I have never had a bf in my life and every time i ask a guy out they say no. How can i convinc them to date me? Am I doing something wrong?
2006-12-18 20:00:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi! Sara, you didn't do anything wrong. Realtionship take time to build it up. When the guys say no, it doesn't mean u did something wrong. Give them sometime ok? Doll yurself up, get to knw their interest eg: games, sport and topic. One day U surely find yur prince charming. Take Care!
2006-12-18 20:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by Phoebe C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of looking desperate by always being the asker, try being the one to be asked. Would you really wanna date someone you have to "convince"? I don't wanna say play hard to get, but just relax, and it will happen. Age sometimes matters, if the guys are to young, sometimes their more into doing guy things with friends than dating a girl. You know the kind that stand in a corner at a school dance all huddled together while giggling like lil school girls checking out the girls across the room! heh.. lol
2006-12-18 20:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by skoolgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the way, what's your age? There is nothing wrong in not dating. But if you are so eager to get into one, try group dating to begin with. Go out as a group, let other experience you as being yourself, let them indulge in your companionship. From there, if there are guys out there who feel that they are comfortable or are attracted to you, your life will start to change. Just remember, looks might be the first thing that guys look at, well, that is the ONLY thing that they can see if they have yet to know you, but looks is NOT the most important thing in a relationship. Good luck hunting
2006-12-18 20:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by glastnot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have a beautiful name (one of my absolute favorites), and lacking any other information - I would certainly consider dating you.
That you ask other guys out is also a turn on... so I'm not sure what's going on... Are you asking out the snobby as*wipes instead of the nice guys?
What kind of guy are you asking out - some are pussy marauders, some are just scum... could it be that you're going for the cute but lame assed guys?
Heck - more detail would help a lot...
If you want advice - just email or IM me (check my profile) and I will offer support, if you'll give me insight into women... love 'em, don't get 'em...
I'd love to trade insights with someone.
-dh
2006-12-18 20:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time dear, and the right guy will come along. You are probably young, and you feel everything strongly, but you will get over it, and maybe wait for them to ask you out, as they may be shy at your age, and want to make the first move.
2006-12-18 20:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know what your approach is, I can't really know if you are doing something wrong. My suggestion is to be yourself. You will get a boyfriend eventually. You're not alone. I know several people that didn't ever date until after university, and they were totally normal people.
Good luck!
2006-12-18 20:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by mbm244 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you are asking guys that out of your league, or you are not very attractive.
Join a gym and try some make-up or some revealing clothes.
Then you won't have to convince them.
2006-12-18 20:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for 1 u cant convinc a guy to like u. 2 u have to show him that your special n worth fighting over 3 talk to him 4. make him love u n 5. guys like people who they like. oh n smile at him i like when girl i like do that
2006-12-18 20:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i can suggest you is :
1) Dress well (1st impression is very important)
2) Be friendly
3) Don't be desperate to go out with guy (you scare them off)
4) Play hard to get (guy don't cherish girl that come easy)
you done nothing wrong, it just that some kind of girl who cannot attract guy...god is there for you...he'll plan someone for you!!
good luck~
2006-12-18 20:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by bishan_ite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not good looking you arnt going to get any guys that you dont know, so go for the ones you do knao, if you hot and you still havnt had a bf then you need to keep asking
2006-12-18 20:06:37 · answer #10 · answered by free2rok101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋