i have the hots for my sisters best friend and her friend id obsesed with starbucks. my sister doesnt want me to like her because if we were ever to break up it would hurt there relacionship. for christmas i was going to get her friend a $100 gift card but i think that my sister wouldnt like that and get mad at me and tell her friend to stay away from me. her friend and i are fairly close we hang out together (with my sister) and flirt quite a bit. but when i ask her if she likes me she claims she doesnt, i think this is just because os my sister. do i get her the card? do i ask her out? do i tell my sister to screw off? i am confused?!#@!@?!#@
also im only 15 and her friend is 18 but i don t think she cares
2006-12-18 19:54:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I wouldn't go spending a 100 bucks on some chick when you are not married. I am married and it breaks my heart to have to spend 100 bucks on my husband. NO NO NO NO. You are not going to make this girl like you any more if you do give her a big gift card. If she really does like you then the relationship you and she has with your sister will be fine.
Warning though. Girls at 18 normally don't go for guy three years younger not saying they don't at all just most of the time not. So don't waste your money save it for something you really want it will be much more appreciated in the long run. If you want to do something for this girl ask her if she wants to go get a bite to get or something.
2006-12-18 19:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Feather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh man dude, you need some advice here. First of all, the girl is too old. You're still in high school, and she's graduating soon (if she hasn't already). Second, you're not even going out with her. You should be going out for about two months before you consider giving anything to her. A $100 gift card is way excessive. That's something you give to someone you've been seeing for like six months or a year or something like that . . . not someone who you haven't even asked out yet!
Chill out and date some girls your own age. It will turn out much better for you than this would. Good night!
Oh yeah . . . I just thought I'd mention another thing to you. Girls date men significantly older than they are most of the time. She's probably looking for guys between 18 and 25, not 15. You're really at kind of a bad age to be trying to date. You will have more success with girls your own age though. Good night!
2006-12-19 03:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference here is huge. I know it does not seem like it, but it is. If your sister really does not want you to be with her, then you should consider backing off. However, if you really think she is the one for you, then a gift card would be nice, but do $20 instead. $100 is excessive and showy and no one likes that. You could always give her another $20 one at Easter and one for her birthday, etc if you still like her later.
2006-12-19 03:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make that a $30 gift card that much makes u sound weird and for your sister u have 3 options
A find blackmale matterial against your sister 2 shut her up
B take her prized possesion hostage
C slap her upside the head tie her up and put her in the attic and make sure 2 feed her and put a BEWARE OF ANIMAL on the attic door and tell your parents that there are mice in there
2006-12-19 04:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Avoid this like the plague... Your only 15, use that money for yourself... she is 18, and is probably into some 28 year old... Sorry bro.
2006-12-19 03:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by united_nations_pilot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ASK HER OUT,TELL YA SIS TO CHILL AND BUY THE GIRL SOMETHING,A BRACELET,EAR RINGS, NICE CLOTHES, A PERFUME YOU KNOW SHE LIKES. SAVE YOUR CASH FOR PROSTITUTES,JUST KIDDING BOUT THAT. BUT IF YOU WANT TO REALLY IMPRESS THIS GAL SPEND THE TIME TO RESEARCH AND SHOP A GIFT FOR HER. CASH IS COLD. BY THE WAY THE AGE DIFFERENE MAY MAKE A DIFFERENCE.SHE MAY BE FLIRTING BECAUSE SHE VEIWS YOU AS SAFE GROUND AND AS A FRIEND AND BROTHER TO HER BEST FRIEND,ALMOST LIKE FAMILY. SO DON'T SPEND TOO MUCH HOPING FOR TOO MUCH.
2006-12-19 04:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by looken4answers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
did you buy the $100 card with your money? wan't it too much for you? do you still have a lot of money left? if that's no problem then why not just give it to her then, as a gift.
2006-12-19 04:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
15 years old and you are thinking of getting a girl a $100 gift card to starbucks
yea, go for it, older girls seldom go for younger boys, eventually you will learn
2006-12-19 04:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no don't get the card, she's just flirting with you. do you really want to mess up your sister's friendship.
2006-12-19 03:59:11 · answer #9 · answered by ellierckworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be mean but I would It wouldnt ruin thier relationship it would just mean she wouldnt be visiting your home so often!!! make sure she lkes you before you waste your money honey!
2006-12-19 03:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lise x Lobotomy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋