im 18
hes about to be 19
ive been going out with my bf for 3 years
and everything has been great
but today he got mad at me cuz he saw me talking
to one of my guy friends
but i meen i wasnt flirting with my friend or anything
but he still got mad
and i was like why dont u want me to talk to him
and he was like
"i dont like u talking to him"
but he was soo mad about it
he had never acted this way
im confused
i dont get it
2006-12-18 19:25:46 · 9 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just discuss with him. I think some other problem is existing there.
2006-12-18 19:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by haque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy and insecurity? Lol, it's funny, but a guy will eventually feel possessive of his girlfriend. The slightest talk or act will trigger the jealousy. He's probably afraid of losing you to the other guy. It's a good thing, since you know it takes great feelings to trigger jealousy. However, you cannot let it gets too far to the point that he will control your communication status, etc. Clarify and assure him your eyes are not adverting elsewhere. =D
Happy holidays!
2006-12-18 19:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Noel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a valid reason... give it some time... maybe a week or two before u want to talk about it...
He would have cooled down by then and would be more open to ur questions.
2006-12-18 19:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a problem with jealousy and you need to reassure him. Pay more attention to him then you do your friends. If he is confident in your love the jealousy will lessen and soon disappear.
2006-12-18 19:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm if u have done nothing wrong then just let him go mad, and dont try to explain to him that u have done nothing wrong, dont even talk abt it for sometime. talk abt something else which u both are happy.but after sometime when he is cool just talk abt this matter.
2006-12-18 19:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by pinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Say your sorry and if that is not good enough what else can you do?
Offer to take him out to dinner or something, if he says no take someone else, lol!
Good luck and Merry Christmas!
2006-12-18 19:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger Crane Master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's jealous...
he has the same personality as I do. believe me that hurt him so much...
he afraid that you would leave him and go with that guy.
he don't like that feeling but he got no choice at all....
2006-12-18 20:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love without jealousy.
Take it as a good thing, he doesn't want to lose you.
2006-12-18 19:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him
2006-12-18 19:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by S@D L@Dy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋