Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

i am a typical 19 year old guy. for as long as i can remember, which is like from jr. high, i'v had nothing but female friends, for every 1 guy friend i have, i'll have 32 female friends. even now, nothing's changed. but im kinda worried that it will if not already, make an impact on me. i'm not gay, but i am kinda metrosexual.

2006-12-18 19:39:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 19:39:45 · 14 answers · asked by suchi_sweet20 1 in Friends

a gal is in love with her boyfriend for 3 years and the boy impregnantes another and decides to dump his long time love jus for a 2 month relationship with his new gal.how would anyone treat this?the first gal is so much hurt that she can not go on.

2006-12-18 19:39:02 · 10 answers · asked by sandy b m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 19:38:51 · 8 answers · asked by ! ! ! 1 in Family

He's implying that hes not cheating on me.but once I called him in his mobile and we were like talking then suddenly I overheard a girl calling him Hon (Honey) then his mobile went of.I called him again and he's insisting that the girl was just joking around and made me talk to her.How can you be sure if they are telling the truth when you feel deep inside you that hes cheating on you.should I continue with this relationship or not?

2006-12-18 19:38:30 · 5 answers · asked by st_joys0721 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 19:37:42 · 2 answers · asked by ! ! ! 1 in Family

I mean, my intuition says that if they were what they said they were, why wouldn't they give themselves the lotto numbers every week? And yet, the is something to stuff like astrology that I can't explain. Anyone ever seen a psychic and had it work? (My mom went to one once, a palm reader, and was told she would marry someone with a "K" and have 3 kids. Both dead on.)

2006-12-18 19:37:24 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

1-yeah , it's a fact of life .
2- yes , that's because of the man ; he never understand woman .
3- Not always . The right man knows what his patrtner wants .

2006-12-18 19:36:52 · 9 answers · asked by citizen high 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 19:36:41 · 17 answers · asked by firerookie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Please be honest.

2006-12-18 19:34:29 · 28 answers · asked by lady butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

Why does this happen to me? Dudes input would be great...?
No offense intended here, im just wondering if this happens to dudes too. I can never get it 'UP" around meaty, stocky--fat women. Even if shes curvy, I just dont get turned on. Im actually gross out by the whole situation. But what I dont understand is how some other homie date a fat girl, how can he do it? iS it out of desperation or real love? I mean, when shes naked and you see all the flabs, wouldnt that be a site to vomit ? I dont really get, ive been with a couple dates with "athletic" women, but I feel like im trying too hard to accept that condition.. and it ends up sh.iity. I feel like women should be in shape, because i take of myself. Im sure women too, are superficial like this, why not apply the same standards for men. Ladies, think-- would u want to sleep with a fat man? Why should she be fat and im fit. anyway, any comments? thanks.

2006-12-18 19:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister's son (Irmand, 7 months old) is hospitalized. I was told by my mom not to tell my sister about this cos she might be worried(she lives on abroad now with his husband). But when my sister call me to ask me about Irmand, i didn't have any idea what to do. so i told her everything... i just can't lie to anybody even when we talk on the phone
afterall, i think it's not fair not to let a mother know what happen to her child...

2006-12-18 19:33:39 · 11 answers · asked by me 2 in Family

my family disowns me, so now i live in mesa with some dude that knocked up my mom 18 years ago.

2006-12-18 19:31:26 · 11 answers · asked by hardie_christine 1 in Family

My family simply refuses to RSVP to anything, it is driving me nuts. My mother says to suck it up and accept it. I say its rude and that if they won't RSVP then they are off of the list. Help!

2006-12-18 19:31:18 · 19 answers · asked by Julia B 6 in Weddings

i know it sounds stupid, but i need some ways to make her feel jealous. please anyone tell me

2006-12-18 19:31:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IV BEEN DATEING MY BOYFRIEND BOUT 3 MONTHES AND THING ARE GOING GOOD I MET HIS 6YEAR OLD SON THE WEEKEND AND WE ALL SENT THE WEEKEND TOGETHER IT WAS REALLY NICE.HIS SON WOULD TALK OFF AND ON BUT I REALLY COULDNT TELL IF HE LIKED ME OR NOT MY BOYFRIEND SAID THAT HE DID. COULD HE NOT LIKE ME CAUSE IM NOT HIS MOM AND IM WITH HIS DAD AND IM 11 YEARS YOUNGER THEN MY BOYFRIEND I REALLY WANT HIS SON TO LIKE ME CAUSE I REALLY WNAT TO IT TO WORK BETWEEN US AND HE HAVE HIS SON EVERY WEEKEND, I WAS THINKING DID HE GO BACK AND TELL HIM MOM ABOUT ME,DO KIDS DO THAT SHOULD I WORRY BOUT ANYTHING?

2006-12-18 19:31:09 · 3 answers · asked by breab360 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im a wife and i dont know what to do to make my husband proud of me or be happy of marrying me,,and what san i fo to make this marriage work,,
by the waymmhe is overseas,,we just communicate through phone and IM,,
ynx for the answers,,

2006-12-18 19:31:04 · 9 answers · asked by igorota 1 in Marriage & Divorce

yes i am the same girl who just posted a ? about her parents but u'll just hafta deal ok?ok so i broke up wit my bf about a week ago...not a trsgic loss it was only 1 date...now i want a guy who will b there 4 me...neadvice on how 2 b more bold around new ppl?or maybe just 2 meet new guys...im super shy around ppl who i dont no by a friend or somehow...and i want sum1 2 b there 4 me badly...i need a lot of love...im fragile and my friends will never understand how much i need this kind of love...neadvice on how 2 snag perhaps an emo guy 4 me?

2006-12-18 19:27:54 · 11 answers · asked by Freak 1 in Singles & Dating

im 18
hes about to be 19
ive been going out with my bf for 3 years
and everything has been great

but today he got mad at me cuz he saw me talking
to one of my guy friends
but i meen i wasnt flirting with my friend or anything
but he still got mad
and i was like why dont u want me to talk to him

and he was like
"i dont like u talking to him"
but he was soo mad about it

he had never acted this way

im confused
i dont get it

2006-12-18 19:25:46 · 9 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Friends

2006-12-18 19:25:42 · 39 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

i was just wondering..i just recently had a bad relationship with an aries (BTW it didnt last a month) and im cancerian,i checked it on the internet and it sayz we are SO NOT compatible to each other,i also noticed that.
also my sister is aries and we are always fighting.like everyday.

could there be a pattern to this
is there anyone out there there like me?

2006-12-18 19:24:13 · 10 answers · asked by J o h n 3 in Singles & Dating

is it normal to stay single for more then 9 months?

2006-12-18 19:23:35 · 1 answers · asked by LiLi 4 in Singles & Dating

When I was in college I once liked this really hot girl so I gathered some guts to ask her out when she was hanging out with her friends (dumb!). So as I walked toward her, I step on something really slippery and fell before her on my jaw. I still asked her out but her friends were all laughing at me. She told me "in your dream?" as her response. There were a lot of people around and they were all laughing.

2006-12-18 19:22:50 · 11 answers · asked by DeadmanWalks 3 in Singles & Dating

Alright. Everybody seems to think the "scene" is important. Short of it: my gf has some unresolved personal issues (don't we all, somewhere) but after talking w/ her about some oddities I have noticed about our relationship and hearing her talk (sometimes and just absolutely freeze at others) it occured to me that they are big but they are not her fault. Can't expand any more b/c I don't know much more than that. After talking with her about it, it occurs to me she recognizes she has a problem but seems to think she doesn't need to get help for it (professional). The tricky part is I know she wants to change but is convinced she is strong enough to do it by herself. So noble to want to and to try and yet so foolish. What would you say? Anything even? Accept it as part of her, the whole her? Maybe even just leave w/out a word? Very delicate situation. Unfortunately, it may need broken before it can REALLY get fixed. Any thoughts?

2006-12-18 19:21:22 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

When I was younger (I'm almost 21 now), my father used to abuse my younger brother, verbally and physically. Though he never really did this to me (cause I kept my mouth shut) I used to witness what he did to my brother. I still remember words and have memories. The strange thing is it never really bothered me as a teenager, but now for some reason it feels like it's all coming back. I have a hard time sleeping because the memories come back into my head, and it really upsets me. The abuse doesn't happen anymore as we're adults... but it makes me angry when I think about it, like "why didn't I do something??" even though I was only like 9 years old. Could this be like Post-traumatic stress disorder?

And also, I find myself more attracted (sexually) to women than men. I just feel more comfortable around women. Could my dad's anger problem combined with the fact my Dad wasn't much when I was much younger because he was a truck driver have anything to do with this?

2006-12-18 19:20:11 · 9 answers · asked by Alicia 1 in Family

im five nine...its seems to be tall men only want the shrimpy girls, like under 5'7 and I dont get it. I want to hear at least one tall guy who prefers tall women, not taller than them just tall.

2006-12-18 19:19:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 19:18:28 · 15 answers · asked by bikash s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 19:16:37 · 24 answers · asked by Staenilghtened 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 19:15:38 · 29 answers · asked by Harry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 19:15:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family