Why does this happen to me? Dudes input would be great...?
No offense intended here, im just wondering if this happens to dudes too. I can never get it 'UP" around meaty, stocky--fat women. Even if shes curvy, I just dont get turned on. Im actually gross out by the whole situation. But what I dont understand is how some other homie date a fat girl, how can he do it? iS it out of desperation or real love? I mean, when shes naked and you see all the flabs, wouldnt that be a site to vomit ? I dont really get, ive been with a couple dates with "athletic" women, but I feel like im trying too hard to accept that condition.. and it ends up sh.iity. I feel like women should be in shape, because i take of myself. Im sure women too, are superficial like this, why not apply the same standards for men. Ladies, think-- would u want to sleep with a fat man? Why should she be fat and im fit. anyway, any comments? thanks.
2006-12-18 19:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
narcissus lives!
2006-12-18 19:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by Norman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you are honest.
I wouldn't sleep with a man who is much larger than I am. I am a very petite young girl. Sounds dumb to others, but that is my personal preference. I usually not really attracted to really bony, thin, or too tall guys though. I like average-built, short-ish guys (like 5'6, 5'9 at the tallest)... I am not that short (about 5'4) but I like it standing next to a guy who can appear to be the same height as I am. Lol.
You have your own taste and you can't help it if you aren't turned on by certain shapes and sizes, regardless of what they are. There are at least 6 billion people in this world and there is something for everyone. What someone loves, someone else will hate. And vice versa. If you like women who are into their bodies like you are, then alright. Just don't put too much pressure on them.
2006-12-19 03:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with wanting what you want,,,, however be very very careful that your lady has the same standards as you. Peoples bodie's change and things can go south over time or due to medical conditions. A mature person would look beyond the phyical and see the person on the inside. You may "feel" that way but it's downright immauture to talk that way. To each his own
2006-12-19 03:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by flutteredonby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fat women act like they want to be accepted even though they are fat, good for them!!!!!!
just because you accept them the way they are does not mean you have to be sexually attracted
in my opinion they need to accept US for the way WE are and that is that we are not sexually attracted to them
lots of things can be a turn off like bad breath
some guys DO like the extra poundage, more power to them and the BBW they love!!!!!!!!!
dont be cruel!!!! but at the same time dont feel guilty for having a preference
beauty IS in the eye of the beholder
no one can tell you how to love or who to love
2006-12-19 04:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Josephus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i get REALLY turned off by fat women because i think that more then a very small amount of extra fat is bad i mean I'm the fastest on my cross country team so y cant the ladies at least keep them selves from being fat
2006-12-19 03:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thanks for the racial slur you threw at me. I just have to comment on it a little bit. Of course you are entitled to say whatever you want, but it was really offensive.
2006-12-19 03:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by DeadmanWalks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their preferences in size, color, etc. Just because it's not for you doesn't mean it isn't for anybody.
2006-12-19 03:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋