part of her, the whole her? Maybe even just leave w/out a word? Very delicate situation. Unfortunately, it may need broken before it can REALLY get fixed. Any thoughts?

2006-12-18 18:51:08 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok i have been seeing this girl for 2 weeks, should i get her a present? I mean is it too early, have we been seeing each other long enough to warrant a present? And no it is not me being tight! Just if i get her a present will she think i am a bit forward! If yes could i have some ideas? Thanks

2006-12-18 18:51:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i live with my mom and her hisband[my stepdad ron] and my mom puts me thru so much...ok well a few years back she went 2 rehab bc she was a drug addict and an alchoholic.she was off everything 4 like 3 yrs. and now shes back into drinking a lot...well not a LOT but enuff 2 start 2 ruin my life...but wait theres more...and in Easter she went into the hospital bc she took 25 painkillers 2 kill herself...shes been ruining my life ever since just by putting me thru so much...i wanna move in with my dad so badd bc he will give me privacy, a new life, public school[im homeschooled and hate it] a lot of better things...i dont wanan hurt my mom but i would rather do that then stay here...wat the heck do i do?

2006-12-18 18:51:04 · 26 answers · asked by Freak 1 in Family

2006-12-18 18:49:46 · 12 answers · asked by melissa13gonzalez 1 in Friends

I want my boyfriend to think that I am his best lover.

2006-12-18 18:49:38 · 5 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 years old and 31 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend & I broke up in October. We agreed that we both needed to work some things out seperately before the baby gets here. In that time, I have found a job, a car, and started substance abuse meetings (I have a drug problem but have been clean for 6 mos now). I feel like my life is finally coming together. Lately, he has been talking alot about wanting to get back together ... that he misses me, still loves me, wants to be with me when the baby gets here. However, his actions say differently. He has been "promising" to get together with me for the last 3 weeks, but hasn't come through. I can barely get him on the phone, he will tell me to call back but then not answer. I saw him more before he started telling me he wanted me back! He says he doesn't understand why this upsets me. I try not to let it bother me but I can't help it. Any advice on what I should do? BTW he has 2 other kids, a son who is 15 and a daughter who is 3.

2006-12-18 18:49:35 · 12 answers · asked by justsumchickie1 1 in Family

2006-12-18 18:48:02 · 9 answers · asked by Tawanakie H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

all because we are not from the same locality. i have been hanging on all this time hoping time will change their minds but they still say no. i am not getting younger. we love each other so much but my resolve is thinning out. wat do i do? please this is critical

2006-12-18 18:46:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 18:46:29 · 16 answers · asked by deepunderscoresweet29 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I want to saperate from my wife. but have got a kid whome i love and dont her to suffer in life. Please advice what should i do... At times i feel, i should let the kid go with my wife and start a new life of my own, and rollback on all the mistakes that i did by marrying her. But looking at the kid, i feel that i'm being selfish if i do that...

I am so confussed... I'm so unhappy...

2006-12-18 18:45:03 · 21 answers · asked by RN 1 in Marriage & Divorce