Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

It's been 4 months since I broke up with my FWB and my life seems really empty and I still think about her every day. Not sure if I am becoming obsessed or not but it has become a habit like it is burnt onto my brain, not sure how to ignore my feelings for her. This is the hardest thing ever

2006-12-18 20:09:09 · 5 answers · asked by dgdsgds d 1 in Singles & Dating

i think im still in love wit my ex... hes everything i wanted but it went all wrong on my behalf
were still 4nds nd i have dated other people but hes always on mi mind... he wants to stay 4nds apart 4m d occasional shift now nd agin but i want more wat shud i do is he playin me r does e like me???

2006-12-18 20:08:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 20:08:25 · 10 answers · asked by prinses 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We spent christmas, and thanksgiving with them last year and this year we decided to spend it with my side of the family. I tried to make it better by trying to open up to my mother inlaw and letting her know that we don't want them to feel ingnore so they don't think I am trying to take their son away; but all she did was blow me off. My husnad tried to back me up but he only made a comment or two and stayed quite. After that, she just kept on talking about other things. Then in conversation with another family member, this family member tried to say that the reason why my husband is sick (gallstones) is because someone is upsetting him. (saying I upset him) I had to say something and I did. It is just so hard, I don't even want to to visit them anymore. My stomach goes in a nut and feel that I will always be judge no matter what I do. But I have to go because it is my husband's family. I just get SO stressed and even upset, that I take out on my husband.

2006-12-18 20:08:21 · 4 answers · asked by Ruby 1 in Family

can i marry an adventist girl when i am an anglican

2006-12-18 20:08:11 · 2 answers · asked by pricer77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 20:07:50 · 16 answers · asked by sona 1 in Marriage & Divorce

they have sex with their girlfren using anal sex,cos its a taboo for girl not give her husband their virginity.
And he also say that their country tough to find prostitute,its is true?
Cant imagine still got this country nowaday.
Please post yr opinion abt this if u noe more.

2006-12-18 20:04:45 · 6 answers · asked by grace 1 in Singles & Dating

my date of birth is 03.11.1984 at 2.20 am

2006-12-18 20:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by shree 1 in Singles & Dating

Posted on 14-AUG-06


Assalamoalaykum Brothers and Sisters

Tell me..Is getting married really that hard and tricky??? I am kind of getting tired of finding someone.

Me...a very decent person, and mashallah I have achieved a lot as far as worldly matters go. I also try to lead my life in an Islamic way. In short, I am not that bad that no one would like to marry me. But still its ben very very tough for me to find a nice muslim girl to marry.

What has happened to people?? Why have they become so materialistic?? I am pretty shocked to know that people ask me what kind of movies I like, what kind of music I like and nothing else when they try to know me. I understand that one might want to know how I enjoy the lighter moments in life, but is that everything?? Shouldn't one ask about my religious inclination, my social/charity activities, my thoughts for society and things like that??

You can know me more herehttp://suepages.googlepages.com/index.htm

2006-12-18 20:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by susan lovely 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have never had a bf in my life and every time i ask a guy out they say no. How can i convinc them to date me? Am I doing something wrong?

2006-12-18 20:00:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years who i love to bits. I have just found out that he has slept with someone else.

He phoned me saying he cant believe he messed up big time. He loves me, hes sorry and cant accept thats its over, he cant see me with any other guy.

Hes only just realised how much i mean to him because ive told him its over. He said im his best friend as well as his girlfriend and he will never treat me like this again as he needs me.

Ive told him to leave me alone for a bit while i get my head straight. Do you think i should give him another chance knowing how much i love him?

2006-12-18 19:59:27 · 22 answers · asked by BLUE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well this guy has told me he really likes me and wants me to go out with him. But back then I wasn't sure so I kept putting him off. Now I realize I have feelings for him, but haven't told him yet. For some reasons he told me last weekend that he is going out with another girl. So I said oh! you have a girlfriend now. He responded that he went on a date with a girl doesn't make her his girlfriend.

So in the past few days, I have been calling him, but he never answers. I will see him tomorrow, should I say something? What's up with that?

2006-12-18 19:59:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i have good loks i guess

2006-12-18 19:58:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll keep this as short as possible: love my gf dearly and know she loves me but she can't always show it. asked her about it, we talked; occurs to me (w/out her going into detail b/c she just freezes) she has unresolved issues (given to her from what I can tell) that are pretty big. She knows she needs to change: I have seen her attempts; she is so strong and strong willed that she tries to do it by herslef but I now realize she can't do it alone and probably needs pro help. I want to be there for her and I try to be. I seriously know I can't do it for her, just want her to know I am willing to travel this road w/ her to the end. So what do I tell her? Anything? Lead by example? This is extra tough b/c no one I know has any practical experience to advise from.

2006-12-18 19:57:20 · 2 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

ok thank u 4 all of the help ppl...ive decided 2ask my dad...not sure how 2 do it...letter?face2face?grandparents tell it?idk and i dont wanna ruin Xmas 4 us...how shood i tell him?

2006-12-18 19:56:12 · 3 answers · asked by Freak 1 in Family

I have an issue with my boyfriend that he gets sex when he wants it, but when I start trying to have sex with him...he changes what we are doing. He will do anything to stop it.This has been a problem since the begining of our relationship,but I dont know how to handle it.I did of course speak to him about how that made me feel.I told him that I thought our relationship should be equal and that I have sexual needs that he is treating like they dont matter.He usually responds to me,"sex isnt the most important thing in our relationship,right?"Then what do i say?When we do have sex, the sex is great!I hate to say it, but every time he has ever tried,I have never been able to say no.I just love him,and long for that connection we do have during sex.I dont want to be one of those sad girls that will just take what she can get when she can get it,but sadly I really have been.I want to feel like a sexy woman that can turn her man on!This has broken my selfesteem a lot! What should I do?

2006-12-18 19:56:03 · 14 answers · asked by LadyAlysse 1 in Singles & Dating

A chance to pay before it goes to court?

2006-12-18 19:55:15 · 5 answers · asked by The King 2 in Family

i have the hots for my sisters best friend and her friend id obsesed with starbucks. my sister doesnt want me to like her because if we were ever to break up it would hurt there relacionship. for christmas i was going to get her friend a $100 gift card but i think that my sister wouldnt like that and get mad at me and tell her friend to stay away from me. her friend and i are fairly close we hang out together (with my sister) and flirt quite a bit. but when i ask her if she likes me she claims she doesnt, i think this is just because os my sister. do i get her the card? do i ask her out? do i tell my sister to screw off? i am confused?!#@!@?!#@


also im only 15 and her friend is 18 but i don t think she cares

2006-12-18 19:54:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told the guy i like and am starting to see that I had to be honest, and that I just got out of a relationship with someone i was in love with and that he wanted to work things out with me. he later said he felt i had lead him on and that id used him. Why? I was just trying to be honest about taking it slow and now I feel bad. What do i do?

serious answers only please.

2006-12-18 19:54:09 · 5 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 19:54:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When you realized that you were in love with a woman, what did you feel? And what did you do about it? Honestly.

Mature answers preferred.

2006-12-18 19:53:01 · 5 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 19:51:05 · 15 answers · asked by bbobski79 2 in Singles & Dating

things like making moves on the guy but what? what are some intrestin most fun things?

2006-12-18 19:50:12 · 4 answers · asked by lalala 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 19:49:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've ben confused on how to feel lately so I need your guys advice!

Okay so on Wednesday I have to go to Calorado to celebrate Christmas with my Republican cousins, aunt, and uncle. I have a problem with almost every person in the family I will be with. THe cousins are obnoxious, spoiled, thick-headed, and just plain UGH. The uncle is a sexist, racist, and homophobic jerk. (If he says the things he says here in the Bay Area he would be in trouble; They live in a VERY white part of Texas.)

Well, not only am I spending Christmas unwillingly, but I know Christmas Day they will have more presents and make fun of my sister and me. They are extremley rich. We live in the Bay Area so it costs more. I don't want them talking behind my back say "They got so little presents" or just not knowing how happy I am with my life and how this trip will make me miserable. I just wish you knew how bad they were- Thanks!

IN ADVANCE- Sorry for any typos its late here!

2006-12-18 19:47:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

from a scale of 1-10 how romantic are you?
1 being the worst and 10 the best... x x x x x

2006-12-18 19:46:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 19:45:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my friend of mine and this "mystery guy" was talking in bed and when i saw them i got hellllllla mad at her and waited til they finished talking or flirting .Once they were finished I yelled at her and said "How come you didn't tell me he was your ex?" and she said "I dont know" and she gave me a WTF and confused face Then suddenly we stopped talking and we walked away.

what does this dream means??pls help and thanks

2006-12-18 19:44:50 · 8 answers · asked by bianca 2 in Friends

there is this guy and he looks at me ALOT but doesnt talk to me and onr time he did something imbarssing and was talking and glansing at me...i like his but does he like me??

2006-12-18 19:44:44 · 7 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

abt my work abt my family n my reltations

2006-12-18 19:41:43 · 11 answers · asked by suchi_sweet20 1 in Friends